SugiDancer 62F
100 posts
11/14/2011 9:50 pm
A Woman With Masculine Energy


A Woman with Masculine Energy

I have a lot of masculine energy, a deep voice and can do certain things to set up a date, which usually the man needs to set up if it's the first 2 dates. So he feel in control. I often can't step back to allow the man when it comes to arrangements. I had to take on different roles with my Ex-husband and be more dominant.

The one thing I don't much of is sports except playing pool, bowling or cards. I did learn how to shoot a hand gun recently, which I thought was fun. You won't find me doing rock climbing, marathons, bungy jumping or skydiving.
I would like to try race car driving on a track.

There are a lot of women athletes who use their masculine energy to compete in team sports like soccer, basketball, volleyball, and softball. There are few women who have Black belts in Karate or who wrestle. I've seen the Mexican women wrestlers who wear skirts, on one travel show.

I've also take a lot of leadership classes, programs, professional development to improve my business and personal skills and attitude.

I was the event planner even for our wedding, travel agent, sometimes financial assistant to get him to go to Fin. Planner appointments. I looked for the mortgage and house. I even looked for his used car, when he needed another one.
I'm also a Tom Boy, where I feel comfortable in hanging out with a group of men, even by myself. It happened when I attended a 26 Y.O, male friend's party. We are just friends.

Sugi Dancer, Dating Coach


gangama 54M

11/14/2011 10:05 pm

My kind of lady!! A woman with masculine energy,not a kitty girl!

so enchanting she delights the soul


beyondfantasy3 113M
4740 posts
11/15/2011 4:50 am

Some women don't understand they have the diversity of energy flow, and the minute they feel any level of masculine energy, they start chasing women.
You seem to understand, that woman can have a "I can do things for myself, without becoming lesbian".. because they had to do things for themselves.

Maybe you can teach that to some of the women, in your role as a Dating Coach.


Alberto98981000 47M

11/20/2011 11:25 am

Hi Sugi and hi to Lucy, the role of women has been diverse, in my life I had dated plenty (I'm an old wolf) and all sides of a woman are both nourishing and yet strong handed; all women in my life (include my beautiful mother) have been of that nature, that shows ample demands and expectations, at the same time when I had my shortcomings, I sure knew a strong woman would have my back covered, therefore teaching me the true face of the femenine side, everyone of you on own style and different balances Cheers!


SugiDancer 62F
127 posts
11/24/2011 10:35 pm

Hi All!
I changed the photo of my Dress Rehearsal (With no White Kabuki Make-up), to show the Male role I had to recently play for my dance. I was using a long Cat tails for prop. The first part of the dance was more of a laid back elderly man. Then later, I had to become, Benkei, a Warrior Priest that lived long ago in Japan. He was a Body guard to Lord Yoshitsune.
We have to learn both female and male roles in traditional dance since my teacher specializes on Male role often when she dances at recitals. Plus we don't have very many Male students in the school.
I had no choice in choosing this dance for the recital in Aug. I really wanted to play a female role instead since at the last recital, I also portrayed a male character or a Toy Top salesman.

Sugi Dancer, Dating Coach


SugiDancer 62F
127 posts
12/11/2011 9:56 pm

Hi Eleven

You can also make your life colorful in China. There's lots of opportunity to be working in business and trading for China. I now have a conservative job, that I need to wear nothing but Funeral dress, like dark suits, (Navy Blue or Black) and White shirts. I not longer can wear my bright, flashy floral skirts and dresses going to work or seeing a client at home.
But I can't act passive or conservative since I have to do the aggressive sales work, including Cold calling strangers on the phone during dinner time. I will need to be humorous too while doing the presentations, to make the people more comfortable to discuss Funeral planning. In Chinese tradition, I heard it's bad luck to discuss death and dying.

Sugi Dancer, Dating Coach