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An old man with a young girl VS. A young man with an older woman I found this phenomenon is interesting. Why an old man can seek a very young girl as his wife and all people think it's normal, but if a young man is with an older woman it looks so weird? In fact it's easy for the society to accept old hubsands and young wives, but can you accept a man marries a woman who is 20 years older than he is? I want to know what all of you think about this.  I leave no trace of wings in the air, but I am glad I have had my flight. ---- Rabindranath Tagore |
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12/29/2012 7:02 pm |
It does not matter on age, it is what is in the head and the heart that counts. It is up to the two people themselves, not what others think. Once you turn 21, you are all adults. There are three days in a week, yesterday, but that's gone, tomorrow may never come, so let's live for today. Be grateful that you woke up. - Peter
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When women age their options decrease tremendously. it's been that way as long as people have been on earth... I doubt that it will change any time soon. Smart women, when they meet and marry young, If they become wise enough to know this and they put in the work necessary to insure their relationship is long term... then she does not have so much to worry about reaching older age and not being able to find a man, because she will still have the one she first chose. but women are too impatient about too many things, to understand this.. and they spend too much time trying to manipulate men, rather than learning how to bond with him and be his greatest supporter in spirit and interactions. but women try to much too compete and or subliminally dominate until they end up generally running the man away... and when they start playing 'close the leg" games, it is a game she can never win... but they have not figured that out... and every women keeps trying to play the same game, but when women come wise enough to know, that the only thing "close the leg's games is going to do, is make her be alone and wondering why he left, but too simplistic to acknowledge why.. and the why is generally all about her own actions and being unaware that the delusion of power she thinks she has, is never and will never be any stronger than his desire is for her, therefore, women abuse this illusion of power, until they wake up and find themselves powerless to manipulate the man at some point and time. Because once he gets to the point he is tired of the Bs, there is nothing she can do to regain nor restore what she abused of his desire, because it will simply not be what it once was for her. Now, the women who read this can deny it, fight it and refuse to heed it, but one thing is a fact, ... no matter how much you deny facing this realism, it won't change the fact these are factual functions .... Be smart and learn, and stop trying to win every battle, and stop waging wars that you can't win. No man is out looking for a war adversary in his interest of woman and for a woman, but many women simply don't understand that simple fact. the more you try and control him, the less love will grow, and the more you continue trying to control him, the less he will have interest to truly want to be with you... You cannot win that game, even when you delude yourself to think you are winning, in the ultimate of love , you are actually loosing more love in the process.
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Depends on where the older she/he is in the stage of life.. people still are about physical appearance... unless money becomes a big motivator.. You are not going to see a 85 year old BROKE man with a 20 year old woman and very unlikely he can even get with a 50 yr or 60 yr old woman. Sex is and will be a factor for people as long as they are in their fertile years... as the fertility factors changes, so do people. both men and woman, yet a older man's sperm can still impregnate into far later years, where a woman's ovulation stops at a definite point in her life with definite signals that is has stopped. it does not mean she is not still sexual, but what ever the element of fertility infuses into the individual is no longer pushing with the impact it has... Now what drive then is maybe more the mind and who knows what else.. as long as a man can get an erection, it works for younger women, because inside her, her body responds to the erection as far as sex, and it may not make much different if the erection is on a 17 yrs old or a 75 yr old... but it certainly will matter that there is an erection. but we can't explain life in any simple terms, but we can as I've done, make many conjectures. but we can't substantiate anything in such regards. One thing that is sure with young women, and older men, the young woman is not as quick to want to 'issue duties" to the man, as many older women do... and older women are not as willing to "issue duties" to young men, as she would with a man near to her own age... young people help older people re-connect with a lot of things of youth, but also some things of youth can be agitating to older people, its what each is willing to deal with, both from the young persons viewpoint, as well as the old persons view point. I personally can't see myself in bed with a woman who has become unkept and wrinkled and or obese with no efforts to have address body tone. I see some women who are in their 50, 60's who have done well to maintain themselves and they are attractive, though I still like younger women.. I think my interest as to mates would be a woman at least 30+, but I do see some young women who are in their 20's who look very good and probably would be enjoyable, but I don't think many of them have any concerns of stability depth to work through challenges that exist in relations.. Because they are young, they just jump ship and find another ship to ride..... but at a certain age spectrum, their ship jumping comes to a steep decline...
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