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Can women today be virtuous mates? These are big challenges in societies across the globe at this point and time. With the rise in bi-sexuality, homosexuality and exhibitionist depictions, vanity consumption and material obsessions. The media bombards women with a continual stream of images of them trying to be everything, the PR Machines can conjure up. Nakedness and Lustful Lure Imagery dominates to the point in some places its difficult for women to be natural and capable of basic unencumbered natural movements. Even when it comes to High Heels, they are not made for one to have a normal gait when they walk, nor is it designed for comfort nor to be functional if they need to do certain things. make up which once was an enhancer women used as simply highlight, has become about 'remaking the face and image", to the extend of plastic surgery for pure vanity sake, or exaggerated breast via implants, injections in the skin and lips that try to defy the natural process of aging. to a span of clothing that is not designed for function, but for lure tactical imagery. Woman was made beautiful in being female and in being so as different from the image of man "Naturally". Many times the excessive embellishments, often take away from the natural beauty and bring with it not only imagery of unnatural flow, it influences the attitude with a level of vanity that become more about the external lure factor, which ultimate takes away from the natural God given attributes of what is woman and what is the natural beauty made within the female gender, when confronted with the male gender. When focus on all these things become so dominant, insecurities rise to a peak higher than the regard for the natural self. Not only is it time consuming, it bring with it many things, that can ultimately be a detriment to a natural flow of male and female inborn sensuality of being simply of different genders. Many areas women are distorted and some even detest the fact of childbirth and some have been so ingrained with these PR imagery modeling they detest the concept of being a woman who is and can be a mother in the natural sense of first being an UNconvoluted woman who lives her life beyond the pursuit of vanity trappings. Often men chasing young women, is looking for the natural beauty, the unconvoluted make up and vanity obsessed. But too often that is short lived, because the media has a mission to convert these women to become vanity consumed based on external imagery and the lure factor. If men notice some older women, LEARN what is their style which is closest to their natural self, and they stick with it, Often these women become even more stable in being themselves, because they are not driven to be dictated unto by the change of the seasons and the wild edge of designers looking to create the bizarre. . These women can often focus on developing natural graces, social and generalized humane relations and if they have not become consumed by material pursuits and monetary status, they are more equipped as individuals to be less influenced by fad and fashion fade in and fade outs, therefore they are less inclined to be led by the pursuit to be temptress. If people notice there was a time when the outlandish exhibitionist were left to the 'sex workers", but time seem to have flipped the script where some of the s-workers adopted a more plain girl look because they found it to have a natural allure without all the embellishments. Sadly, it turned to bring many who once were the more straight line naturalist like people who focused on inner character, suddenly got caught up in the 'lure imagery hype", and began to chase and pursue " being miss entertaining, rather than being miss dignity with a quality of moral standards that did not lend itself to the lure tactical imagery of the temptress. Take someone like Melinda Gates, she can afford any of those trappings, but she has chosen a more conservative imagery which does not infringe upon her development and expression of a inner self that leans with concerns to the moral fiber and character stability of being a woman who can and is a contributor with a high regard for humanitarian involvement in her daily life. It appears she is not suffering for any lack of appreciation from her husband. But what she gets is a higher regard for herself as an individual who is a woman, but equally so is a person who has no need to concern herself with the being as if to be lure bait, or a temptress in her public presentations. She does not promote nor advertise her interest and concerns of what she does privately in the bedroom and her presentation speaks volumes to say, its no ones business except her's and her husbands. The same is true with the wife of Mark Zuckerberg, Ms. Cho she does not present herself as some lure toy, nor some tease or temptress and she can afford any of that stuff, but it does not match with the dignity and character she cares to live and present of herself as a woman who is a person, who is female, but not driven by vanities lure games. Look around even in the media the women who maintain the long term relationships and are considered to be of high moral fiber and good character, they have found a simple style that is not overly embellished with vanity trappings. They can invest more of themselves in simply being a good person with great character and a humane and moral concern to be seen and known as a woman of integrity. yet, on the other hand, the young starlets who dominate the tabloids, are on a merry go round, and they can't figure out what's up and what's down and many have lost the concept of their own gender, where they want to be lovers of both men and woman and unable to make any deep connections because they are too busy trying to pursue both angles. Most men, can see through the lure trappings, and find these women to be good for amusement and sensual play, but they are less driven to consider these woman for anything more in their lives. even those who marry and the women suddenly become vain and materialistic, soon find divorce and separations coming to them with the speed of a lightening bolt. When they get zapped, they become 'grabbers" seeking to stake claims of what they have not spent one day to earn on their own, by their own effort and contribution to society. Yes, there are reasons why men are less inclined today to consider marriage and many are even more apprehensive today than ever to even make a selection when it comes to what he has often to choose among. Men have been rushing to Asian women seeking the simplicity of women who accept their female gender and maintain a presence of dignity and integrity, and the minute these women change and become material and vanity struck, those relations seem to fall apart at the seams. We have so many psychological issues that are coming to the forefront due to all this confusions in the female gender, until we now see more mothers killing their , more walking away from relationships in pursuit of 'entertaining arrangement", "material encircled imagery", and "faux status chasing' until they have these 3-5 yrs relations which turn quickly into 'asset grabs', where the court rooms shows contempt and hate and all thins unbecoming of a dignified and high integrity person. It becomes about, "rip and strip, snatch and grab" and pay me type of scenarios... Once that exposure is made evident. these become less likely the women, stable men will choose who are seeking the dignity and integrity of humane compassion and genuine unconditional love relations. Sadly, there are many men who feed into the vanity lure tactical consumptions some woman adopt, eventually both he and the woman find turbulence that is irreconcilable differences. Love will have to return for the sole sake of love, to squash much of this circle which currently exist, and it seems there have been so many conditions placed within and before the concept of Love, until the nature of Love suffers a great deficit in the many places around the globe. the decline in family stability and durable relationships seems to be the norm. men look to women, to uphold the dignity factor, the integrity factor and in her doing so, then he can honor that with likewise the same, but cautions abound, until apprehensions dominate and relationships suffer a great disparity. |
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To grasp concept of what virtue, dignity and honor-ability is within the love of mans life, one need only look at "Othello", to see the ravages which come with the thought of infidelity of the woman in the life of a man. but it is equally so, unto the man to know and communicate with his woman and not rely on 'hersay", nor " be prey to the malicious' who seek to fill his mind with things that defeat the honor and trust his love seeks to have within and about his woman. One can look at "King Lear", and see how as a man, he must see clearly and know the distinction between what is honest words and what is the pageantry of vanity and greed and haughtiness, that he may remain true to seeing the simplicity of what is natural in the spectrum of loving. lest he becomes fool unto his own indulgence into folly and make the mistakes which bring to him many heartaches and downfalls into the pits of delusions anguish and arrogance,both enacted upon, against and within himself.
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