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What role does sex play in your life |
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Without sex, your life is meaningless. I have been a SWM along time but not putting much effort into finding a woman. I 'm picky , I wont hookup with a woman who is ugly,fat,overweight, STD's, drugs ect. Every man wants a hot woman to procreate with.
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Sex is very important in a relationship. There are many articles that tell us why. There was once I complained to a man because I wanted more  ,but I didn't and will never leave a man just because of it. Character and personality matter most for me. Because I stay with one, I respect good communication and the efforts to solve all problems together. I do agree with you, good communication and most certainly the mutual effort to work on issues, challenges and the conditions which maintain and sustain a relationship - these have always been tops for me, and what I look for, I do care that the woman is well kept and well maintained and appreciates to take care of her natural beauty- many women understand that intercourse is not the only aspect of sex which brings the pleasures into a relationship. Its such a trip as to how life flows, many couples over the span of their relationships, sex become not the center of their lives, as some find they may do it once or twice a week, Mostly when relationships are new, people do it on impulse frequently, the down turn of that is they can easily become complacent which far too often leads to them becoming sexually frustrated with each other. It takes all the other elements, of appreciation of person, support of individual, considerations and compassion's within the whole of living and sharing, which rounds out the nature of relationship. Some people are simply not patient enough for what it takes to build and groom a relationships to work for two people. some look for the fireworks of nightly passions, and when the tonality changes as with relation and life, they get frustrated an claim bored, because they did not build on the other aspect that goes into making a full spectrum relationship.
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Even some women when they are young can and do get frustrated in regards to sex, especially when they think that 'sex" is the only thing they are desired for. It can be a turn off for women in some regards to come to feel that way, and some can and do become to resent sex for the very same reasons of thinking they are not seen and appreciated as a whole person in all the other aspects of their life. they like being desired, but they want more, they want to be desired as being a full person and for the capabilities and interest and concerns she cares to invest herself a person and individual.
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