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How our lives change Some are just part of the ongoing process which gradually make changes and suddenly we recognize we've modify our concerns. So many ideas and so many concepts of things with big picture concepts, sometimes they work out and sometimes they simply fade and or morph into other things. What we want can make many change and even the thing we've once wanted and attained can become dust collector. sometimes clutter can build and often I see many people having "yard sales" to dispense with things, some simply pile more into garages and storage areas. Yesterday, I saw a call so full of things, there was only space for the driver to sit, and it included things even stacked in the dash area behind the steering wheel. I know nothing about the vehicle is safe, it appeared it might even be a challenge to turn the steering wheel. I see people changing homes, some even change and move from home they once had custom built, I often wonder about the transient society where some people move every 5 -7 year or so. some are renter's not because they can't afford a home, but because they frequently like to move from one place to another. Some relocate from State to State - for a multitude of reasons, and their cycle continues for many years of doing so. Then there are the mate changers, we see it often publicized with entertainers, but in the average people arena, they too make many mate changes over the years. some may do 20-30 yrs with a person and then move to build a new relationship with someone different. It's likely there is not fixed point or factor as to why? It may be part of the human nature of some people to be forever changing their situations, condition and circumstances. Some for the better and some for not the best. Who knows what the outcome will be. There are some who stay put, they may build a home environment and life and remain in it for the expanse of their life. I know people who have never lest the town they grew up in, and some who are very content with the long term connections they have with family and friends in the environment they have lived their whole lives. Some move away, and in later years may return to a region close to where they were born and raised. It's such a trip - I live maybe 20 miles from where I was born, and maybe 10 miles from where I spent my years, even after living in California for 32 yrs. I moved back for family concern reasons, but even still what ever the reason, I'm back in the region. I don't remember many of the people from the early years, though I have some friends who remember everyone from the early years. I've been here for 10 yrs now, so interesting, as I don't like the weather, I see so many things that need to improve, but then before I left California I remember the many changes I watched over the years of areas changing and some improving and some falling. Some people speak about the cost and changes of California, then I read about the drought, I look at Google Map and see some areas that do not have the California glow it had decades ago, and some areas morphed into nice imagery but missing that social connectivity flow that once appeared to exist. Oh, how our lives change... as well as the environments in many places make many changes. In 10 yrs I watch changes in the community I now live, as well as some communities which seem to hold on to a stable image but the nature of the people in the areas change. Nothing Really Remains the Same - within it all - I too have experienced many changes, include the increase in age and image - it's just the nature of life and living. |
