beyondfantasy3 111M
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6/19/2019 5:36 pm
'When you look at people with "eyes focused on desire"

Take the time realize... "There's a "Whole Person" involved in what you are looking at!!!!

So often people look with "thought of pleasure" and "desires for and of pleasure".. and forget that the person is an "entire human being with a full set of feeling, thoughts, life challenges, life aspirations and ideas and dreams" that go far and beyond being a "pleasure provider for the whims of a pleasure seeker".

It might make it more interesting and bring people be more motivated get know the "whole person".

There's no "Magically Perceptually Care Free Pleasure Providers" !!! and there is an "Entire Person Behind That Smile" or "Behind that Provocative or Seductive "....

There's a "Whole Person" always behind and within what ever persona that is presented in what we can see with our eyes.

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beyondfantasy3 111M
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6/19/2019 5:39 pm

"Consideration is an Amazingly Beautiful Trait to have"

Lily20145 58F
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6/19/2019 11:17 pm

it is said "Don't judge a book by its cover", however, there are so many books out-there obviously we will pick up those with interesting and positive covers. I believe we look what we read and think, I avoid people with negative energy.


woaini1947 59M
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6/24/2019 10:26 am

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Most times when we look at a lady and find her very desirable based on appearance alone, when we are finally alone with her, it is very exciting. Why? Not because she was that wonderful to be with... It was the physical attraction and the image of her that we had in our mind that made the encounter beautiful. How many times have we experienced disappointment as we got to know someone because the personality and character did not live up to the image? The first serious argument is a good indication of how the relationship will go. Desiring someone is a very exciting feeling but that is all it is - a feeling. It has no substance which is why we are all here. We've all been in love but we've all been loved and left.