beyondfantasy3 111M
2364 posts
8/9/2020 9:02 am
Don't Take Youthful Beauty For Granted.. Do Not Abuse It!!


TIP'S FOR LIVING SELF INSPIRED AND GRACEFULLY

You will learn that what you have share is be shared, respectfully...

How NOT Shortchange Your Own Life or the Life Of Others

Let go of the fairy tale fantasy chase ... and live the reality of life with the time you have been blessed live.



Don't take Youthful Beauty For Granted.. Don't abuse it by thinking it can allow you abuse others, without life's Karma having its say in the matter.

Time: Will Change how you look, and it will change the shape of your body, and it will change how or if, or whether you are pursued with the flattery and such based on extremal imagery.

Don't get high and drunk on your own thoughts about your physical image... because as you do so, you diminish the character and integrity of yourself, and when age comes, you will suffer a greater deficit for what you've done to under-develop your own character and the attacks you created upon your own integrity.

Those abuses have produced more older age misery than many consider during their youth... Think and Learn, while YOU have time to subvert such damage.

Don't build your life on FICTIONS about a SX organ, which is Generic in What It is, as a Body Organ....

Don't Delude yourself that More SX will make you what you have not invested in character, integrity and personality improve yourself. If frequency of SX was going make people something above others, then sex workers would be on Top in being the most improved person. But, reality is... many have a great deal of challenge in the later of their lives..... and relationships.

Don't let your looks and body shape fill you with the obsession "Expect"...
Build Character and Integrity, and Demonstrate it through a Personality that "Respect's".

You will find your life become far less hectic... and you will learn how to age gracefully.

If you make "SX" your Life goal... you've missed out already on the beauty that life was designed to present and for you to live within.

Yes, WORK and Earn A Living... That is a Responsibility to Meet the Expense of Basics that provide Food, Water and Shelter... But don't let SX become the decision maker for the human need of a "Mate".... ( you will live to regret it, and may not escape unharmed, the variety of damages that such objective in mate selection can cost... it may be an expense that you are unable to meet . )

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BEYOND FANTASY IS WHERE REALITY EXIST


beyondfantasy3 111M
4737 posts
8/9/2020 9:09 am

While you are young....
Invest in:

Learning How To Grow Old Self Inspired, Gracefully .


(You might just find, your smile will last a lifetime and you will always have much to appreciatively share)


beyondfantasy3 111M
4737 posts
8/9/2020 2:20 pm

It would be interesting if people share their thoughts....


Lily20145 58F
885 posts
8/10/2020 8:57 am

who is that young girl upset you

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Beautifulkayra2 51F
823 posts
8/15/2020 4:39 am

Those young pretty girls out there will ONLY learn from time.
Difficult times teach us the best lessons to become better.

Stay healthy and happy Beyond..have a good weekend..

Waving to Lily and Goan...have a good weekend for both of you too..


Lily20145 58F
885 posts
8/15/2020 11:56 am

Hello Kayra, stay healthy and have a wonderful weekend too.

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Beautifulkayra2 51F
823 posts
8/25/2020 6:37 am

Thanks Goan and Lily..❤
Thanks to Beyond that we can say hello.to each other here...

t is always nice to be back and see you guys although only online..🤣

We are good people..arent we...then why is it difficult for us to meet other good people to share our life?
Am wondering..


Lily20145 58F
885 posts
8/27/2020 2:36 pm

Because we are all practising "Social distancing"

Thanks Beyond providing his platform for us to share our thoughts.

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beyondfantasy3 111M
4737 posts
9/5/2020 3:45 pm

    Quoting Beautifulkayra2:
    Thanks Goan and Lily..❤
    Thanks to Beyond that we can say hello.to each other here...

    t is always nice to be back and see you guys although only online..🤣

    We are good people..arent we...then why is it difficult for us to meet other good people to share our life?
    Am wondering..
I think its about 'Character" and "Integrity" .... people who value it, don't just jump for looks or other things without thinking and giving considerations to understand the character and integrity as a higher priority concern.


beyondfantasy3 111M
4737 posts
9/5/2020 5:16 pm

    Quoting Lily20145:
    who is that young girl upset you
No, I've always had these thought about life.
External Beauty is always nice to look at and its undeniable of it being what it is, but we all know by our ages, that character, integrity and people who are honest is where the beauty is made to glow from within.

Many of us know many people who are nice to look at, but we also know why we do not make effort to try to make any more of it than that.


Lily20145 58F
885 posts
9/7/2020 6:52 am

Beyond, that's always interesting to know who trigger your thoughts to write this kind of blog. I think mass media constantly promoting how wealthy you get when you are looking certain level of "Beauty". I would say mass media plays vital role to influence this trend. Girls just follow the path and try to get easy life with their external beauty when they are still young. I read news recently about the most popular birthday presents from children to their older parents in Korea, not surprise to find it is "Face Lift surgery". Who doesn't want to look their best so they feel good about themselves.

I would say if you are still young and pretty, why not use the most of it before it's gone for good. It's the same as our physically capabilities, use the most of it before it's too late.

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beyondfantasy3 111M
4737 posts
9/18/2020 2:03 pm

    Quoting Lily20145:
    Beyond, that's always interesting to know who trigger your thoughts to write this kind of blog. I think mass media constantly promoting how wealthy you get when you are looking certain level of "Beauty". I would say mass media plays vital role to influence this trend. Girls just follow the path and try to get easy life with their external beauty when they are still young. I read news recently about the most popular birthday presents from children to their older parents in Korea, not surprise to find it is "Face Lift surgery". Who doesn't want to look their best so they feel good about themselves.

    I would say if you are still young and pretty, why not use the most of it before it's gone for good. It's the same as our physically capabilities, use the most of it before it's too late.
I think the physical beauty of youth was given to improve the element of attractions to both male and females... It should not be callously abused. It has its place, but what constitutes the stability of longevity, which is what the marriage vows claim... it matter then that character and integrity take center stage once the physical attraction has done its role.
When the character and integrity is centered, it them promotes each to take care of their health, their body and groom and maintain themselves as they age.

If Looks is used to only attract money, it may well do that, but that's likely all the person will end up with, and money does not fulfill the whole of the person.

We see people who are both good looking and wealthy, who can't keep a relationship going 6 months... for many reason, but some get hung up on the looks, and the money and "think they can have "anyone and everyone" that passes by and they delude themselves to think such.
There's many old single miserable once upon a time beauty people, both male and female.... who have not and may not figure out that it takes more than that to keep a mate.
People have walked away from money, and walked away from beauty... which means, neither will be a sure fire thing to sustain a relation.

At my age, I get looks, I don't have lots of money, but I'm also not in want of anything in particular.... But... I am not getting tangled up just because someone looks good. I've met many good looking women that something is missing when it comes to the character and integrity, that I'd care to engage with.
and i'm sure many have had similar and like situations.


beyondfantasy3 111M
4737 posts
9/18/2020 2:56 pm

    Quoting  :

different places and environment, have much to do with how people become.
I have a friend who has two beautiful daughter, and the mother herself looks good. She made a decision when they were very young, that she's make them well rounded individuals, by investing them in learning, cultural things, artistic things, sports things and such, so they have more to rely on than their looks.
They are very active in civic matters, they are active in cultural things, and they know how to take care of themselves and they can cook and clean for themselves. They also have good exposure to seeing and doing things, so they are able to have intelligent conversation and they have education where they know how to research and find out the depth of things so they know what they are talking about.

Society has such a problem mis-judging people based on ethnicity, race and such ... Hopefully things are changing because within the diversity of people, there is so much wealth of information, experience, culture and concepts of character and integrity that knows how to develop and support the morality of being.

We all like looking at "Pretty"... and its nothing wrong with that!!!!


beyondfantasy3 111M
4737 posts
9/18/2020 3:04 pm

I like "Do It Yourself" Women... which means women who can do things for themselves and not feel they are being slighted because someone else did not do it for them. They are far less likely to get into relationships with a mass of expectation of a man to do everything and give them everything.

Some guys do too much for women, and in the spin of things, it takes away from the women, because it removes her option of being able to share and show what she can do and what she can bring forth and share and contribute.

I certainly don't care for "whiny women"... for me, its irritating, because she needs to ask herself why is she whining so much.

Maybe that's why some guys like "country women", who grew up doing things herself. It does not make her any less of a woman, but it makes her more full rounded as a person who is an individual.
I'm not into "those who focus solely on "being a public fashion socialite", because women who can do things themselves, also know how to dress themselves when they need to dress for occasions.

I am not into Un-kept women, who don't appreciate her natural self enough to keep herself well groom and attire herself neatly.