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What are people waiting on to make this site interactive Does it have to be some slap stick comedy, does it have to be about some romance fantasy. What about all the multitudes of elements that make up reality? I don't think there is room for anyone to claim this site as dwindling, if they are reluctant and seek and find reasons not to be interactive about subject material. I don't get the people, do they think their face or showing a bit of leg and only talking about romance fantasy is going to make them desirable to a relationship. What ever it is, YOUR WHOLE reality is involved in relationships. !! that includes all the stuff people claim they don't want to talk about, but when they get into relationships, they develop attitudes and disposition about all of the same such things. Some walk around and build up contempt about the same stuff they will hold on to reluctance to discuss. All the posturing and claiming to be saintly and claiming some virgin mary demeanor does not mean anything, because the real you, will show up in any relationship that you invest yourself to become involved within. It's as crazy as people are with the subject of sex, but most people in this website will find a way to walk away from a relationships the minute they don't get what they want sexually. Yet they want to claim it as being unimportant. No it does not make up the whole relationship, but some will certainly destroy the whole relationship in regards to it. Yet they remain zipped lipped and PRETENDING to be so moral and so saintly and so virginal, and we all know its in the big picture of things, nothing more than posturing which does not represent the real individuals. Then you get those who rush on here talking about finding a Husband, That's the most absurd things, you should first find someone you can communicate with and then within that learn how to share, rather than expect all these traps and hooks will snag you a fish. if you don't work to develop a SHARING relationship, then maybe your whole concept about Husband is the problem. Because any man who works can alway find a woman who will provide sex services and their presence if he is paying, heck they will move in your house and live with you, if you tell them it is expense free. Every man knows that simple trip. The concept of finding a Husband should be more about finding a companion and having and supporting companionship, long before any fantasy of Husband as many see it even comes into the mind. maybe some people should watch the show "Who the bleep did I marry". If you are so desperate for a Husband, then may you have not figured out that to have a husband, you first have to become what is a wifely. some of the one who appear to make a potential good wife, seem to have less interest in finding a husband. They seem to be more concerned with finding someone they can communicate with and share the responsibility of what is involved within living and understanding how to have a level of appreciation that is stronger than their cycle and circle of expectations. It does not matter how good your think your sex is, it is still nothing more than a body organ, it does not matter how good you think you look, because time is going to change that whether you like it or not. It does not matter how much money you have or how much you don't have. because money will be here long after you are gone, and what ever you think you have, will eventually belong to someone else. it does not matter what your house looks like, it matter more if it has the loving nature of feeling like and being a home. it does not matter if you came from a wealthy family or a dirt poor family, it matters if your appreciate and respect others and have respectability about how you manage the character of whom you are. It certainly does matter what is your attitude, and it matters even more if you are an effective and interactive communicator. So all the hiding and posturing and silence has not gained you much to date, so how do you expect it is going to gain you any more in the future. Even those who sell sex for a living, have learned one thing, 'they have to communicate, and they do so even if both don't speak that much of the same language". It's so strange, because I saw more open honest with some of the bar girls in Thailand, that I see with a great many women in lots of places. They will talk about their lives, their aims, their aspirations, their likes and dislikes and many other things. They already know that they've made a pay as you go agreement, so there is not much left to hide. because they'd already made the agreement to participate in a sexual exchange of indulging desires. So, what is the basis of the general reluctance of people to talk in this website? I do wonder? |
