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Odd things. It seems the many men are looking for some of the things they valued about a mate over decades and centuries. But, it is not so simple to find woman today who have dedication and stability and the will or want to bring contributions to relationship, too many are seeking compensation for even being present, as the dominant thing on their mind or in their heart. It's very sad - in this day an age what has become of life and the concept of relationships. They seem to look for convenience, monetary access, material shopping and following fads and chasing what merchandisers dictate them to pursue. media telling them their looks should get this or that, the media painting images telling them to barter sex for this or that. It's turned into a craziness that is astounding. They don't seem to have that interest to invest in relationships, it appears it far more selfish concern than ever in the history of human beings. Selfishness and bartering has dominated the spectrum, Vanity has moved forth in society to a point of absurdity. Implanted breast, when there is no cancer causing normal breast removal to require such implants, injected lips, injected butts and hair extensions, weaved in hair, over priced clothing just for the label, and purses and shoes are changed and pursed like its a desperation pursuit at great expense for the sake of a logo. They seek to be entertained, over engaging in interactive communication, as well as seeking to having favor granted for simple association and cannot deal with anything that does not focus itself upon flattering her or men offering himself up to be a servant puppet. "what is the world is wrong to have degenerated to this low level"?? IF men look around, many of the older stable minded women, have found a style which is balanced, it is not excessive in any area, it is not wasteful expensive, it does not need a name brand label on it, they don't try to change their character with every costume change, they don't need to be entertained on an incessant basis, nor do they expect someone to spend money on them at every turn, and they don't expect someone to feel obligated to give them a weekly allowance as if he owes her some expense paying for being there. These women are far more rare in life and as time moves forth they become even more rare. Many older women if they have gained any monetary holding, have no interest in a mate, because that might mean sharing. Something in which the current state of situations with many has degraded to a point to have no interest in such. Many of the "seductress types", which come in many varieties. generally they will not be with interest to invest in a relationship with any thought of a long term building of a relationship, nor should one develop any assumption that she is going to stay focused in the relationship. The ego of always wanting more and being satisfied with nothing, is the dominant theme of the times. We see what the media promotes, its currently about "exhibitionist" styling, which also comes in many varieties from over near nudity to, high focus on drawing out lusting interest via tease focused exhibitions. . Sex is used as a lure, but it rarely has any true appreciations within its manner of usage, for it is used to seek an angle for manipulation to extract some gains of material, money or favor, Many men see it, that's why so many, as so in this site, do not push very hard to try and make too much of situations. Over and over by many different phrases, the men are stating their reluctance, and they voice their displeasure as the options which they have to choose among, Many have learned by being burned, to not put money on the table and not to allow his money to become the target aim of the many types of thieves which has come to exist within the arena, pretending to want a relationship, when the aims of so many is truly about seeking convenience, material things and money. If there was general honest and sincerity as what once was a part of relationship aims... there would be more matches and more relationship built considering the communication tools available. When men can no longer trust women, the world become very different and it becomes very much cut-throat and the air of pursuits of monetary desperation takes over where love once existed. Odd things......... Even the young men today, are far less trusting of the young women, and it is truly sad when the young come so quick to the point of distrust of woman. We watch the media, the women bounce from one to the next, like they are themselves, 'toys', seeking a playmate for the week. Entertainers promoting as close to nudity as possible as their claim to fame, until we now have shows like the Kardasian's, built solely on "selling allure", selling excess and chasing the lusting of gluttony. the next brand of shows is the "Wives of ______".. bickering and whining while wasting money, doing nothing but scheming, shopping, talking and expecting their looks and the pretense of imagery to delude someone to think they are about something, when vanity is the tonality. As with some shows, we see them being arrested for some type of graft or deception, trying to hold on to the delusions they chase. Odd things...... It may be two generations (or more) before people come back around to figuring out what in life is most precious to value. |
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