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Why I wanted to tell US uncle of police or posted my story here After that officer told me that he was not in General Hospital in Kuala Lumpur, I really believed I met an internet dating scammer. Actually I could not say anything to him because everything that I would say was not useful. Remember you cannot ask mercifulness from evils. Of course, you cannot ask money back from a stealer. I think a stealer is different from an internet dating scammer or maybe they are a little better than internet dating scammers. Why? Because when stealers finish their “work”, they might escape or hide as soon as their possible. But the internet dating scammers are more arrogant because they know the victims cannot do anything for them. Their telephone # are still work and they just change ID and do their “work” again on line. And it is much worse for internet dating scammers. They not only want money and also trample victims’ dignity and love emotion. For victims, they just fell down in traps, afterword they can get off from traps and learn how to protect themselves. But for scammers, they fell down in abysses of criminal, after word they fell deeper and deeper. Nobody can stop them until their see God. That’s why we have to control our desires according Buddhist theories. After 3 days, he called me and left a message for two times, but I did not like to talk to a liar. After two weeks, one day I wondered he might change his tele # so I called him again. I was very surprised because he still used the same tele#. He told his situation was better and the embassy helped him. He stayed in a hotel at that time and he was waiting his cousin to send money to him. I did not say anything and I could feel I was so “cold” to answer him. As if, I suddenly closed all my thinking, feeling and emotion from him. Every time he thanked me in crying sound, but I knew our communication was stopped from then because I knew he did not need me anymore since his “work” was over from me. Oh, after he was first day in General Hospital, I sent recover message and card by email. Until now nobody reviews. Last month, one day I suddenly wanted to try to call his tele# of Malaysia that he also answered!!! But this time, he just answered “hello, hello, hello” which looked like something was wrong with his phone line. He did not say anything and hang off. I felt very angry why he was so arrogant that he even did not change his tele#. Nobody can stop them for their criminals. I tried to submit my complaint in US police website. I got an answer to keep all evidences but they cannot do anything now due to they receive thousands of letters like this every day. I do not call his US tele#, but I check it which is also working now. I feel I have a lot of righteousness, but I cannot do anything. I feel I hold one stick and I want to hit someone, but I cannot touch him. He is just there, but I cannot do anything. I feel one more sister fell down in his trap, then more and more also again and again. I really do not want to this thing is happened anymore, but I have no way. I just use my writing to mention all sisters who like me want to look for true love on line, also like me such a naïve, pure thinking and kind-heart to treat everyone on line. If there is one sister who can be careful to protect herself in order to write my story to get experience from mine. I am very glad and no regret to stay here to tell my story. |
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12/19/2011 3:11 am |
 so enchanting she delights the soul
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anyone can find love here and any other place.. but if one expects to find love.. let money not be involved in it !!!!!! the minute you get ANY MAIL from ANY PERSON, and they mention money.. the best thing to do is CUT COMMUNICATION IMMEDIATELY. now if you meet someone, and over time you've shared good exchanges, and you want to send them something, because you want to do it, not because they gave a sob story, or a begging story or a poor mouth story.. but make sure you feel the person is someone you truly have come to know and getting to know them has nothing to do with money, does not imply in any ways that you will give them money, and you have not asked them for money... and money is not part of your communications.. I sent a girl $40 whom I met, but we never talked about money, we did the IM, talked on the phone and utilized email in-between talking.. mostly talking about humorous things, and funny things about work, we joked about sex, we talked about cultures, and we talked about her son, and funny things he did and lots of thing. We were talking about things she had bought him for his birthday.. and how she shopped for it, and found what he liked.. I sent her the money and she did not expect it, we laughed about the things she did with the money... she said she bought him some other things and took him to eat, and he asked her if she had won the lottery.. she wrote saying that she did not want me to give her anymore money, because she did not want to take it and she did not feel that she would be comfortable thinking that I thought she wanted money. She had a good job, and she had been working her job a long time, she has her own home and car and she has investments.. We talked for quite some time, she liked traveling and shared pictures of herself and her friend visiting many locations. I had no doubts that she was a genuine person.. she was a very interesting and funny woman, with a great sense of humor, she shared and taught me a lot of things about the culture, and told me many interesting and funny stories about daily life. she was very open about talking about the humor aspects of sexual things and many other things. I don't feel anything negative about giving her the $40 to do some extra things in her daily life. When I met woman in Thailand, I offered to buy them things, they never wanted anything, even the girls I met from the bars, I may pay them the first night, but they would not take the money on the other nights we shared times and the days we went out and did things. I'd put the money in their pocket or purse anyway, because I knew she had to live and she had expense, and she was taking her time to share with me and show me around, she had my laundry done, drove me where I wanted to go, and she was always trying to take me to dinner or some place at her expense. I think.. me who treat women nice as individuals can come to know more about the women as persons, I had the same experience in HKG, the women i spent the most time with wanted nothing, she would go and pay for dinner, but tell me she was going to the bathroom.. but each of these women know, that I did not need to scam them, and they showed me they did not need to scam me.. so we had a great time. We maintained communication for some time. I basically cut the communications, when it was no longer practical for me to plan to visit their cities. but one thing is certain.. we each parted with fond memories of the time and things shared. I don't need a woman's money... I don't care if she has millions, it is still her money and I'm not going to try and scam or play her out of any of it. that kind of stuff is not good ... I don't care to make a criminal out of my own life and self dignity, behind money or sex. I like women more than I like many things, because as a man it is natural inclination, and the best thing a woman can do with me and for me, is to share without games and without manipulative trips.... I'm very aware of the trips and games, and i don't mind letting women know that I'm aware of the trips and games, but I also let women know if they want to play the trips and games, that I won't be sticking around to play them with her.
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to you and any other woman... the minute you meet a man on the internet and he starts asking for money and favors.. be wise and cut him loose. even if you meet a man in person, and within a short time he always has a hard luck story... cut him loose, but don't give him any of your money. Now if you make a relationships and both of you actually see and have frequency seeing each other, and it is a reciprocal thing where you help each other.. then that is entirely different. you will get over this clown, but chalk it up to education, because in this world, education always cost... but we need not continue to pay and repay for the same education, once we have paid and received it once.
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