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Traditional Chinese women I am seeing the words " I am a traditional Chinese women" or I will see "I have traditional Chinese family values". What make them traditional compared to non traditional. I have read some writing stating that a women is always second to here mother in law in status. Is this still true or am what I am reading out dated? Any information on the sub gets will be helpful. 
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They want to say they are virtuous.. and dedicated.. based on the folklore imagery.. but people need to realize, There are more than 500,000 million Chinese women and for a billion plus people to exist in a Nation, it is then comprised of how many 100's of millions of families.. All of whom have different values within their household and different ways they live. So, as the claim and phrase of Traditional Chinese, what does it mean ? there are how many Sect's that make up what is China. So one would need to know what is their tribal history and customs, because there are many tribes and many merged tribes that make up what is a Chinese Family. Heck, many of the Chinese don't even like the habits and customs of other Chinese and then within communities, many families don't like how other families live... The best thing for anyone including Chinese, is - deal with the individual as an individual and themselves equally so as an individual... then they may have a chance to pursue and even find love. We are all grown people... we need to stop chasing fantasy illusion and fairy tale folklore - because people live and react to their the actions with and reactions within their daily lives... and no human being walking is 100% predictable. and the delusion of claim of Traditional is the same as saying 'One is predictable"... it's B.S. Because if they were so traditional, divorce would not be skyrocketing, nor would it be difficult to make and sustain a relationship. Life is what it is, and individual are exactly that" INDIVIDUALS, so get real or prepare for the nightmare to awaken one to the realism of what is life and people. Everybody eats and everybody takes a crap, and some days the crap is going to smell worst than other days... and some days people are going to eat something that does not agree with them, or some days they won't have a taste for something they normally would have a taste for... So... is life,, a day to day reality... We either deal with it as openly communicable human beings, or we suffer the consequences of poor communications and its resulting impact in our lives as INDIVIDUALS.
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