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What do you believe Do you think you are responsible for finding a mate, or do you think love should just come to you because you exist? Do you think that perfection is suppose to come to you just because you imagine and want it, or do you think that reality is what it will be and from there you work hard to help make it become the best it can be? |
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I think it's a " do it for yourself kinda proactive world", if one sleeps it away they will get dreams, if they do nothing and continue to sleep they may eventually get the nightmare that awakes them to the reality which is, "they need to get up and do something to have something" This too, Includes Love.
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I know you have read my profile and responded many of my blogs. Do you believe what I said in my profile and blogs? Why do you believe me? or Why NOT? "Trust" is an issue at online dating sites. There are scammers but there are lots of real people too. I want to know why did you put your age as 103? Why? I don't believe you are 103 years old. You don't post your primary photo, but I saw your profile says you have 2 photos. When I use the mouse cursor over your profile I read some words but NOT the whole profile (I am a standard member). You know me more than I know you. Merry Christmas ! Honesty is the best policy.
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I use to have a picture up, but I removed it. I am 60 yrs old. I've read your post, you have expressed your sincerity, and explained your interest not to be associated with pretentious people. You don't have the character nor demeanor to try and scam anyone or seek to get anything from anyone. You've repeatedly asked that only honest people approach you. Therefore there is no reason for anyone to disrespect that . I think you are a trust worthy person, as you've expressed your challenges as well as your triumphs and within doing so, you cover the things which interest you and seem to be a smart and aware investor. It takes a lot to give up ones career to care for ones parents. I know I could have moved back to California, but as my mother is 82 and fragile, I am in the place I should be. It's not am area where the means and options to earn great exist but money is not the matter, what matters is that I can be here to make things as comfortable for my mothers as possible and maybe do things which during her life she was not able to do. I give her money when her's runs short, take her to the movies, take her shopping and if anything breaks, I try to have it fixed as soon as possible. Generally I go by on Saturdays and sit and watch TV programs with her. I'd like her to live in a better facility, but she's been there more than 20 yrs, and at 80+, I know, it is not a good thing to move people who have built their friends and associate in a particular place and she is content and comfortable there. she likes her independence, she likes to go to the Casino, so I give her money from time to time to go as it seems to be a source of entertainment for her. I personally am not a casino gambler, so It's not something I have interest in for myself. I bought her a computer and loaded on the games she likes, that seems to be something she enjoy tremendously. She is very smart, she has no college, but her understanding is in some ways better than many people I know who have gone to college. we upgrade her phone to a smart phone and she continually learn new things it will do, I'll probably upgrade it in a few months. She is a very simply woman, who is extremely gracious of even the smallest things. I don't have the money and resources I use to have, but I'm comfortable and have basically what I need and some of the various conveniences that I want. I come to the site mostly to write- which is generally what I do, I don't spend time searching a lot of profiles. I just write and comment on things which others may write.
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I am the Only Child. It was my responsibility to take care of my mom. She passed at 87. Her MD said if NOT because me, she probably passed 7 years sooner when she had spiral cord fracture in 2006. Thanks for let me know your real age. Honesty is the best policy.
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Quoting beyond fantasy It takes a lot to give up ones career to care for ones parents. ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Chinese has virtue / Merits called "Filial Piety". I am the Only Child, if I didn't take care of her, who else? Honesty is the best policy.
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