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That Little Thing called: ... Luck ... Part 2 ... You find him/her ... you find him/her not Once upon a time there was a little girl, playing dolls, learning to read, write, add, divide. The little girl grew and the game was called " mom and dad " and new notions about emotions started to round the little girl's head. More grow, and new hormones were pulling all over, physical changes, more on the chest here, maybe on the low upper back too, different needs, a non invited endometritis every 30 days, new need, talk to that boy that some years ago was extremely annoying and today is an attractive one. As this attractive one, Little girl, met like another 7 or 8 , but they were all not so attractive, little girl liked the hair of number 1, the eyes of 8 , the sense of humor of number 6, the softness of number 5, but the hardness of number 3. Basically, the little girl did not like anyone totally, so she just gave up looking the most likely candidate for her after her 10950 day alive. She started to lose her likes and see that number 8 had a little bit sense of humor like number 6 and little bit of softness as 5 and some hardness jealousy as number 3, and she settle for number 8 ... On the opposite of the normal fairy tale, no one was happy ever after. It was just an acceptance of the lack of options. Now, the lucky chapter of interaction in the virtual world, in which the little girl paradigmatic double self found 48 more candidates , and also, like 4 or 5 more likely to be the replacement of number 8 in her double self number 1 life... So, now we have 2 little girls, one in one option number 1 or possibility of life number one that was never happy ever after ... and the number 2 that did not settle until found what she wanted, on the virtual side, the phone line, the catalog, traveling, the mean of interaction is not limited to this site or other internet sites, but for the amount of possible options the little girl could create for herself. LUCK, again NO !!! Luck DOES NOT EXIST !!! Is a chain of options or lack of possibilities, but all is giving for settle or look more... The Universe is billion of years old, you wont live even 100, so enjoy more and travel light. |
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12/6/2011 8:31 am |
Hey, thanks for sharing in Allan 's which brought me here. All in a matter of how people choose to think wisely , it has nothing to do with the WILL POWER, LUCK and CREATIVITY. That is how they start to panic when reality kicks in. I wonder if these 2 little girls ever wake up ? I like Carmenyan 's sharing in Allan's blog . Thanks
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12/16/2011 7:55 am |
It's all randomness, though some might argue luck is the residue of deign..Better to study the chaos theory, Were the first single cell organisms that crawled out of the primordial pond lucky?
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Lately, I think I'm very very lucky to have met some creative guys on AFF. One writer in Hawaii and one actor in UK. So other sites, I paid for I had no luck in meeting 2 men in person, in Seattle. I've super super lucky when my job just landed on my lap without me applying first and I didn't look very much for job search. I was contacted by a recruiter basically and showed up for a Cattle Call type interview and wasn't eliminated. So I got a 2nd interview on the first try and got the job offer, in a business that not too many people would do. So I think I'm the only Japanese American working in funeral sales in the whole company in Pacific NW. So I have greater access to my JA community. It's a sales job and numbers Game. Like dating, I have to work hard to so some sales and get in front of customers. I've been super lucky last Sept., Oct, and Nov meeting new guys in person. But I was going to Singles events twice a week before, and Co-hosting them, so my chances increased. Now I've had to slow down the events since I'm working longer hours. So I believe in Luck and drumming up your own Possibilities!  Sugi Dancer, Dating Coach
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I was also lucky to have met a talented songwriter locally, at a Japanese Party since he was taking Japanese language from a tutor. At first, I wasn't attracted to him and wouldn't of considered in going out or making friends with him, I think. But I decided to and take the chance and apologized after rejecting him first. He who has had over 2 mil. hits on You Tube for his top 2 songs. He also writes Love Songs. I've been corresponding with other songwriters who aren't as famous or poplular on a different Dating Site. I also waited 2 years to get over Rebound from my Divorce and separation. So I did go through a lonely period during that time. I got sick often and was off balanced in my emotions, except I stuck to my guns during the divorce to be strong to fight my Ex, but we didn't have to go to court and have no kids. We ended up spending over $20,000 amongst ourselves since I didn't want to talk to him, to settle since I felt betrayed for what he did to me. Please see my first blog that explains what happened. I don't want to get into it on this blog. Sugi Dancer, Dating Coach
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12/21/2011 10:13 am |
Lately, I think I'm very very lucky to have met some creative guys on AFF. One writer in Hawaii and one actor in UK. So other sites, I paid for I had no luck in meeting 2 men in person, in Seattle. I've super super lucky when my job just landed on my lap without me applying first and I didn't look very much for job search. I was contacted by a recruiter basically and showed up for a Cattle Call type interview and wasn't eliminated. So I got a 2nd interview on the first try and got the job offer, in a business that not too many people would do. So I think I'm the only Japanese American working in funeral sales in the whole company in Pacific NW. So I have greater access to my JA community. It's a sales job and numbers Game. Like dating, I have to work hard to so some sales and get in front of customers. I've been super lucky last Sept., Oct, and Nov meeting new guys in person. But I was going to Singles events twice a week before, and Co-hosting them, so my chances increased. Now I've had to slow down the events since I'm working longer hours. So I believe in Luck and drumming up your own Possibilities! From my perspective, probably you have some lessons learnt from the past in the dating site, so you become wiser and make good choices in meeting men in person. As about a job offering to your lap, it's because you have more experience than other applicants in this field . Wisdom and intelligence would never go wrong altogether. I still believe that Luck has nothing to do in your case. Thanks
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12/28/2011 7:46 am |
Interesting. I try to understand your writing . I am afraid that I have a hard time to come across your point of view. Do you mind sharing and engage discussion instead ? Thanks
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