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how do you factor various dysfunctions One may find many things in life, love and relationship. But of such things, as many challenges do come into existence. How would you deal with sexual dysfunctions, such as male or female issues of dysfunction. Would it destroy your relation of would it bond you and a mate on another level in a deeper sense? One blogs spoke of Alzheimer and the collective of various things which can exist in the life of individuals. Accident can and do happen, and within the spectrum, not only those that disable individuals in various ways, but may too disfigure one in various ways. These are things of reality. We can remember the Christopher Reeve, who once played 'Superman", but situation brought him to suffer a debilitating injury. Or some former Olympians, who suffered paralyzing injuries, as well as across the world and within the spectrum of life, so many people who came back from war with injuries both visible as well as invisible to the eye, some with loss of limbs, and some with loss of motor skills. We never know what we are capable of dealing with in these situations, as these are not favorable things one envisions within their relationships. Nor does one envisage having who result to have various disabilities. But unfortunately, individuals nor couples don't get the choice as to whom these things happen to. It's the same as parents getting older, and they become frail and need more care and attentions, sometimes it requires many life modification to individuals and couples. but as with life and with age, such things come into being. Some have lost mates, as well as parents, and those voids can never be filled but they are of many adjustments which individual must find means to cope and adjust. When we talk of love and relations and the many wonderful things we'd like it to be comprised, we are often unaware of the many challenges which exist and come to exist over the duration of time. Some countries have systems which assist with care, and some countries have no programs which assist with care when various things happen. It is important in each individuals life to understand what is compassion, what is grace and what is appreciations, and how to take less things for granted. That is a difficult work to embrace when one is young and healthy and in love. At all times, we must be aware of the fragile nature of life, as well as the fragile nature of the mate whom we choose, and equally so, to know what is compassion and how it must work within a relationship for self as well as the mate, as the unpredictability within life, can bring a variety of variables at any given moment. Think of the recent tragedies of missing planes, plane crashes, boat capsizing, and so many things, which has changed so many lives as it has taken so many lives, in the flash of a moment. We need not live paranoid, but we must be aware none are exempt from the fates which come within the span of living. We then may consider deeply to value love when we have it and can enjoy and appreciate it without these tragedies, and be thankful for the opportunity to love and be loved, and take not a moment for granted, nor indulge in abuse or misuse of others or self. We may care to focus on graces, the grace of appreciations, the grace of understanding, the grace of patience to be understood, the gift of ability to share, and the grace of accepting what is shared with appreciation. we may benefit ourselves greatly to not allow vanity to give us false illusion and even cause us to deny love, due to vain over elation about self. One should never consider ones self too pretty to make a choice to love, nor should one consider self too fine and shapely to make a choice to love, nor let the concept of one being too wealthy or self sufficient to love. SHARE YOUR THOUGHTS FREELY |
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maybe blogs that speak about these realism's frighten people, when it is simply things which exist in life. Geez!!!
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