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Do you know what you want in Loving I am not sure if many people even know what they want in loving, I think a great many are highly fixated on the external, ( not that its not important), but if we listen to much of the media and then listen to the sayings: "He's hot", "She's hot", it so much about body shape, face appearance and whether a person is introverted or extroverted. They meet, maybe they 'bed each other down", and then the air goes out of the bubble, then they are back at square one. Looking for another face, looking for another protruding posterior and looking for someone who has a level of flamboyancy in personality antics. They meet, they bed each other down, and they are on to looking again for another protruding posterior and looking for someone who has a level of flamboyancy in personality antics and a face that resembles something seen in the media or the image of face the media has dictated as being the flavor of the season. Then comes looking at the titles, the labels, and the bank account or material possession holding. It's really a trip, because in the big picture many people do lie to themselves, and many do have some concepts they equate with perfection, even when ignoring their own imperfections. They meet, maybe they "bed each other down", and then the air goes out of the bubble, then they are back at square one. If the media tells them they are not happy unless they have this or that, or unless they are doing this or that, people will toss away any potential relationship and go into a tailspin, looking for what has become media popular to pursue. When it's all said and done, They meet maybe they "bed each other down", and then the air goes out of the bubble, then they are back at square one. Riding The Unicycle of Erogenous Fancy |
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Why do you think, sex makes some relations last longer or breaks some relationships very quickly... yet the people claim they still love each other??? The trip is many people will say, how unimportant sex is, but it seems to have a big impact on many many relationships. either people are lying about the importance they place on sex, or what? there are some people who might even break up, but they want to retain the sex accessibility, and this is done by both men and women. Are people simply lying for image sake about the reality of how they view sex in relation and value to the relationship? this is as well true with women who pursue women. as some women are very brutal to the women they are with and some are very much more dominating and possessive to the point the relationship has lots of abusive things, yet these women seem to stay, as long as the sex is what they want.
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 I think maybe a good healthy sexual mating relation might be suitable for breaking through the stiffness of the mentality within this site.
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