beyondfantasy3 113M
2003 posts
5/18/2014 9:41 am
Health -Relationships - and other Variables ( For Adult Minds )


I would like to know if this site has enough people who are interested in the maturity to the discussion of reality about health and the human being. Especially those who are pat the age of 40. The information I'd like to engage is beneficial to the younger people as well.

But the matter is, can the people open their minds to deal with these variables.

I know many are caught in the circle of 'romantic quest", within the focus on a multitude of "romantic interludes" which meet with fantasy wants expectations. until they don't generally respond well to any information which does not entail the consumption about such things.

It is often amazing what people care so little about, becomes the things which cause them the most and greatest distress in their relationship failures. And there is a multitude of "relationship failures", and these failures have done nothing more than instilled 'fear's, apprehensions, and the ever present finger pointing and blaming it on someone other than including themselves in the matter of the relations failure.
Sadly, such ones are doomed to repeat the cycle and result to find the same failure over and over and over. That process is called " Insanity"... which means doing the same things over and over and expecting a different result.

It's why the connection rate of people is so low in these websites.

People don't engage subject matter if its not about 'romantic fantasy", and how to 'corral a situation of erogenous stimulation, which feeds the ego and the hedonistic pursuit of self interested aims for self concerns in the want for pleasure".

As a result of such, they find 'confounding cycles" of 'delusions", and blame it on anything and everything but themselves.

People sling around the term" I want to get married", as if this is some childhood game like playing with some Barbie and Ken dolls, in a cycle of dress up and make believe. some thing their facial looks and the shape of their body and the covering with clothing name tags, is suppose to guarantee them something, they have failed to invest their mind and communication ability to develop and build a basis to reach an understanding.

many jump into bed, and the next morning they are wondering if they 'hoodwinked the other with enough drama mechanics", to make the other person deluded into a cycle of fantasy consumption. then comes the 20 thousand testing games. the result is they walk away more confused and colluded to the point that eventually insecurity dominates the spectrum, until they badger the hell out of each other, until they can't stand the presence of the other or the self discovery about or of themselves.

Therefore:

I would like to know if this site has enough people who are interested in the maturity to the discussion of reality about health, relationships and other variables of and within the human being. Especially those who are pat the age of 40. The information I'd like to engage is beneficial to the younger people as well.

Only one person indulged the intellectual investment of thought to respond to the post " Be careful a note to Men and to Woman "

beyondfantasy3 113M
4740 posts
5/19/2014 5:18 am

Thank you, warmfamily


beyondfantasy3 113M
4740 posts
5/19/2014 7:21 pm

I would visit China in a heart beat except financially I'm not prepared to do so.
After many years in the Airline Business, when they outsourced us, they ripped me off of my flight benefits.

I do have a few friends who have travel benefits, who'd probably assist me with a discount ticket.

I think this year, I can get my financial situation on a more upswing, although the job is a stuck in the mud situation when it comes to paying the wage to meet the level of work I contribute and provide.
So, I'm talking with people to work on a project which we hopefully can come together and make it work, which will not only generate a excellent product but as a result of that aim, it will provide available financial resources to do some travel things.


beyondfantasy3 113M
4740 posts
5/19/2014 7:29 pm

    Quoting  :

Thank you, Princess for the comment. The language is a big matter for many, I don't complain about any writing by others, because I give the Chinese people a lot of credit for the ability to make efforts to communicate.

I don't like it when anyone makes fun of others who make effort to communicate. I think if people are more considerate to try and understand what people say, who are not native English speakers or writers, it is a positive thing, which not only helps the other person have confidence to express themselves, but they at the same time learn better how to communicate with the usage of a different language..