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Relationship Do people today really know the meaning of a Relationship? Do they know the time and value it takes to invest in building what can become a relationship? Is selfishness too pervasive for people to truly put the honest effort into a mutually sharing, mutually self investment of what makes up a relationship. Why is so much based on the monetary, material and even more is connected to ego's and which one seeks submission from the other? Why is the delusional premise of sex so confounded to the point one gender thinks their sex is more important than the other genders sex ? Surely there are many games people play, many for money, many for favors and a great many for sexual accessibility, and others where they use sex as a modern concept as a tool of convenience, to gain an advantage in pursuits of an objective? People make claims of undying love, until it requires them to make adjustment, in both the mentality of how they function, or contribution to what it takes to make a shared home. People seem to say hello, and then comes the activity of going down the criteria list? some find these list to be self centered, and some find these list to seek someone subservient to another self centered aims. Then comes the dominantly over exaggeration of sexual ability and sexual pretentions. It takes a great deal to pursue and "Adult" relationship. One that accepts that not all things will function on a fantasy level, but life challenges will always come and go in the flow of living and relating with another. Unfortunately so much points to and influences people to seek relationships which function on par with teenage mate jumping cycles. How many can truly build past the cycle of the 3-6 week infatuation period? how many can really make it past the 6 months, ( I'm testing you cycle) ? Are people aware that aging is and will come to everyone, and no one can be in their 20's forever. why then do so many try and act s, imagery and or pursue the demeanor's of being 20 something? The realitiest of sexual things break up more relations than people want to admit, yet, so many will claim they are honest, but will not be honest enough to sit down and talk about and be progressive and expressive to support growing to understand each other sexually. Relationship: the way in which two or more concepts, objects, or people are connected, or the state of being connected. [quote] Intimate relationships play a central role in the overall human experience. Humans have a general desire to belong and to love, which is usually satisfied within an intimate relationship. These relationships involve feelings of liking or loving one or more people, romance, physical or sexual attraction, sexual relationships, or emotional and personal support between the members. Intimate relationships allow a social network for people to form strong emotional attachments Source wikipedia [/quote] |
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Thank you, I come sometimes and read. Over-all I'm doing well, recently had more dental work and still there is more to get done. (geez!!! its expensive and I'm certainly not a fan of the pain associated with the work) 
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I'm considering going to LA and have the bulk work done. The implant specialist there, does "do sleep medication", and he is excellent in his work. the big issue is - finishing the rental house and get it rented, then there is the dental work... after that, I need to do some things to my house. "mostly floor covering, and having the fireplace re-covered, then do so other things I want done. "this is just a slow money state",  so I have to create ways to generate more income.
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