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What comes of and with what we call Advancement? Societies have moved along way forward in building structures, developing technical things, and innovations for health and programs of many sort. The more these advances take shape the less stable is the nature of the human male and female relationship. Couples can't stay in relationships 3 months, and marriages are dissolved in less than 3 yrs. Most try to ignore the materialistic impulses that drive the divides, and many will claim everything but the truth of fact, that monetary measures continue to become nothing more than dividing points... as people seek more, they seek to trade up, or clean up by the cycle of encroachments, under the banner of infatuation and fantasy. they spend their few months winding and spinning in bed, then they can't stand talking to each other, until it time to go shopping or what the result of paydays produce. get swept up in the madness, often born during moments of 'novelty seeking", and over time, what is at stake is the entire life of the and what becomes of that 's life in adult hood. All influenced by what takes places in these condition based relationships in which they were produced. The more people seem to become what is called educated, the less they understand of compassion, and love is about a set of conditions, connected to monetary, status and material matter. Time brings so many to find their selected choice is diminished in the content of what is ethics, and the character flaws are tarnished by an obsession with materialism. We as people seem to advance in things which concern the external world, and in doing so, we have regressed beyond concept in understanding the premise of what is the elements that constitute Love. When people speak of their assets and monetary status wrapped in the scenario of their attractiveness. they also convey the 'shield" they have built to protect those things. ultimately making it even more difficult to engage in actual mate selection. They then are not sure of why the other person chose them. is it money, or is it the whole of me. Some are degree chaser, they associate it with upward income mobility. but how many within this category, fight fierce battles in the divorce court within 3 yrs of claiming to love each other regardless of monetary and other changeable things. People get the "temporary hots for each other", and often it fades once they become comfortable with the frequency of bouncing in bed a few months. Have we really advanced as people, or have we become caught in the lure and fancy of flashing lights, shiny objects and manicured commercial imagery and the spin through the name brand establishment of the current era. Unaware that in 3-5-10 yrs, many of these places may not even exist as marquee name establishment. it's then on looking for the next set for the next cycle. Often times with a 'new mate" on the arms and a new glimmer in the eyes. Older Age - the amazing equalizer catches up with all. None can escape. then whom will you lean on to share care within the home and heart? |
