beyondfantasy3 111M
2364 posts
9/19/2021 7:30 am
Where have the people gone


Years ago this site had more people, it seems more and more fade away as the times move along.
Has COVID resulted to take the lives of some members?
Has there been so many social media platforms that many have just gone to other platforms for their communications.

Often people did not engage much commentary to things shared, which means the lack of interaction by people is more critical to the shrinking of forums and blogs.
Anything that advances advance because people engage it.

As a site that claim itself a dating site. People failed to use it respectfully to actually engage communicating that actually bring people to know each other.
Scams, and criminal motivated deceptions has done much damage to many websites.

It's when people engage responsibly that gives a site its enduring credibility.

Where are the people?


beyondfantasy3 111M
4737 posts
9/20/2021 3:57 pm

Where did everyone go?


1ClassyLady 66F
3159 posts
9/20/2021 5:03 pm

There are many NEW MEMBERS posted their comments on my blogs that I had to delete and block them because their non-knowledgeable comments. I have had internet trolls/ sour heaters emailed me twice said he is afraid of Democratic president will take away his g*ns. He said it is waste his time to talk to me. Of course, I blocked him from view my profile to comment my blogs or email me. He was a Gold member, but since I blocked him, he disappeared. He is NOT a scammer but nothing in common with me.

I also received lots of emails from Gold members who live in Hong Kong. I am not charity organization, I can't save so many people to USA. One NEW MEMBER (not subscriber) lives in Hong Kong posted weird comments on my blogs asked goannaoil that if he know "how many Chinese soldiers have been k*lled by college students?" I was furious to post 2 more photos to show that 12 Chinese PLA (People's Liberation Army) 中国人民解放军 surrounding an armless 無武器的college student and a photo of PLA bombed students at Tienanmen Square massacre on June 4th, 1989 used cannon bombs. That person live in Hong Kong but been brainwashed by CCP 井底蛙. He knows nothing. How can it possible for a HongKongese don't know the situation in Hong Kong. He is so ridiculous. The whole world sympathized HongKongers against CCP PLA soldiers and Hong Kong police. But that moron said college students k*lled PLA soldiers.

There are so many disappointments with many bloggers who don't know CCP. They are communists. They don't know what is going on in the world. They don't know CCP has k*lled more than 80 million Chinese people plus 4.67 million people in the world that Coronavirus (COVID-19 infected). Chinese live in China don't know the massacres again and again many times. How can that be?? CCP propaganda, wolf warrior diplomacy, and pandemic spreading have made many countries realized their trades with China were mistakes and isolated diplomatic with China. USA, European Union, Australia, Canada, Japan have awaken their mistakes and disassociate with China. Xi has 20 months not go abroad to any country. I was stunted by those ignorant, illiterate people. Shame on them.



Honesty is the best policy.


chatillion 70M
1531 posts
9/22/2021 5:55 am

I see less activity with new profiles. As many as thirty percent of them are using photos of known scammers and famous people.

Not more than a hundred women online at any point in time tells an important story as a few years ago those numbers were triple.

I will say a few free sites are getting more activity simply because you can send messages to other members without having to pay for membership.