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Life - Loving and YOU It's quite interesting. We never know how we will cope until changes bring us to cope. Its such a trip, as I go to appointments, I often see people with very visibly challenged conditions, some have conditions that are not visible at a glance but the impact of their challenges is visible in the over-all. I see so many that are younger and many many whom are older, who have suffered many breakdowns in their body and its abilities to do what we often consider to be simple things. Some require assistance to walk, some have challenges to talk, and many many people have such a broad variety of issues and challenges which in early youth would be unthinkable such things happen. Today, there are countless with devastating challenges, still they do as best they can to continue along their path. I often see people doing dare devil stunts, especially in their years prior to their 40's. Some make it through and some don't, some come through with devastating losses of various functions and some become paraplegic and other tragic things. I see couples who were once vibrant and out and about, and one of them has met some challenge which changes their dynamics, but in many of these cases, their mate remains with them, assisting and being considerate in ways that take great character of self investment., What do we know of life? Are we often aware of what it could be or what it might be, all of which can change in the flash of a moment. Some have faced tragic accidents, while they were peacefully going about their business. We saw recently the mass killing of in their school, what we don't know is how many suffered devastating injury that alter their life plans tremendously, as so many came to loose their lives. Now, in all of this, when people think of relationships, and put every kind of game style gambit in the mix, which ultimately in many cases result to deny them the same love they claim to seek.. They too are suffering devastating challenges, and unfortunately some never acknowledge it as such, but they remain loveless and diminished in what life could be with love. It may be wise to appreciate self, learn better to appreciate others, and put the efforts to move above selfish fantasy, and vain self consumption. To put love into actions while one is able to engage it with their whole self in mind and spirit. Many people, have a "hold out mentality', as if some magical mate will suddenly appear, that delusions has been lived by so many, and is still being lived by many even still. some make money and obstacle, in their lusting for someone with money, but they deny it when it comes to question even unto themselves, some put status and title as the obstacles, chasing for someone to give them a connection to status and pageantry. What a paradoxical life - the many ways that people can find to defeat love. Much led by fears, often rationalized into blames upon others, many of the same fears have never taken into account their own misgivings, which led in part to the pains they may have gone through, some have gone through pains, being passive, while being frustrated at not truly being expressive of themselves from the onset. As people come to find, they are not guaranteed anything from moment to moment, It may being some to move beyond blocking themselves, and open and learn better to make choices and share love. If one is expecting, seeking or lusting for perfection, they not only may become hardened in themselves, they may build a mentality in themselves which voids out their own potential to share and appreciate loves interchanges. It's always a 'day by day" love affair when two people make a relationship, because not one person can predict tomorrow, nor even 10 minutes from any moment. Don't let them " i'm so pretty I can wait", defeat you, Don't let, I go so much money I can wait, defeat you. Don't let the "I got so many options, I can wait, result to defeat you. Love and your living will never be more than you and whom you choose makes it to be. If it is an aim to have a problem free relations, one may want to grow up and mature beyond that, because one can't have a problem free life, even if they live by themselves. Maybe the big questions is; Is your will to love and appreciate being loved and share loving strong enough to be willing to deal with the ups and down that are normal in the world and life we live... and do we have the fortitude to hold fast to love and 'work through" the challenges. ? These things may have much bearing in how one choose to move forward in their life, living, relationships and loving interchanges. |
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I think some of the people in this web site will not be successful in finding nor selecting a mate. Generally, they avoid any subject that deals with things outside the fantasy illusion, as well as they don't engage discussion on the over-all things which exist in life. I personally, would not choose a woman with a shallow mindset non interactive and non exploratory mindset, who does not consider the many variables that go into what makes up life and relationships. It is not possible to know the whole person, when all they focus on is romantic fantasy and only respond to flattery and such. I doubt that anyone lives in an environment that is without some of the elements discussed above in the expanse of their social and family circle. Yet, they remain zipped lipped when these nature of subjects are present. No need to fear what you can't control and dictate, no need to try and slide off to the side and avoid discussing what is possible on the broad spectrum of human life. I find when people speak much about their education, but it does not encompass to consider many of such things, I wonder then if that education was truly broad based to encompass the whole of reality. maybe that's why even in our political world, in any and all countries, people make bad decisions when it comes to health and well being, because they don't want to consider the variables which truly exist in life in the big picture. I don't think anyone is out pursuing any of these maladies, but often times in life, it is not a matter of choice as to who gets what as to challenges, and none is exempt by any means.. but even those who do get challenges, still want love... Now, how is that not something to be discussed.
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