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Myths Busted, yet again I guess the myth busting continues: The claim of Chinese Men not liking dark skinned women, seems not to hold true in Africa "From News" Across Africa, radio call-in programmes are buzzing with tales of Africans, usually men, bemoaning the loss of their spouses and partners to rich Chinese men. "He looks short and ugly like a pygmy but I guess he has money," complained one lovelorn man on a recent Kenyan show. True or imagined, such stories say much about the perceived economic power of Chinese businessmen in Africa, and of the growing backlash against them. China has become by far Africa's biggest trading partner, exchanging about $160 billion-worth of goods a year; more than 1 million Chinese, most of them labourers and traders, have moved to the continent in the past decade. The mutual adoration between governments continues, with ever more African roads and mines built by Chinese firms. But the talk of Africa becoming Chinese — or "China's second continent", as the title of one American book puts it — is overdone. |
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it may simply be for these men the free flow of desire, rather than a dictate of needs. I would not assume to put African women down as being chosen only as some dictate of needs, every culture has beautiful women. whom are naturally desired as being women.
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that's one individual - it is likely that depending on the individual woman, many may display a variety of actions toward whom they have a point to contend. I got no problem that you like Asian women, but as to America women, there are women around the globe pursuing the expressions of voice and actions of that similar to America women. Its not possible to lump "all" America women into any single category, nor any ethnicity into any single category. It's a guaranteed fact, that many men have stood in divorce courts with women from a variety of ethnic and cultural categories, and come to find out the women was with some difference than what he had imagined of her. Men have a thing where he looks at women and develop a whole spectrum about her based on her appeal. but the only way to know a woman is to know the individual whom she is. That is where the distinctions of what is the individual comes into focus. The subjective term in what you say, is "Americanized', that is a perceptional interpretative assessment, based on what? One can go from community to community and find a wide variety of lifestyles, social manner and demeanor's and it covers a wide spectrum of how people live within those respective communities. there are too, regional variations of a wide variety of lifestyles, social manner and demeanor's in people and how they live. What is interesting, when one is within a place, there is a thing of environmental adaptations to one degree or other other, in greater or lesser assimilation's. which include how potential mates are viewed and selected.
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I grasped your ideology over the years you've shared on this site. We each being individuals, have our choices in what we like and why we like what we like. I like Asian women, but I don't discount other women in the process, If I was choosing a mate, Regardless of the ethnicity, she still has to be the individual whom fits what appeals to me in character and manner. as would any woman of any ethnicity I'd choose. I've seen both good character and not so good character in a variety of women, from Asian women, women from American society, women from Latin society and other societies. I won't go so far as to say in general one is above the other. Because it depends more so on the individual I'd meet and how things would work out. I've heard women say things like, some guys have "yellow fever", some guys" have white obsessions, as well as some guys who say, they want nothing but what they call a "sister". I don't really care much for either term. Because it will be an individuals that I'd choose. I see nice and interesting women of all ethnic groups, as well as I see some from all groups that simply don't suit the character type I'd invest my life with. Regardless of what ethnicity, I don't care for loud women, boisterous women, and I don't care for material obsessed women, and I'm not into 'status chasing women".
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