beyondfantasy3 113M
2003 posts
2/4/2016 5:07 am
choice and choosing


Do we really know much about it, or is it a feeling that drives us in the mate selection?
We hear the thing of "opposites attract", "people being mis-matched" and "people being well suited for each other", " bad choices", and the list goes on.

Recently I spoke to a woman at work, I've seen her over and over for quite a while, we often ride the elevator together, though we have said hi, and never really talked, we were passing in the garage and I spoke to her and asked her name.
She stopped, told me her name, she said; now that we've been formally introduced, It's very nice to meet you".
I thought it to be a very nice moment.

I look at women sometimes and think of many things, and some seem like they'd never embarrass you in public, some seem to have appeals of being with a quiet demeanor, while being confident in themselves, and many many things. I like the neat well groomed, but not a lot of make up, and some I see who have various energy levels that is appealing as well. I find smart women appealing, as well as so many various characteristics of various women present them in their uniqueness as individuals.
There is a woman who is probably among the best dressed and everything is coordinated, but its something about her demeanor which as seen could be very abrasive is she is rubbed wrong in situations, not one I consider as a option, its just a matter she knows how to dress. Another is somewhat quiet, but it is more in neutral situations, I've seen her at various events, she always finds a way to come within my range, at one event, another woman came up to me, introduced herself and began a conversation and told me about herself, she's interesting, and she has a kind of bouncy happy spirit walk, and she is generally with a pleasant smile and she is impeccability dressed.
Other women at work want me to go to "happy hour", and some are continually talking about "finding me a girlfriend". Even some of the male friends at work, seem very overly interested in me finding a mate. My family tells me I should find a mate. heck, it seems like everyone I know is interested in me finding a mate.

I guess even for myself, its probably time I focus on finding myself a mate.

LovesAsiansNYC 69M
41 posts
2/4/2016 5:46 am

Sounds like you have more than a few places to begin


beyondfantasy3 113M
4740 posts
2/6/2016 8:56 am

    Quoting papaya1972:
    Think you do not have many choices?
    coz there won't be so many women around 100-years-old out there
that would likely be true, actually I'm 61 -