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Instincts You get a glimpse of much in the meeting stages, subconsciously the mind will pick up on some generalized motives and intentions of character traits. sometimes we may come to deal with and even like what we may have though we did not like, it depends on what understanding presents, confirms or refutes. It's probably not a good thing to go stumbling heads over hells, nor heels over head about anyone about anything. Because time is the factor that will unfold the reality and it won't do it all at once. So if you don't have the patience to build a relationship, you might have less of a success in what it becomes or does not become. Surely, Infatuation comes into play, that's just the nature of life. But as well, clarity comes too, behind anything which infatuation may proceed to present. In the big picture of it all.. It still is as much about you and what and how you do what you do, as it is about the other, in how they do what they do... and how that works in relations to what each other is doing at any given time. So, it might be wise to not let arguments get out of hand, nor let anguish and anger paint pictures which may not exist as you've painted them. Instincts are many things, but be aware, that we can influence how they interpret what they present. Patience seems to be a valued thing.... if one is to be wise in the acts and actions of relating... which may or may not lead to agreed upon loving; as in making a committed relationship. |
