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Southern Women life, Their men and relationships All this week in and out of stores and talking with people, (small talk about simple things)... I noticed over and over the older women, would always mention their husband, and say something about what he liked, One woman was buying groceries, I said, from your Items I bet you make great dinners... She said:, I have a husband and , who loves to eat so I try to make sure I prepare good healthy meals. Another lady was looking at bread, she said: I don't think this is on sale, because My husband buys it all the time and this is the one he likes, I'm going to get it ... She looked at another bag of bread, she said it;s really soft... but I can't get it, because My husband does not need excess bread in his diet. I think this is something that is far less common in young women, because funny as it is, many young women don't even know how to cook. I often hear the older women talking about their husbands in a considered spectrum mixed in their conversations. What is interesting, the 'glee filled fun image that many young women put forth, turns very different very quickly, and some have very short lived relationship. I do think in the South, people value their relationships quite differently than in some places. Here, it appears that people do like going to various events, but they also like and enjoy home. The older women who have chosen their style of attire seem to be more settled minded, than the older women who try to wear the fashion stuff of young people and the way that fad changes... At a certain age, women adopt their hair style and seem to stay with it, they adopt a fashion style and within it they seem to wear it and look stable and neatly attired. the trip thing about teens, they may change sytle with the latest media promotion, it does not seem to phase people as they get older, because they know what they like, what is comfortable and they know where to shop to find it. Times are different and much comes and go, but the stable minded people seem to make their relationship sustain any changes that seem to come and go. Many seem to figure out how to develop budgets that work for them and they find a level of comfort with it, where they don't worry about extravagant things, they simply plan for the things they want, and make sure its of a good enough quality, that they don't have to waste money repurchasing a replacement every 6 months. They also don't seem be house jumpers, they are not up moving every 4-5 years. When they want to go on vacation they plan it and they do it and go where ever they want to go. There are many many many older couples who seem to have been together many many years and they seem to know each other very well. |
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Thank you, just hanging out... with friends...
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