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The Circle and Flow of Values between A couple To answer about Canadaman and allan blog, I talk about circles everywhere but could not post the image of it, But well, here is the one.  The Universe is billion of years old, you wont live even 100, so enjoy more and travel light. |
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I have a friend who designed a chart after more than 30 years in the business of family and relationship and other counseling.. it too, involves "circles". funny thing in the big picture, but the study of logic, with a focus on critical thinking, use many syllogisms to convey methods for deductive reasoning, which then in infused with inductive reasoning to project a perspective of summation.
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12/6/2011 8:48 am |
I remember that you and I had shared about this issue, from a perception of a man and a woman in a relationship. The problem is not about who is right and wrong. Canadaman has took this out of the context . You may understand more from some ladies readers trying to explain the circle flow. That 's why we talk about the mind of a western man visualizing a chinese woman from China could measure up to his need. Thanks
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12/7/2011 8:42 am |
It's a very clear chart, the central circle, has man and woman and money, when I posted my comments on the other blog, I said let men be men, women be women, I was trying to say that this man and woman in this middle circle, function in harmoney, passionatly, enjoy their intimacy and sharing everything togehter. then, the other circles would be smaller and less destructive. I like this web sites blogs for its features of relathionship and family issue, for example I never think too much about how to divide money when a couple get divorced, now I realize this is becoming a more common issue. so, It's a learning process. My explanation was actually adressing to you statement. I forgot to quote your post. It is just one of these days. Charlies had made a very good point there as well. Thanks
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12/26/2011 5:34 am |
Just to make a very important point here, I am talking about Financial Values, or the ones that are balanced against debts and bills, not any spiritual , moral or interactive kind of value. Is basically the flow of income and how goes out in some cases and how to plan against it so it can flow better. The Universe is billion of years old, you wont live even 100, so enjoy more and travel light.
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12/26/2011 7:47 am |
Just to make a very important point here, I am talking about Financial Values, or the ones that are balanced against debts and bills, not any spiritual , moral or interactive kind of value. Is basically the flow of income and how goes out in some cases and how to plan against it so it can flow better. I know it is not a lesson teaching people how to be smart in dividing money in a relationship , but to be aware of these factors can play a big role according to a man and a woman between their perspectives in Financial Values. Thanks
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12/26/2011 8:29 pm |
Indeed is not a division, a blog before said that women cheat men on money, this is the graphic of how it works, then I said, simply open a new circle to avoid that, then other said that maybe you when drunk or in intimacy can give the secret on the separate account, then there is a third circle to plan for that. If you go down to the first time we talk about those circles and how to avoid other cheating on money, that was the beginning of it. From Canada in China, Flow of money and planning for those issues. Sometimes you need to play games to see what is real and what is faithful and what is not. Game Theory is all about circles with illogical solutions. This is a conclusion of about 5 posts I have made before, is not an independent blog, so must come from there to get to this point  The Universe is billion of years old, you wont live even 100, so enjoy more and travel light.
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12/27/2011 7:34 am |
Right, but I do not know if everybody would take the same approach of playing game to find out the motivation of each person. In the courtship, people play enough to be on top of the game , being a pleaser until the marriage fails. but it takes many years to realize the truth. I believe that no one would admit to himself that he is wrong till the day comes. Thanks
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12/28/2011 8:09 am |
I admit I am dummy, my ex used to do those kinds of things, when I was firstly on my own, I borrowed a book from library "How to Manage Your Finance." I had a late return, the librarian said" If you want to manage your money better, you'd better return it on time to avoid the fine." Anyways, my upbring and edcation kicked in, I am proud that I keep my balance well. Financing is very important for the family, as long as partners trust, communicate with each other things will work out, at least I hope so. Happy new year to you! In fact, I do not think that you are, but each has his own journey .Nowaday, most regular guys 's requirements in a women are quite realistic, she has many life experiences, independant, smart and attractive. A career woman of financial independant would be ideal,In the old days, men only want her to do the housechores , raising kids and take care of her man. Unfortunately, in this modern world, things have changed now. It's not that we are bad, but it's just more practical. We can sit here for years and talk about our dreams, goals from men and women. the seeking of pleasure in a couple 's life.is endlessly giving hope to others. Thanks and Happy Holiday
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12/29/2011 1:33 am |
Geentay everything is a Game, is not like a Gambling Game or playing with other people Game, that is just a type of strategy, but everything in life is Game, that is what " Theory of Game " is about, and is basically what I have been posting from the beginning, the upgraded version of John Nash variables and Infinite{S}n solutions. Anything you do in life for a purpose or goal in theory, even economics is called " Game " The Universe is billion of years old, you wont live even 100, so enjoy more and travel light.
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12/29/2011 1:34 am |
Lucy, divorce is bad, is disruption, the problem is when people marry with the purpose or goal to get divorced, that is evil strategy, but some people use it. The Universe is billion of years old, you wont live even 100, so enjoy more and travel light.
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12/29/2011 7:32 am |
Geentay everything is a Game, is not like a Gambling Game or playing with other people Game, that is just a type of strategy, but everything in life is Game, that is what " Theory of Game " is about, and is basically what I have been posting from the beginning, the upgraded version of John Nash variables and Infinite{S}n solutions. Anything you do in life for a purpose or goal in theory, even economics is called " Game " Having said that, a person of interests can be involved in this kind of game called" emotional", the result is not brillant, no matter how you play with other people game. The strategies in business works perfectly does not mean it works in the same way as in other things in life. Let's take an example in lawsuit case with strategie , you could never know untill the verdict is announced by the Jury. Yes, in many way do we live our lives in the "Game " called economics,The strategie is having a good attitude in treating our money, preparing to financial freedom so that we can have less anxiety for the future. Thanks
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