Prozrachnyi 30F
28 posts
1/29/2012 12:50 pm
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gangama 55M

1/29/2012 5:53 pm

boys will be boys.....hey,where can i meet these women who just want a sexual relationship? Are they in here,all this love and sentimental bullshit is driving me crazy...i know they do exist,it ain't just men who think about sex,in fact women get it more often than we men do,so i don't know why ur complaiinng...what's all this nonesense that women say,friends first,then let's see what happens i mean,come on girls,friends r friends,you don't become friends with someone and wait too see what happens,it's one or the other,LOVERS,if ur instantly attracted to them,or FRIENDS,if u think they r good to know,but u don't want to sleep with them....let's be realisitc here,of course men are going to want a sexual relationship first,that's how we work,don't blame us,it's primal instinct,we have no control over it,and just because we want sex doesn't mean we not wan't to be "friends" with you afterwards.....there is no good or bad or right or wrong,we just complicated souls,men and women.
What's so tabboo about wanting sex jeesh,why do wome,and to be fair here,men also, have to degrade this wonderful ,natural act?

so enchanting she delights the soul


gangama 55M

1/29/2012 6:13 pm

Oh yeah,one more thing,what kind of women says she is looking for a soulmate,lifetime partner,blah blah blah,when in fact all she wants is to get out of her country,gain PR???Then leave a man after granted PR??What's worse??The fact is,both men and women are deceiving in this site,and many others too.At least men are honest with their intentions in regards to wanting sex. We are just to open and direct about it,whereas women ,well, who knows what women are thinking anymore??
Peace be with you sisters!!

so enchanting she delights the soul


Prozrachnyi 30F

1/29/2012 6:20 pm

I just wanted sex with a man. He told me that was a shame, because he really liked it and wanted to make it into something more. I told him I'd go for it, and see what happens. He pretty much tried sleeping with my friends within the first week. I still see this person, but sheesh! That made me feel like a total idiot. Also, I don't really consider myself friends with this person, he's just my supervisor at work.

I'm moving in 8 months anyways, which is why I'm pretty much not into full-fledged relationships right now unless the person can deal with an hour and a half of long distance.

Sex is just sex in my opinion, you shouldn't add words into the mix if that's all you want. Times are changing... hahaha


Prozrachnyi 30F

1/29/2012 6:30 pm

It can be the other way around to. I once met a man who wanted to marry me because he thought I was pretty... and that way he could become a United States citizen.


gangama 55M

1/29/2012 6:57 pm

Just sex???? Well,you almost sound too good to be true,no offence.
He didn't really think it was a shame, he was just being polite,trying to convince you that he is a good man and not just interested in sex,because you were most likely the first woman he ever met who "just wanted sex",where in fact, he was probably most pleased that all you wanted was "just sex"! ,and as most,not all, men will do, then try to have sex with your friends.
Really? Times they are a changing? You mean we heading back to the 60's,where sex was free,we all wanted to do it,it wasn't considered tabboo,there were no expectations other than pure mutual pleasure 'n' bliss? Bring it on
Have you ever thought of relocating to Australia

so enchanting she delights the soul


beyondfantasy3 113M
4740 posts
1/30/2012 6:19 pm

its the same game either way.. if the man acted like he did not want more, some women even though they only want sex, will be expecting him to want more as a validation point.

I like women who can see sex as sex.. but most wrap sex into a million other things.

Now if this guy was not your supervisor, and maybe not in a power role, how then would you view it ? surely you know there is a sense of favor that he shows to have sex and be the supervisor...

is everyone really being honest in the whole matter...


Prozrachnyi 30F

1/30/2012 6:59 pm

Pregnancy... hoping I won't have to worry about that for a while. I have an implanon, so unless that messes up I shouldn't worry. I've actually been to Australia before... it was a long time ago, though.