beyondfantasy3 111M
2364 posts
6/14/2019 4:46 pm
Amazing....


This site continues to operate without "flooding" its members with Advertisements,..... Now, I don't know what they do with people's profile data, but at least in this site its not requiring a Log-in... and it is not saturated with Google, Amazon and Ebay and Other Advertisements.

It's quite interesting but a very good thing, that "advertising" does not invade this site like nearly everything else on the web.

Most news sites can't present the news without "overly excessive advertising"...

I try to watch "Local News" in the morning and its a pure nightmare of advertisements until... they should it "The Advertising Hour' with a few tid bits of almost news...

the biggest issue I personally see for this site, is the "lack of participation by its members and interactive exchanges within the blog section"... People let the "magazine section" simply dry up... and it seems this portal only has a few consistent regulars who have shared here for years. Many of these regulars here, know more about each other from "blogs an interacting with each other via blog and commentary".

_____________ The Mis-Connections ______________

It's even more interesting that among those that have come to know each other over many years as "regulars",... they don't seem to care much to "hook up" with each other...
as if everyone is really looking for that "magical mystery person"... which at our age's we should know its all "fictions within our own minds".... because the basic of any relation is ... getting to"learn another"and build upon and within that !!!

There's no magical bedroom partner, that is some perfect reflection of the fantasy person we create a want and desire for it our minds'...
It's "just people"..... Nature made life simple.... "we love whom we come to learn and know"... and if we don't... that inkling that could have been love, fades into the vagueness that is often engaged when another does not mirror the fantasy image within our minds. and then go in search of the mental shaped desires we continue to pursue ....

Everyone here is old and wise enough hopefully... to know... "keep your in your own pocket".... and build relations based on person to person as "self responsible individuals"........ -------------

beyondfantasy3 111M
4737 posts
6/14/2019 4:47 pm

What do you like about this site, that keeps you coming back to it ?


Lily20145 58F
885 posts
6/15/2019 1:24 am

There are numerous dating sites or most likely dating Apps which provides instants interaction quickly to know each other more effectively. I come back and try to read some interesting blogs or interesting news about friends here finally finding what they want. I personally find blogs here are soooooo boring and I nearly quit for good. I guess if any one wants to connect with you who is 108 years old that would be really amazing.

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Beautifulkayra2 51F
823 posts
6/15/2019 2:19 am

I am not good in trying new things...although there are many new dating sites, I do not join them. Too many scammers and I believe they are all about the same. Try to stick here and see how good it goes till the end.

Besides, Lily, Woaini, you, Goan, Chat, Lao, and some other old friends...I'd like to know how you all do from times to times. Maybe someday we can get together at one of us' wedding party


Lily20145 58F
885 posts
6/15/2019 9:22 am

Beau, can't wait for one's wedding party count me in.

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beyondfantasy3 111M
4737 posts
6/15/2019 9:43 am

I wonder why it deleted the word face book... when I said, its good they don't require a face book log in.

I personally try to avoid any site that requires a face book log in.... I think they are "too intrusive" and use people's data any way they want for their own profit making agenda.

As to dating site, maybe 20 yrs ago when various ones popped up, i tried a few, but its been about 10-15 or more years since I visited any of them, I think some don'e even exist anymore.

at 65.... I don't care for gaming and spins of drama and creating self delusions.... and I'm not after anyone's money.... I do find that as with life and time.... its more about building good companionship that is based in actually appreciating the person (a woman) as an individual.... I don't really get the reasoning as to why someone would be a scam player, or a swindler type of person.... such types, lacks dignity, and definitely have no concern or regard for their own integrity.

When I see things like the excessive promotions of the Kardasians, I wonder what has happen to society.... these people don't do not much more than promote "provocative skin display".... playing on the illusions people create about sensuality... and society makes them rich behind it... I guess people like chasing fantasy....

I think women with dignity and integrity knows how to present her beauty by being naturally just herself... not on a perpetual provocative mission.

It has to be quite tiring, to play the role of an "allure puppeteer" ...

No one has any guarantee of longevity... it might be better to simply be ones self, and real in the embrace of dignity and respectful of what is integrity. It does not mean one cannot have creative desires and such things, but often those who value dignity and support their sense of integrity, manages their sensually exploratory creativity in the privacy of their homes...

But then again, the world is of many things.... people have to match up based on the elements of integrity in and of which they have mutual ideals of what it takes to maintain it.


XiWangdeXin 68M
146 posts
6/15/2019 12:03 pm

    Quoting Lily20145:
    Beau, can't wait for one's wedding party count me in.
But maybe two throws a better party!


beyondfantasy3 111M
4737 posts
6/15/2019 12:54 pm

I mostly drifted away from the frequency of writing on this site, because too many simply don't engage to make blogs interactively expressive".

Most know that I don't do a habit of "one liner's". Even though I know people don't like to read anything over three or four lines of text.

As to chasing images of pictures... I don't see that as being the worthwhile basis... because even though everyone likes what they consider to be beauty... it still comes down to "what is the character" of the individual. What matters goes far beyond "the look", even when people choose what they consider to be beauty in and of another... it still matters if the character of the person has congenial values and willful mentality to be understanding.

When it comes to sex, even those who choose based on the initial sexual activity, at our ages, we should all know... that eventually settle down into a reality that is not as robust as the 'dating cycle sex activity"... because, people work, they have a whole person full of other interest that becomes within the make up of their lives.

I like the blog section, because its a simple design, I don't know how many other sites this company include peoples posting, but as long as nothing is posted that is degrading to self or others... it probably don't matter so much, because its beyond our ability to control. They don't have people to sign "agreements that position remain exclusive to this particular aspect of their business".... besides, I have direct experience, they can shut down a person's profile and one can no longer access their postings. I have always though, people should be able to "download" their posting... for saving on their on removable storage devices.


Lily20145 58F
885 posts
6/16/2019 1:26 am

Honestly, I personally don't enjoy reading long blogs. I read other academic stuffs in full all the time. The aim of visiting this site is to relax so I avoid boring blogs. Similarly, I avoid responding to those bloggers asking too many questions within their contents.

We all know you for a while and sure you deserve a 'Thai' girls that admire you and respect you. Why not travel to Thailand and find one that would be easier and quicker.

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Lily20145 58F
885 posts
6/16/2019 1:27 am

By the way, I am surprised to read you are only 65 !! sorry you really sound like 108.

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beyondfantasy3 111M
4737 posts
6/16/2019 12:48 pm

    Quoting Lily20145:
    By the way, I am surprised to read you are only 65 !! sorry you really sound like 108.
It took the grace of God and lots of work through many life challenges .. to get to 65 .. and I'm thankful...


beyondfantasy3 111M
4737 posts
6/16/2019 12:57 pm

    Quoting Lily20145:
    Honestly, I personally don't enjoy reading long blogs. I read other academic stuffs in full all the time. The aim of visiting this site is to relax so I avoid boring blogs. Similarly, I avoid responding to those bloggers asking too many questions within their contents.

    We all know you for a while and sure you deserve a 'Thai' girls that admire you and respect you. Why not travel to Thailand and find one that would be easier and quicker.
I enjoy writing, but I also read a lot of technical, academic and policy stuff too.
I have ran and current run programs that are based in Public Policy Requirements and Standards, both on a Local Policy as well as Federal Policy.

It is very necessary to have compassionate understanding and a sense of unwavering fairness in understanding not just policy and regulations, but how to regard and respect and understand the multitudes of things that impact peoples lives.

I write everyday... I am not partial to writing in short quips.. I only get bored with willful ignorance and try and avoid it...

I like the character mentality of some of the women in many Asian countries, as well as here too.... and surely across the world... one can find good character in any culture if time permits and resources for travel is readily available to visit various places.


Lily20145 58F
885 posts
6/17/2019 12:05 am

you are certainly the one enjoy writing and express yourself with words, but it won't be the case for the rest of us ? if anyone left comments on my blogs even with an emoji, I felt thankful and appreciation for their response.

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woaini1947 59M
3973 posts
6/17/2019 10:01 am

Beyondfantasy3 has been writing here for a long time. He puts a great deal of thought into his subject matter and I am thankful that someone thinks we are worth the time and effort. We all started writing here quite a few years ago and we became accustomed to the rhetoric and occasional heated discussions due to the diversity of opinions. Over the years it became obvious that those of us who had extensive life experiences, a few unrewarding relationships and disappointments, were being very careful about who we could trust. I think the small group of us who are left, discovered that our chances of finding a suitable mate were getting very slim. The emotional scars are too deep and we now find it difficult to believe sometimes that unconditional love still exists beyond young children and pets. Those who still dream of finding love in front of their computer, left to try another site. I gravitated towards the blogs here because I could express an opinion and talk with those who I do truly consider my friends and not be hurt due to allowing myself to get too close. Without the blog section here, we know we would all be gone. So, I think I answered the question "What do you like about this site that keeps you coming back?" The answer is, it is all of you.


beyondfantasy3 111M
4737 posts
6/17/2019 4:54 pm

I appreciate any and all comments.... I do care to have interactive exchanges that expand the subject of blogs, and the commentary within them.

I write on other sites, many people don't always write much or say much and some may say nothing. Not everyone likes to write, and not everyone like to read more than a few lines.

That's just the nature of the wide ranges of difference in individuals....
It's all OK in the big picture... because even if a post gets one person to read it, its a plus... because its been "shared".


Lily20145 58F
885 posts
6/17/2019 11:26 pm

Thanks Goannaoil, but this is not my blog.

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