bramman 63M
60 posts
9/20/2012 12:43 pm

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10/11/2012 5:25 am

So many lonely people and we cannot connect


So still no luck in the Asian dating site for most of us lonely people..
It makes me wonder what are we all looking for anyway the perfect match? hot looks? riches?treasures?

The same women hit my profile everyday with out a word or a sign. so i wonder even though i have made efforts to contact these sweet ladies..guess what.. you probably know the answer..

Would we not be more ahead as a couple than an individual.If yes then why are we as people so picky about a new experience that may be beneficial to both parties.

Have we all had so many bad experiences with dates, divorces, break ups that we are in this caution zone that we may end up in here for a long time.

For me i just came from a 10 year live in relationship that went sour due to a religious situation i could not compete with..Yes a higher form...
So I walked away from the one i thought Loved me for me my home and belongings to start all over again fresh with nothing just my clothes....
Sad yes! pissed off yes!
Caution has sent in now when i read the profiles i kinda get the should i or should i not contact her.
Just my thought here maybe i have to be more patient..its just i hate being alone now i miss having the woman to talk too do things with...
Paul

lily19840823 39F

10/4/2012 6:51 am

Hello paul
I believe, in this world there is love, but, we usually meet the wrong people. Don't be hasty, love need time to grow up, also need the time come to let us find.
So, don't give up, Perhaps, when the true love comes to knock at a door, don't close your door, at least open a window for love. Lol!


bramman replies on 10/4/2012 12:53 pm:
Hi

Thank you for your response i won`t give up on Love just this site of lairs and dishonest women.. and most of the time rude.You are probably the opposite of most on this site.

Good luck Too

beyondfantasy3 113M
4740 posts
9/30/2012 8:54 am

Woaini read my last post here Are Chinese Girls Shy in Making a Flirt Move - it may have an interesting perspective to consider on expanding the details of your rule, which may bring the rule not to be as exclusive of a singular reliance point:


beyondfantasy3 113M
4740 posts
9/30/2012 8:48 am

don't' focus so much on being a nice guy, but more on being a guy who is nice.
it will help you discern the difference in the women you meet.


Meimeichien 33F

9/28/2012 4:41 am

it takes time,,you will find someone


SusannaZJP 37F

9/21/2012 6:14 am

It's my first time here on this website, so I don't really know what to expect from here. But among all the people who want the same thing from this website, I guess we just have to be a little bit more patient. if it's meant to be, it will be. There might be tons of people who go through your file without talking to you, but remember, all you need is the very rare one who will think the whole world of you. And she is all yours. Cheer up~


bramman replies on 9/21/2012 12:20 pm:
Hi
Thank you for your kind words ! i hope so... its been a long time since i have had to be in this position to look its harder now i figure due to age. sad but possibly true..

Paul