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What makes you happy within a relationship Each person has many things that help them connect and make a relationship, and within this there are some things that simply make people glow with joy. What are some of the things that help you find those moments of glow? Often so much within this site where people claim to seek love remains on the shallow end of the spectrum, and there's great avoidance of things which deal with the realities that come within the whole of relating. but the oddity is, when those same things that people avoid, brings pain, then and only then do they want to discuss it. Maybe if people prepare better by dealing with broad based realism's, they may become hurt less often and the pain may be less severe, as understanding is in some ways like a vaccination against some severe pains. Yes, its understood that most like to put their best face on and pump up the best sides of themselves, and that is great, but one can't neglect the whole of realism's, because in the depths of real life things, there will be challenges and there will be disagreements and many other irregularities. But in honest how many are really prepared to deal with these things as they arise? Not only knowing what become irritants, but its important to know what are the things that bring moments of glow is important. Learning each other is and will be an ongoing process if and as people hope and expect love to grow. Are you really prepared? it might be in some cases helpful to know what helps heal in the moments when challenges bring pings and pains. |
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Very good summation pointing to what is and what can be the benefits of "understanding"... these are often things gained in wisdom's span. but for those whom are in the midst of youth, they can learn too, via reading and discussing such things. There is beauty to be found and maintained through wisdom's guidance.
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Very good, two individuals sharing relations as individuals... It's Amazing.
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