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The frightening reality of Truths To some the truths of and within life can be frightening, but once faced, it becomes just something else to deal with. Dealing with truths one will grow, whether they are prepared for the growth or not, truth brings growth. I see so many young people stuck down by acts of violence, and many other things, and those of us who have longevity continue on facing the many growth factors that makes up our days. It is WISE for everyone to think in terms of "Safety", don't become a life defying daredevil type, why temp such a risky thing. Consider the safety elements and adhere to doing what is safe. That includes meeting people in social web sites. don't get overly happy and forget cautions, don't meet people in places that can be questionable, and always make sure someone knows whom your are meeting and where you are meeting them. Today it may be even a wise things to snap a quick picture and send it to a friend at the start of the meeting, it just might be a safe thing to do. It's sad that people can be malicious, yet, one does not need to be paranoid, but it is certainly wise to be safe. Some of the "sex hunters" who fill the site, and those who come preying on others for money, is a madness that probably won't go away. Never disclose too much about your financial standing, and be cautious of discussing your financial successes, because no one knows who are the individuals that frequent these sites in covert disguise. As to many things in life, the simple reality of honesty is a good policy in the general value structure of ones life, but never let others assume or think you to be naive to the realism which exist. Don't send people money !!!!!! don't even come across as if you will send people money. Because you can be assured they will come after it by some means and once they get a little, they will find a reason to want and pursue more. If people are looking for random sex, they may be better off to choose someone they know, rather than someone they have no idea whom the person is, or what agenda a person has. It's not worth risking yourself to such a degree. Finding truths in self is a ongoing work, it will continue to be an ongoing work as long as one is living. Therefore build no delusions and chase no illusion, when you have the time if you get the mindset to have patience, to find out the truths of whom another truly is. |
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I don't think people indulge many blogs about simple truths, even many say they like honesty and truth, but when such things are made into subject matter, people shy away from it. I think many simply like being comedic-ally entertained, more than to deal with the cut and dry reality of things. (until they are in a painful situation). A big part of many relationships disconnects and possibly shot term short lived relations, may well be because people base connections on superficial interaction, rather than dealing with the realism's of what is part of daily living and the elements that are part of life, beyond the point of laughter. Those couples who have longevity, by many means they face and deal with their individual and collectives truths- they work through their challenges and they find want and reason to not avoid the truths that come into the reality of their daily lives. so much media promotes these 'happy shiny scripted imagery of people always happy and always in a delightful setting", but any ADULT, knows That is not the realism of life.. not even in their own single life, nor in the life of relationships. Joys and Pains are but flips sides of the coin, and the coin will flip from time to time no matter who the persons are. That's just how life is. It's really said, how quickly people claim they are not happy in a relations the minute the laughter fades into the works of the day, or the challenges which are natural and normal in the living experience. Every ideology of religion tries to teach people to prepare for the bad and well as to work to have moments and enjoy the good. How people got to the point to want to think everything is a circus is the fallacy that has destroyed many relationships, before they even learn how to appreciate each other in the full spectrum of living and life. There is no such thing as triumph without first facing challenges, just as There is no measure of happiness without a measure of what is sadness built into the mix. Growth is made up of all such things.
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1 post 9/15/2015 5:15 am |
you have told the truth which exist around us, so many hunters and liars are full of the net address
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Truths are a wonderful thing, they allow us to live with open eyes to the reality which surrounds us. We must always be discerning as to what we deem as being "truths". That means we must think things through and find the "principal point" then we can associate factors to the principal. Its always a wise thing to consider and then re-consider to give ourselves the best of chance for awareness to present us with a clearer view.
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