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the interesting wonders within living We work, we find time for leisure and we wonder about many things of life, we make plans and we pursue various goals. In all these things we interact with others. Some points we find agreement, some we contend, but what is of interest is the work put into developing understanding. Each time we engage the wonderful arts of Pursuits of Understanding", we come not only to learn more of self, we learn more about others. This enriches our lives as well as it can bring moments of challenge, but in the big picture of it all. We grow. Its a cycle that continues through out our lives. A show today was talking about how to keep a relationship 'with the wonderful initial glow".. It's easy but it work... In the beginning we seek things to appreciate. It turns when we start bringing in expected response, and expected task and acts...We drive away the spontaneity of appreciations, when we do that, we began to fail at seeing the wonders of the individual both in the mate and in ourselves. We take the physical and began to encumber it with all kinds of conditions, then we start to weigh and measure it, against fantasy and fiction... driving many to get in bed and out with illusions and delusions, and eventual lead into to disenchantment. We do much of this in our own minds, then we blame it on each other. We spin in expectations built upon unshared thoughts, ideas and dreams, and we suddenly expect the other to be a mind reader. We get tripped out and forget that we still are the individual who have various daily personal challenges, and we forget that as such individuals sometimes, is the quiet time to rebalanced the self via our hobbies or just a moment of silence. There's much work that goes into it all, the more we love the work, the more we will find the growing of love within the relationship... and much become refreshed in the cycles of the days. Do we have what it takes to work for love to remain loving. If we do, we find our relationships grows, if we don't we find reasons to bicker and eventually set out minds to break it up, and hope the other will provide something we can blame as a reason. |
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I'm sure many people have had various situations as such when relationships change the tone and temperament. What did you learn about yourself? did it help your grow?
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