SugiDancer 60F
117 posts
10/8/2011 4:26 pm
Offensive Behavior Online from Men


Why Do Men Like to Post Naked Pictures of Themselves?

Since I've joined a few dating websites and looked on Craig's List too, I've seen a lot of men who post naked pictures on themselves to show the whole world. I'm also been asked many times on Chat to go on Cam. But I don't trust men who ask that without knowing them. When I refuse to go on Cam, some men would say offensive things to me, feel empowered.
They are professionals too and have college degrees, as well. But they end up doing such stupid things.
It happened to me today, so I reported the guy who doesn't have a photo uploaded, and said some very offensive things on Chat. I said to him to “Go Jump Off a Bridge,” to be nice. I could of swore to him back, easily, but I decided not too.

So I need feedback from a few men to answer my question.

Thank you for reading my blogs.



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goannaoil 69M
6903 posts
10/9/2011 12:42 am

They say they are educated, well heeled and cultured but the behaviour would suggest otherwise. Unfortunately, the aspect of anonymity of the internet may embolden some to act beyond what they would do in real life.

Of course, there is nothing wrong with that but as long as it it in an appropriate situation and is between consenting adults. The key word here is 'consent.'


SugiDancer 60F
127 posts
10/10/2011 1:27 am

I meet men all the time at Single's events I've been Co-hosting at nightclubs. When I meet them they are polite and would never pull the crap, or have the Balls to speak offensive to my face.

The men, that have pulled crap are people, that I've met Online for the first time usually.

So the last guy who said something offensive to me over the past weekend, I said to him to go "Jump off a Bridge."

He then cowardly hung up. Maybe I should post the profiles ID, of those men too?

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beyondfantasy3 111M
4736 posts
10/10/2011 4:42 am

college degree only means a person attended a organization which provides information.
People too often mistake organization which dispense information as being something that build character. Information is information.
Character is the quality of an individual to regard self and society with a respectful interaction.

We put far too much stock in the claim of a degree, for the wrong reasons.

There are robbers, thieves, killers, molesters, and every kind of criminal mindset one can imagine who claim degrees. anyone who attends a facility which dispense information will get a degree if they show up long enough and participate.

The only thing a university guarantee's is that an individual will be exposed to information if they show up.


goannaoil 69M
6903 posts
10/10/2011 7:05 am

Maybe I should post the profiles ID, of those men too?

You may leave yourself open for libel issues.


woaini1947 58M
3973 posts
10/10/2011 12:15 pm

You should post their profiles so that any woman considering talking to these men would be forewarned. I don't know what these folks hope to derive from this type of conversation. It is repulsive and will get them nowhere. If a "lady" did enjoy this type of behavior, she would certainly not be worth your time. Yes, cowards will say things on-line that they could not muster up the courage to say to your face. These are the guys who run the opposite way while their comrades stand fast and fight. They are not worth your time.


SugiDancer 60F
127 posts
10/10/2011 9:31 pm

I also want to hear from some women if they are experiencing the same thing from guys on AFF.

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gangama 52M

10/11/2011 10:00 pm

Why do a lot of women also pose in sexy,revealing clothing, half breasts exposed,bottoms hanging out,pouting,teasing lips? I have never seen a naked picture in here of men,and i even tried to upload a sexy picture of myself,but it was denied by AFF? Talk about double standards,here they even promote users to upload a "SEXY,SEDUCTIVE,introduction,the homepage is bannered with sexy flirtatios women,but that makes me a dirty old man to look at it???
Why do u feel the need to post their profiles here, or anywhere for that matter? Im sure most intelligent women can weed out the good from bad,just as i can weed out the fake scammers and webcam girls that frquent this site, but if i tell them this, they get the shits and feel the need to report me?? The mind boggles.....

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masada125 59M

10/25/2011 4:42 pm

The online world is the proverbial wild west. No laws, no morals, no real predictability. This format makes it difficult for guys to differentiate themselves from the pack. So they revert either by sending a genital photo or by coming on in an inappropriate and blundering manner.
This is sad; there are a lot of pent-up men who are ready to pounce.
You can always report a member (no pun intended) for abuse.
Mainly, focus on the charming and erudite responders like me who truly like and respect women... like me.


SugiDancer 60F
127 posts
10/29/2011 1:51 am

Thank you Masada for your great comments. There is a lack of respect of people, on the Internet and on Craig's List in general. I do understand men's needs in general. But again for women they use their emotions more to get their needs met. I get turned on if I man cooks me dinner from scratch!

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SugiDancer 60F
127 posts
10/30/2011 3:20 am

    Quoting gangama:
    Why do a lot of women also pose in sexy,revealing clothing, half breasts exposed,bottoms hanging out,pouting,teasing lips? I have never seen a naked picture in here of men,and i even tried to upload a sexy picture of myself,but it was denied by AFF? Talk about double standards,here they even promote users to upload a "SEXY,SEDUCTIVE,introduction,the homepage is bannered with sexy flirtatios women,but that makes me a dirty old man to look at it???
    Why do u feel the need to post their profiles here, or anywhere for that matter? Im sure most intelligent women can weed out the good from bad,just as i can weed out the fake scammers and webcam girls that frquent this site, but if i tell them this, they get the shits and feel the need to report me?? The mind boggles.....
But all men love looking at Sexy Asian Women right? That's why we are all here. Just admit it! Also, You know this website is owned by Penthouse Corporation and also traded in the Nasdaq at $2.00 per share. This site and other sites they own are high in traffic.
I went to a Halloween Pub Crawl today, where some of the White women had clevage showing and breasts implants. You can sort of tell who had the implants. There weren't too many Asian American women there today. I didn't show my breast hanging out, but wore a sexy silver mirrored Hugo Buscati sleeveless dress. With a silk Japanese Happi coat on top. I took off the Happi coat only at the Irish Pub we were at, since it was getting hot. I also brought my mink trim fur coat to look like a Hollywood starlet or Millionairess. It didn't look like a costume, but at least I was tasteful in my dress. We did parade thru the streets in front of Pike Place Market with many onlookers and I felt proud to be in front of the parade, with our host with a blowhorn.

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