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and Relationship I used to think "A is a man's best friend" and that you wouldn't be placed in a situation in which you have to choose. I met a guy off of Chinese FriendFinder awhile back and during when we dated, he indicated that he liked dogs and that they're a man's best friend. Well as the relationship progressed, I invited him over to meet my family. My parents and I both have dogs. One is a corgi around 40 lbs and the other a terrier that is less than 15 lbs. He now tells me he was actually afraid of dogs. Hmm...I am sort of wondering why he tells me this now instead of when I first asked him. Furthermore my mind is thinking what else could he be untruthful about. Of course he wanted me not to ponder too much about this but about the current situation. Well I never had any problems with either dogs before when I had friends over or contractors that come and fix things so I didn't think too much about it. I told him don't look a in the eyes, pay no attention to them, and move into the house slowly. Normally the dogs just come and sniff you and leave. Needless to say, he didn't do that. On the opposite, he turned and ran. For those people who have dogs knows what would happen. He didn't get hurt but he wasn't very happy about the whole situation. It wasn't that bad a situation. I told him I will try to get someone to help him get over his fear. I would have gotten the whisperer, if I needed to. The fact that he has to do something is something he can't comprehend. He turns the table on me and said I was a very cold woman for taking a animal's welfare over a human's welfare. I can't leave a outdoor long and I certainly ain't going to put the in a shelter. A man is not worth it. That has more loyalty to me than a man ever will be. I may come out as being cold and uncaring person but I did try to work with him. He lied to keep a relationship going so he come across as a better catch. Is it worth it? This whole event would have been avoided if he simply told me in the beginning. Even if it meant to be a deal breaker. On my profile now, I indicated my ideal person "Must Love Dogs" and there is a reason for this. Any guy who can't handle dogs turns out to be dbags. My can sense when the guy isn't good. I have dated other guys who I was compatible with but they can't pass the test. The ones who can hold up their own turns out to be fairly decent guy. I think the has a keen sense for fear, insecurity, weakness, and someone suspicious and much more. |
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I have dogs and they are simply wonderful... I put my hand in their mouth, and they don't do anything, they know who to bite and who not to bite  dogs are very very smart, and they are kind beyond our comprehension... I love my dogs..
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