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What age ? What is an appropriate age difference between man and lady ? When does it become not acceptable, or a bad idea ? Why do some ladies say they are ok with older men, up to 20 or 25 years older ? Is this real, or are they after benefits ? |
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I can like a broad range which includes women being as much as 35 yrs younger, if that was an option that I wanted to choose... but one thing one must consider.. that the broader the age range the more stable minded the woman has to be and the man has to be able to adjust to some idiosyncrasies that can be irritating if one is not patient. But as equally so, the older women get the more they learn to value a man.,.. many young women don't have the same value concept.. as some older women have about men. Many young women as long as they are being patronized; they are fine, but the minute the man place the ball in their court to be responsible for various things, they can fade away like a cloud.. another issue with young women, is they sometimes trip out when the man shows how much he can like them, some can easily take it for granted and turn it into a circus game. Where some women as they get older, have learned not to take it for granted when a man relaxes and show them how much he can care and how much he can show considerations. many young women screw up relationships with young men, because the minute the guys tries to relax and show her a melding nature, these women are in conquest mode, and they take his kindness for weakness and then they become arrogant and their aggressive nature kicks in and they become shit talkers and excessive demands, who are overly eager to want to issue an ultimatum... all because she gets high on herself and think his kindness means that she is some super woman manipulator.. rather than to think and learn that the man is showing compassionate considerations.. it does not mean he is a fool... but many young women turn it into something foolish... this is why today.. so many women infuriate so many men, and so many men today are more reluctant to want to give, share and do anything with or for her to the degree that he is capable of doing... It takes a lot for many young women to learn how not to be abusers and mis-users... and it takes them a long time to learn they can't cover up their abuse with fake tears and phony arguments, which have no more than an aim to try to manipulate him to submit to some BS..... Sadly, many women don't learn to respect a man's love, until after they have met the wrath of some man they have continually abused and mus-treated his kindness with their selfish whimsical emotionalism and tantrums. Then when he leaves and tell her to kiss his butt... then suddenly she has to face the fact that she nor that thing between her legs neither is master of the universe.. then they (some) began to learn how to appreciate and respect a man... It takes a higher level of patience the broader the age range is.. unless the young woman is groomed in a manner that she has learned a sense of self responsibility and within that, she has learned how to actually share and appreciate without attaching a bartering mentality to it. the best thing a man can do in such situations and choices, is first learn how and when to say "NO" to bullshit.. and when to tell the woman to cut the BS.. AND GET IT "FIRMLY" SET IN HIS MIND, THAT HE DOES NOT HAVE TO BUY LOVE... the smart young woman who chooses a older man, will do herself a favor to first choose to be a person who is not trying to be a covert hooker, and choose not to be someone who thinks the man owes her something just because she is a female and young. unfortunately, not many young women have achieved those two things, before they jump for an older man.
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if its something that a woman would not and/or could not buy for herself, then she should not expect a man to buy it for her.
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