4750ataff
(scott )
56M
7 posts
5/14/2011 11:38 am

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4/10/2012 4:04 am

any input would be appreciated


i have to ask, if this account/member is 'spam' or real: "willmamimiss0014"

i'm not a complete idiot, ( emphasis on 'COMPLETE' )

csh042968


beefies 55M
63 posts
5/17/2011 2:09 am

I'm wary of women asking me for money immediately upon correspondence. I've met my share of scammers. Be careful.


beyondfantasy3 113M
4740 posts
5/15/2011 6:11 am

it is probably wise for one to generally pay attention to the nature and character of what people post. many use chat rooms for various things, but you can always look at the blogs people post and see what is their thought flow about things. If they don't post any, then one may wonder what do they think. as well as one may look at their commentary to what is posted and see if they are surface skimmers, covert comedians, or what comes forth.

but chasing the illusion of these pictures, is like chasing clouds. there are lots of "fisher women" with baited hooks, waiting to catch a fish... and if by chance a man lives like a fish seeking to be caught, then he will get caught, and he will have no idea of what the character of the fisher women who catches him is about.

if one encounters a woman that like to play tease and temp games, then if one can handle the bs of it all, then do so, as long as one understands that it is a tease and temp bs game, then no one is going to get ripped.
but there are many men, who come into these sites with a sense of desperation, and the women smell it right away, like a a bear in the woods would smell a fish fry from a mile away.
Many of these women will fade away quickly, if the men stop catering to them as if he worships her image and will swallow anything she says as gospel..they will get angry, contemptuous and eventually they will vanish when they find they have not found a sucker who will become their puppet.

if by chance a man finds one that is genuine and actually a real honest person who is by nature with intent to be friends, they will not fade at the first disagreement, they will not put the beg on you for money, and they will not expect you to agree to everything they say. but they also won't fade away like a changing cloud when the wind blows. Patience, with regards to time, reveals everything....