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Choice: the one who loves you more or the one whom you love more? We always have to make choices throughout our lives. One fact is that after the choice is made we have to take the consequences. No one knows if things would be better if we had made the different choice before, because time can't go back, and we all can only live once. Therefore, when you are in such a situation and have to make the choice, would you choose the one who loves you more, or the one whom you love more? It is said that many people would like to choose the one whom he/she loves more subconsciously, but after many years they realize that it was wrong. I leave no trace of wings in the air, but I am glad I have had my flight. ---- Rabindranath Tagore |
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people look for some kind of balance in loving, but the truth is, there is no perfect balance of who love who more... one at one time or another will feel a stronger passion for the others, and the cycle rotates "CONTINUALLY".. The best start may be for the woman to love the man more, because she will do the things to keep that man interested in her.. but if the man loves the woman more in the beginning, it generally goes south very quickly. The natural vanity in woman simply will not let her give the full respect to a man who loves her more than she loves him. the women will spin in a circle with her eyes continually open looking for someone else if the man loves her more than she loves him. The compassion in a man is far different than what might be compassion in a woman. The man will generally have a more endearing aim toward the woman who loves him more.. But if it is the man that loves the women more, sadly, the woman will keep and build higher her fences around herself and find reasons and ways to create discontent in herself and discord in the relationship.
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