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Health and Life it is a vital thing to have good health within life. I've seen so many people with things I'd never have imagined until I began taking treatments. The more I see, it rings true, that someone always has a worst condition than another. That is not Cliche, it is truly sad. We don't know how well we have it to be able to go to work, do things, walk about the house and many simple things we can and do often take for granted. I see old couples( 80+ yrs of age) there as well, where one is very sick and the other has challenges walking, but they help each other. they are bonded to each other. There are some younger couples there as well. As one woman said, It's amazing how sickness brings people together and share care unto and with each other. We often get so hung up in the looks, money and many things. and time and life continues to show us these are not the true value things. I see many of the older people are wealthy, as this facility was historically in a wealthy community, they are moving to an area where the current day wealth has moved, but they still provide services at this locations. I hear them during our conversations, speaking about many things. they no longer care about a new car, or fancy expensive clothes and such, they care about being healthy. On woman in her 80's told me she does not think the world will last much longer with the craziness and madness and how mankind has damaged the earth and its waters so terribly bad. There are procedures that people endure far more challenging than mine, and I would hope never to have to go through that. I can say this with conviction.. PEOPLE, choose a mate and stop looking for perfection, stop looking for wealthy, and stop playing delusional and self deluding games. You need to invest your time to make relations and BUILD unity. You buy unity by going through challenges as well as good times together. Stop being so fragile and full of yourself, because that wind can be knocked out of your fancy sail in a flash. Millionaires, Celebrities, and many many others die each day, some having had many things, and some having had no much of things. Realize Sex is not all its cranked up to be, because if it was married people would do it daily, but some have very infrequent sexual relations after they have been together for a while. Learn that love is work, and without work loves become weakened, and often taken for granted. don't let today's health make you think you are invincible, or assume that you have a guarantee on time which you don't have. If selfishness if your focus, you probably won't have a good relationship with anyone, and may have a turbulent one even with yourself. don't doubt your love, embrace it and share it, because in essence, that is all you have to give and share that has the highest of value, but don't try and place the value to a point that makes you self consumed, because love has as much challenge as it has joys, and without either, it would not be love. Today people are too quick to throw it away behind a fantasy chase, and when it gone they then realize what they had which they can no longer get back... Simple things to remember: The less you expect the less you are disappointed, but the more your respect, you get good things you did not expect. You are not going to find a puppet, because for one, you don't want to be one, so why expect someone else to play as if to be one. Two people, looking after the health of one another may well be the crowing glory within what is the duration of relationships. The more love you live, even if it by some means is gone and you have to find another, only loving will have prepared your for that too. "Perspectives of Mental Environments - Impacting Attitudes" |
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I'm often amazed how so many talk so much about 'romanticism", but they dodge and flee from the discussion of realism... and the fact remains they are often the ones who 'remain single", and remain caught in their self centered quest and crying about how they can't find love. They are not looking for love, they are looking for some erogenous fantasy, yet they are the first to jump up and claim erotica is not important, but that is all they can find to base their infatuation chases upon. What's more insane is they are quick to talk about what University they graduated or what skill they have, but they don't have the common realism to understand that none of that stuff has anything to do with what is loving someone. This is why most of them, are 6 month spinner, and they are off looking for another spin with the same delusion. Never learning from any of it. Until age kicks their ass and their looks change and some down trend knocks them off their ego ride. Then they only want someone long enough to get their ego uplifted and they are back on the 6 month spin, and on to the next spin. all the while talking about freedom to do what they want. You can't do anything you want without a sense of responsibility about it. If your sense of responsibility is selfish and shallow, you will be right back on the 6 month spin, all the while complaining about everyone but ones-self. Fancy clothes and buying things does not denote maturity, owning stuff and having money does not denote maturity. But having the integrity to learn to put in the works that love requires may well be the only standard that true maturity will ever know the value of what maturity is. At the very least ... don't screw up someone else life by having shallow intentions and then lie about it. If young just want a "fling" at least own up to it. If you just got the hots for someone and want to bang them, own up to it, don't turn it into a circus act. In the big picture of it all, your game playing will eventually play you out.
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The plastic stuff in a relationship; money, power, s+x, status; all one day becomes meaningless. It's not possible to convince younger people of this, they are very much influenced by TV, Commercial Advertisement, Status Among Friends, and many many things, it will take them many years to get older, to find out what really matters most. It would be an amazing world if young people learned earlier the value of the right things. But.. we see today, people trade in perfectly good cars, just because they want to say they have the newest one, the human being seems to spend a great deal of youth chasing things they feel will give them measures, only to find soon as its attained, they are looking to pursue something else. Never really realizing it is not thing that make one happy, it is the grace to appreciate what one has and to respect it enough to take care of it and maintain it properly. I see people buy 60-70-80K cars, only to find out in 6-7 yrs, it is not worth half of what they paid for it. If I have to buy another car, it will be a pre-owned. I don't want to waste money on a new one... The bike taught me a good less that I knew and violated what I knew, and bought it new. Now 30K later, it might sell for 15-17K and the sad part is it only has 4000 miles on it.
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I watched a show of some women who have developed an organizations, and another woman created a film called. "The Future of Food"... they were advocating organic, and putting pressure on the companies to use more and produce more organic food. they talked about the companies who make all the chemicals that go into food, are the same companies who have subsidiaries, who produce pharmaceuticals, which sell pills to abate the symptoms of the chemical they put in food cause. It's a profit circle, at the expense of peoples health. I try to limit the type of meat I eat, as I've also noted that some places sell natural raised chicken, as well as some sell fish that is locally caught. I've seen many articles advising against Chinese fish from Chinese Fish Farms. It talked about the things people feed the fish, including having chickens living above the fish vats, and the fish eat the chicken droppings.    Kids of the future need to be educated and schools need to re-start their future farmers programs to teach kids how to grow and cultivate natural food sources.
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