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About Success - New Thesis - I remember some years ago living in USA , as researcher and pure scientist the nature of research was only behavioral and pure chemical and how those chemicals and behavior are modified. Usually if we imitate , then we succeed. But after being in Asia again as when I was , gain a new perspective, also working more free in full time strategies and more variables and constants. Eventually for that success which usually we separate into personal and professional we want to achieve, we give them different nature, we made them dependable in different variables when at the end are not so unrelated, as the responsibility for the consequence of the actions will be who determine many of the paths to that state of satisfaction which will push us into wanting more satisfaction. Usually the one that push us into be less satisfied fields is not related here, frustration is usually the result of a procedure when we expect too much and we effort too little, plus some variables or constant we did not think were going to be against our thoughts , by themselves or Murphy force, just messed with our objectives. So we continue in the path to success, and working in China I started a premise, " success is based on being right " , and being right, not as the opposite of being wrong, but as governing dynamics Nash's theory, is about the surrounding effort to create win-win scenarios. Being right is about a full study of 3C we do before act or start a new venture, let's call it " the business plan " of this new goal. Then we start with Pre-causes , Causes and Consequences, basically reasons why we do it and what will be beneficial for our lives, the procedures to follow, and what will be the consequence of each one, and how we will be responsible if each choice is made. Then how we make the choice, what is the base of being right, as Mr.Nash tried in the game theory, is a chain of strategies on players and the objective is win, but, who will win ? According to my thesis, and is when all things come together, for someone being right, 3 parts of his/her life has to win; Self, as Personal gain; Experience, as Professional Gain; Ties or Motive Oriented Relations, as the people influenced by your life that will eventually gain positive emotions or satisfaction by correlation with you. So the triangle of being right and make the right choice depends on 3 elements winning, and how you are responsible for the consequences of those choices. I still do not believe in luck or coincidences, there are not such, there are chances, but I also changed a bit what I believe about chances. I use to believe there is only once big chance in life, and we all circle our life, our strategy about find that one, the right job, or big contract, the right one and I used to believe they all come together, the person of your life, comes at the same time, the job of your life comes, not means that person works there or is related to the work, but is related in time-space to it. But lately, I expanded, as there are 3 parts of your life to win with your choices, then has to be 3 chances also to make it right. Then the 3 of 3 was born. Is time of Christmas and usually the pine is drawn as 3 triangles together, and is what I thought about this new success theory. You start in the base, as foundation is the most important for everything. But what is the base, we need to believe, but more than faith, believe we can do, so is confidence. But also we need to have the power, the courage the desire to achieve, and that is Will. But we also need to realize all the Pre-Causes, that is loyos, knowledge in the pure concept. So we have the first 3 of the three. WILL, CONFIDENCE AND KNOWLEDGE. And we did the Pre-Cause path to be right. The comes the 3D. That are part of the Choice or Cause. Determination as consequence of will and confidence, and with Determination you will make some many are afraid to make, and that second D, will be Decision. If you do not make it, you will never know what will happen. And usually when that decision is made, some people before used to call it habit, to the act of keeping the same actions or decisions , but the best term is Discipline, as there are factors and constants that will appear with it. So we have the second triangle of that three, DETERMINATION, DECISION, DISCIPLINE. And we will go to the start, when consequences come, the first thing to appear is awareness, even if the CHoice was right or not, then is the time to divert it and make some changes and you with REALIZATION, do this. But also , to make it right, and influence the third group on your decision, you need RESPECT (for yourself and them), and we already talked about the last part of the 3, what will make the whole right scheme, is RESPONSIBILITY. Acceptation of consequences, and the responsibility on them, is what defines what is right and get benefits for those consequences, and your career and the centers of your affection. The Triad then appears again (Even better than in the legend of Zelda - which i used to play every day when i was like 15) and states that it is right any action which benefits Personally - Professionally and Emotionally a being. The Universe is billion of years old, you wont live even 100, so enjoy more and travel light. |
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These principals are as put, often times, what become an intercedent element is the nature of human emotion; which you discussed. 1. frustration is usually the result of a procedure when we expect too much and we effort too little 2. (as the responsibility for the consequence of the actions will be who determine many of the paths to that state of satisfaction which will push us into wanting more satisfaction.) (x-factor) {not necessarily always 'who', but, at times "what"} Equally what you eloquently express can be also relative in consideration of how relationships function within the male female mating scenario. 1. research was only behavioral and pure chemical 2. gain a new perspective, also working more free in full time strategies and more variables and constants. if ,and within and then / then and within and if > According to your thesis, and is when all things come together, for someone being right, 3 parts of his/her life has to win; Self, as Personal gain; Experience, as Professional Gain; Ties or Motive Oriented Relations, as the people influenced by your life that will eventually gain positive emotions or satisfaction by correlation with you. 
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11/26/2011 11:20 pm |
Thanks so much for your comment. Yes, I think been right is a process which involves more than yourself. there are career decisions, moving decisions, many other issues in which we sometimes do not consider all the factors to been right, and those eventually will include not only our careers and ourselves but people who will be affected for the decisions we make. The Universe is billion of years old, you wont live even 100, so enjoy more and travel light.
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