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Could you deal with these challenges Could you deal with a mate who has sexual dsyfunctions Female and Male sexual dysfunction can occur at all stages of life, and it may be ongoing or happen only once in a while. You may experience more than one type of female and Male sexual dysfunction. Types include: Low sexual desire. You have diminished libido, or lack of sex drive. Sexual arousal disorder. Your desire for sex might be intact, but you have difficulty or are unable to become aroused or maintain arousal during sexual activity. Orgasmic disorder. You have persistent or recurrent difficulty in achieving orgasm after sufficient sexual arousal and ongoing stimulation. Sexual pain disorder. You have pain associated with sexual stimulation or vaginal or for men, Peyronie's or various erectile dsyfunction. these conditions impact millions of people at various ages and states, |
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its amazing people avoid subject of such, but maybe they may need to look at the broad spectrum of life.
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There are many conditions, for men, not only prostrate issues, but prostrate surgery that does not have capability of nerve sparing, which is a condition of 10's of millions of men. Then there is the many conditions in women that make sex painful as well as many other variables that make it a non functioning activity. Often long term couples are far better able to deal with these things than people who are seeking a relation or those in short term relationships. I think... more people should study up on this stuff. We have lots of men in these sites who are in the age range of these challenges, as well as many women who are at or near the age range for these issues of challenge. People better get real with the "big picture" and stop avoiding the discussion of things that are real and true in life. It's a hard reality, I had the surgery at 59, never would have suspected it to happen to me. Although I know guys at work who had the surgery, one retired from severe depression, the other seem to do well he was and is long term married, the guy who went into depression was head of a department, and he went into a serious depression. I know guys with peronies issues, from damage suffered during sex, they were left with painful issues at the attempt of sex, one had surgery, the other did not, one was afraid of loosing length, where the other guy accepted that he'd loose length, but still be able to function. I remember one woman wrote about visiting a man who had prostrate issues, and she talked about him very badly, never grasping that it was not something he chose, it was a reality that happened. So, not all women are with the awareness to understand these things, but likewise not all men are with the awareness to understand women's issues either. I've talked to work group mixed with men and woman about these very same concerns and issues, It's amazing how many were uninformed. In this website, its amazing how many people here are unconcerned, but it is quite likely that many men do have issues, but won't face it, because of what ever their reasons are. Life .... many items are published which say's many men over the age of 50 suffer from some level of dysfunction. It's likewise so with many women, None will up and admit it, because the pursuit of a mate freightens them to the thought they won't get one if the truth is discussed.
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this site was designed for friendships and relationships, but people like to talk about 'glib" things, and laugh a minute stuff or hunting scammers , none of which gets into the intricate things that are part of what is life and relationship. Long as I've been on this site, most subjects are skimmed over with one liners or something, but if reality did not contain some of the things I try to bring to topic, then people would probably be making more relations, but what is true is many things I've written about as well as some few others, are subjects, that rarely get even a comment posted. But... superficial stuff is one things, and skipping past the depth of things is the same place and point where relationships either get stronger or they fall apart. As adults, I don't get some of the people and the shallow manner they deal with things, I also don't get it that many like to talk about their education, but skip and skim right past things that require talking about realism's. money is not the only matter that keeps people from mate selection, nor is the fear that someone wants to get another persons money... things go far deeper in the reality of each individual who comes to these type of websites. people just as well get past the illusions of being 20 something again, and get past the glory days of youth and deal with the age span realism of being 40 something to 60 something reality of their lives. Very few people have that perpetual youth gene, if any have it at all. I posted another blog, which as about, "Who's ready" not one person commented or responded. It's amazing that so many people in the age range of the regulars, would not have a comment about whether or not they are ready for relations..... 
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