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on thing for sure.... for any man who has interest to share time with a woman on Friday, or the Weekend..... It is guaranteed in the Beach Cities of Thailand... he will not have a problem finding company to share the Fridays, Weekends or any other days of the week. Not only will he find someone with relative ease, he can find someone who does not turn it into a nightmare of trips to share in the time span. If only they could export that mentality across the world, it would probably be a better world. 
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I think I could tolerate the humidity, sharing time with women seems to make any weather conditions much better. I think for me: what matters most is to be any place where women enjoy and don't make it a challenge or mad criteria program to simply share time with them.... It's so much easier ... when people "don't try to size up for marrying" everyone they meet. They can then build friendships, share doing things and communicate... as far as sex goes, that is purely up to the two individuals, Yes, it true people are often times overtly and covertly seeking a life mate on a constant basis, but when that become the "dominant motivation", they miss out on building friendships and simply learning to appreciate and learning how to accept being appreciated as simply being themselves. What greater love is there, than one of friendship becoming ablaze with deep and enduring appreciations which an instance can turn it into a life's love. If one we as people were more patient for that process to unfold, rather than trying to prejudge the situation on the basis of marriage material, BEFORE we even get to know the other person... This is probably one of the single most reasons, there are so many misfires in the area of love... We simply don't give it time to develop in its natural manner. We toss it away and neglect it, if it does not come from an over exaggerated moment of infatuation at first meeting. Then when it does not workout, based on those 'overly exaggerated moments"... we conjure up and blame everything but ourselves, for being 'impatient" and blinded by overly exaggerated infatuations... Time builds love into a beautiful experience, through the 'SIMPLICITY" of sharing without an agenda other than to share and appreciate the opportunity and experiences within sharing. Of all our life learning and our claims of education and such things, even our claims of wisdom from past relationships, why do we still act so immature to expect love to always come from overly exaggerated infatuations, rather then the depth and appreciation of having to come to know one another through sharing and experiences that bring us to appreciate the naturalness of each other. We get hung into the pretentious ritual cycles of infatuations game, and full well know that 'reality in living" is that work, life things and daily reality is not a perpetual glee of infatuations blindness, because the whole of our lives eventually come back into focus, with its challenges, its ups and downs and the many things that are true within life. some even go in the bedroom expecting to see rainbows and stars through their sxual activity, when they should full well know that 'every experiences" is unique unto itself. some are more dynamic and more dramatic than others and some are simply calming and some are inspiring, and some are like a spike of delight that the valley of reality comes back quickly... It's the simplicity of reality cycles of and within living. But are we of reality mindless to not loose appreciation by being of a mindset to not expect star-burst and lightening bolts, and truly come to appreciate the sharing of such activity and experiences. and certainly don't turn it into a ' Now you owe me " game. In some ways, these beach city environments, beyond all these things have found away, to deal with the basic social function of male and females sharing time. in-spite of the under concerns that people would like to find a life mate. That's the uniqueness of it all. ( It's quite interesting) even behind the fact that some of the situation have financial elements. but at least if its financial that is put up front rather than hidden behind a covert agenda. because every place has many (some) women who have too much of the financial agenda and its dominantly with a covert manner. and because of the covert nature... the un-necessary challenges, criteria and conditions diminish male and females from simply sharing time and enjoying life's many opportunities to share experiences and explorations of what exist in the world. Yes, IF Thailand Beach Cities could export this mentality about the world it would truly make for a wonderful global social atmosphere between men and woman. Maybe their Manner is Why their Nation is call "THE LAND OF SMILES".
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11/2/2013 8:00 am |
Hi,KQRBNP,The United States of America for many years has been to do so, the world is because the United States became the world?
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the trip is, even countries that have and allow the sex business to flourish as a part of their economy.... the US steps in and tries to tell the people they are being abused. When many times the people don't necessarily see it as being abused, they see it as a way to earn an income, to support a family, save to open a business and many other things and reasons people find to do this line of work. some of those in this business if anything see many of the patron's as easy picking and sometime they even seen the patrons as gullible suckers. The real trip is, places like Las Vegas, has had the sex trade mixed in with the gaming business for decades, and they have not curtailed that. If anything it is more robust than ever, and some of the Big Name College town and certainly the Financial Districts, and the Washington Politicians sector as well as any place there is a Political Convention, in many states, have a 'Call Girl " operation that is directly tied to these sectors. But we as a nation try and tell other nations what they can't do or even try to make them feel less than because of what they do in these regards, when we are doing the exact same things under the cover of darkness of behind covert doors. Even more so, some of the nations that have allowable non prosecuted sex business, also have less sexual crimes such as , because people can simply go pay a fee and do what it is they do. Even when it comes to the simplicity of body touch, such as massages and such... America has a big problem with it, and in some ways we are the most stressed out and body tense people within the Western Lifestyle as Americans. I've love to see Asian style Massage places spring up all over America and for the vice squad to leave them alone.
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