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Last Day. Last Post. Thank you for taking the time to read my short blog. The results of my month long paid voyage are as follows: 12 - Winks 53 - Messages (Including Repeats) 10 (Approx.) – Removed from My Inbox for Abuse 185 - Views 3 - Hotlists Unknown – Messages Sent I sent allot of messages but they were not logged in my “Sent” box. They were, however, listed individually at the bottom of each profile I responded to which saved me from bothering woman who seemed to have no interest. One really cool feature I liked was to pay extra (double) to give woman the ability to email me for free if they want to. Overall, I suspect less than half of the profiles I looked at were from active woman on the site. My goal was to find a woman within the US. I think I met around ten really cool women but their interest faded (as did mine) after three or for emails. In retrospect, I will limit my efforts to local woman so we can go out and do stuff together rather than laboring through a conversation in English. I’m sure I would have done allot better had I spoken the language of the woman I was interacting with. Talking on the phone also seemed problematic. I suggested it a few times but there was very little receptivity; which is understandable. I also got the impression many of the woman just want to be social with no intent of moving forward passed IM’ing or email. I also got a good sense of how careful (or skeptical) some can be to the extent I am left to wonder if we (men) can ever get beyond the stereotypes or false expectations that evolve from womans expectation based on anacdotal evidense from past relationships (GOG  . I am hopefull none the less.Two problems at previous free sites that did not occur had to do with 1) CAM girls trolling the date site to get me to check them out naked with my visa card; and, 2) scammers sending template emails telling sad depressing stories in order to get money sent to them. Curious though, why $400 was the same amount needed on most occasions. One problem I came across in my experience at this site was lying on a profile concerning location. Some of the girls I thought were local turned out to be from the UK, Nigeria, or some other part of Africa. I politely left the scene and they were polite enough to allow me to do so. No harm no foul. Overall, I would say interacting here was a good experience. I got to meet a lot of nice girls even though nothing stuck. I also got a good sense of what age appropriate might mean but the jury is still out on that. As a final gesture, I created an email address and sent it to all woman I had interaction with just in case. One never knows. No one has responded so the result is self-evident I suppose. I suspect I may never find what I am looking for but then again, I can always hope the right woman finds me. In the meantime, I will be moving on to another site for a while to start over again. I’m just not sure which one. After all, there are many. Thank you again for hanging out with me. I know we will all find what we are looking for - eventually. Bye for now.... 
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Good summation... It may be different for Asian men living in the same city in China, Although, over the years, there have been a few people to hook up, some lasted short, some lasted a year, and one we know of, the guy went to China and got married, last I heard they were still married. I personally don't think there has to be instant overwhelming infatuation when people meet, but that does not mean many woman may not be looking for instant overwhelming infatuation. Liking someone may simply be enough to inspire them to continue if they want to 'build" a relationships, rather than "fall' into one.
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