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People who Delete the Posting of Others. Very odd activity. almost dictatorial. As if something posted cannot be challenged, refuted or confronted with different perspectives. No one is speaking any indisputable gospel. some delete anything that does not agree with them and what they post. Some delete what does not patronize them. Some delete things which gives a broader and sometimes different angle of approach, or a different end resulting perspective. How amazing it is, that people can be of such arrogance, yet not recognize it as being such. No one is going to agree to everything written, and certainly no individual is so great that all they say is indisputable. If Debate is what it brings, then debate, if your points are valid then support them with debate, if they are invalid, then learn and grow an think.... These mental attitudes would by the human manner, be the same mental attitudes that show up "within relationships"... and that can be determent to gaining in common grounds or broader understanding within relationships. A great many things tell a great many things about individuals, far and beyond what claims they may make or state about themselves and their ways. But the questions is always - are they open to growth? Some things written; some simply just won't like it. that's just life and the many views that have many different points of ones individual experiences or concepts. Some things written will and do try by many means to do many things, that again is within the human spectrum. But communication which seeks to find understanding may well engage to pursue it. Most are capable of learning, some are less capable than others. Some have set in stone views, and some have views that are open to grow, learn and become more aware. Each person knows where they stand in these regards, now if they are willing to make adjustment if needed; who knows?..... But just up front deletion may be a greater loss to the one who deleted it. Now, there may be some things worthy of deletion, if its just blatant assault without provocation... The human being remains being very unpredictable in many things. for various reasons.  What if this animal fought with itself because of its own design patterns? |
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I blog/post on a few different forums and often have different rules for each. In general, if comments steer my blog in a different direction than I intended, I have deleted them. Not often, but it has happened.
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I'm fully aware that each is the master of their ship..... but one can never control the headwinds, cross winds or the impact of the trade winds, nor which waves will rise and how they will fall. some ships navigate the many currents and undercurrents always have their impact on the ways of the seas. One can always take a blog back to its' aimed course, but it is not certain that is will stay.
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One forum I blog at is heavily into politics and tempers flare. Sometimes comments insult other members and that's when it's time to step in and remove the offending comments or the forum moderator will delete the entire blog.
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One forum I blog at is heavily into politics and tempers flare. Sometimes comments insult other members and that's when it's time to step in and remove the offending comments or the forum moderator will delete the entire blog. I like visiting Citi-Data sometimes.
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In that particular case, I think its good the blog, containing the comments was not deleted, because it presents the hidden agenda of the person who has repeatedly posted such nature of commentary. I had at another time, advised the person, I was not concerned about his assessments of me, and to launch in a charge against your Public Service, in the Military, and his assault mentality with the racist overtone directed at the President is and should be challenged. Just for information purposes, Go to Google and look up Sovereign Citizens and other radical groups, There is a wealth of information that outlines the various character types of make up these groups.
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Our Local Sheriff's have held training sessions on these mentality types, I've prepared material to send to other work groups to insure they are able to identify when they encounter people such as "Sovereign Citizen",and other groups who are very disruptive and some have agenda's which is not wholesome toward the general populations of American and or Foreign Citizens. People should take the time to make themselves aware.
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We've done classes on this in coordination with the law enforcement groups, These Sovereign Citizens, clog up the courts, make claims to things they don't own, and expect to make claim for money they have not earned. If one reads the ACLU ( American Civil Liberties Union), one would be astounded at the violence that is engaged along with the many other acts continually committed by these groups. They love to use the highways, which are built with Federal and State Funds, and many other things created by State, Local and Federal funds, but they make their claims to have no respect for the laws or the regulations set forth in he States, Local and Federal system. Many foreigners have no idea and some have no thought or concerns until they encounter these groups/individuals first hand. Often times "foreigners" are generally oblivious to the nature of these groups. What's more interesting, there are many foreigners, who come to the US and if they have money, they rush to the arms of the Right Wing Party and some even develop much of the bias mentality espoused by the right wing party, As they think their money gives them a level of acceptance, which often is only surface level at best. I've seen it frequenlty - in the search for acceptance, they pursue the white only aims of association, But after some have settled for a while and find out, they are at times out cast in ways that are subtle, and without local or national recognition, except at the time of making a contribution. Unfortunately, many then move to areas that are predominantly made up of people from their respective country. It's rather interesting how it shapes up in a great many places. These things are often the UN-discussed elements. Some talk about academic performance of immigrants, but in some fields, one would have to step back and look at the general make up of the corporate executive ranks to truly understand how that does not translate into high representation in the executive ranks of corporate America. Over-all there is a great deal of work to do before this nation becomes the true melting pot it promotes. Many may just want to look at the rise of the Tea Party, and remember their slogan... "We want our country back", and think about what that statement implies and aims to pursue. When we look at States like Texas talking about ceding from the Union, and then look at the nature of politics and conditions in many rural areas of the State, much becomes clearer of the agenda and its aims. There's always a great deal in the details if one cares to consider and then take a closer look. The realization of the works needed to be a truly blended society is visibly apparent.
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What I often find interesting with this site, is people are generally wrapped up their wants for romantic fantasy, and have very little thought or interactive engagement of what is within the full spectrum. The TV made movies are just that, TV and movie made for such. It's about as equal to people watching some Old movies about Chinese people and thinking they fit the stereotyped portrayal... and suddenly if they are in the natural environment of the Chinese culture, they find all the delusions don't fit with the reality they find.
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I think Warmfamily unfairly banned Princess999 from his post, because she was talking about a simple reality, that did not meet with what he wanted to say. She basically said. People should think more about the sincerity of being a mate, more than thinking that catching and coming to America as if it will be some instant dream. Or that Western men seeking Chinese women, should first and foremost see the women as complete individuals, and not as some exotic fantasy or such, and get to know them as a person and individual and build a relationship based on commonality in understanding and objectives.
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I think Warmfamily unfairly banned Princess999 from his post, because she was talking about a simple reality, that did not meet with what he wanted to say. She basically said. People should think more about the sincerity of being a mate, more than thinking that catching someone and coming to America as if it will be some instant dream. But to think about the reality of what is a 'relationship". She further implied that Western men seeking Chinese women, should first and foremost see the women as complete individuals, and not as some exotic fantasy or such, and get to know them as a person and individual and build a relationship based on commonality in understanding and objectives.
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