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online dating v.s. making friends online Sometimes I really doubt that you can find someone good online who will be only good with you afterwards. If it will go offline in one day, do you think he/she is strong-minded enough and is satisfied to be only with you, but not to go back online to find whatever he/she wants to find again? I said that becoz I've talked to a few guys who are married for a few years, yet they need to come to find friends online-----and appearently on a dating site, ppl are all looking for the potential dates/lovers, whoever that will make you feel you want to like/love(the things between men and women), if you know what I mean. So is it really necessary for them to find friends online?? I really doubt their real intention. And will they be strong-minded not to be affected by the affection from some gorgerous girls? I suggest them not to test the strength of their hearts, as sometimes your body reaction will be stronger and harder than your brain or heart. And sometimes they tend to think that is....connection or like or love, whatever. Well, basically I want to say, it could be a place that you can meet some new ppl, but I really doubt it will turn out to be something serious, unless you two both know what you are looking for and are sure you are honest and true to each other and would like to put some time and effort in it. Otherwise, this online dating thing will turn out to be only some 'small talks' and ''time-killing entertainment', if you know what I mean. |
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7/26/2011 9:25 pm |
Agreed.
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