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One sided conservations My rambling thoughts for today I've noticed when trying to strike up a friendship online it gets one sided in hurry and I wonder if it just me. I always try to find something in their profiles and ask questions about it and when I stop asking question the conversation is over. Rarely do they ask me anything other than "how was your day" or something like that. I am wanting to learn all about the beautiful woman I'm corresponding is all the questions to see if we are a good match and move the relationship forward. Is what I'm asking over whelming her? Does she not want to know about me? I'm a open book and will always answer the question honestly and as straight forward as I can. Maybe she not interested in me and I should just keep looking. Hope this blog posting doesn't scare off the love that I'm looking for Have a great day everyone and remember this "Dream your life then live your dream" Mike |
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when I stop asking question the conversation is over I've found this is the most frustrating part of trying to have a conversation with some Asian women... it become very irritating. they don't seem to take a conversation and make it flow interactively. they answer the question and that's the end of it. unless you continue with question after question. No conversational elaboration. It's the same in the blogs, people make one liner comments and that's it. then they have no ongoing rebuttal to posted commentary. That's why this site become so lifeless so frequently. I've addressed this point many many many many times... and nothing changes.
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I have met some who actually are conversationalist. But many times this is not the case. Some people simply let what could be a conversation fall flat. There are many women, who think and want to be "sharp tongued", with the utterance of some sarcasm, as well as those who over rate themselves, and think they are beyond everyone who come off with some negative slap stick sarcasm... those kind are not worth the time it would take to respond. I'm personally not interested in trading "put downs" with anyone, and the women I see who seem to delight in such, I don't have much concern for them and surely there is no interest to know what is behind the ignorant utterance. many many women are very rude, and the more some think they are too cute to be humanly social, are those types that really don't exhibit anything that would be desirable of friendship. These types are generally user's who only talk when they think they will get something or someone will yield something to them. If men notice, there are many many women who only talk if they see something they think they can use someone to get. These are the 'covert gold-diggers". The minute they get what they want, they have no more to say. That's why if you look back over time and think of the short life span of association that some females have... it is astounding how shallow their association are. As long as they are on the receiving end, they are there with a manufactured smile... when you don't do what they expect or assume that you will do for them. they are gone quicker than the flash of a lightening bolt. Many Women are a trip, even with other women, pretty faced women will nearly kiss the butt of other pretty faced women, and then within a few weeks they can't stand each other, because both of them was after something from the other, and when they come to the point of conflict as to who will dominate the other, or any many instance who is going to be the seducer and who is going to be the seduced, they become combatants. The more nature like some women are, the more likely she is and will be a more social interactive human being. But many of the ones you put a layer or two of make up on them and some clothes labels, and a bunch of other material stuff - you probably are in for a trip. Or you meet those who think they are too pretty to be a social person, the minute even conversation does bring them someone who is acting like a suck up... they are gone. We see it in these web sites, the minute they get a disagreement, they vanish. Maybe men have to be of similar toward some of them, and "go for the panties", and let the chips fall where they fall.. That is the process many understand, because it opens the door to the games that many spend a lot of time crafting their methodology.... Some women simply are not going to be honest and/or open until you get in their panties... 
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1/17/2013 12:52 pm |
Well my take on your question is that, the Chinese culture is you do not do anything to cos someone to louse face as it is said. So by asking any questions they run the risk of embarrassing you or them self. Not to lose face or to cos someone too, make them be silent. It also need to be understand that they do not know you and there fore will not talk about them self's. We here in the west will talk about almost any thing to any one. It is not the same in China. They will only talk about personal subjects with some that they have know for a long time or family
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some may use the translator to communicate which can slow communications, that's ok, because at least they are still talking....
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1/19/2013 12:36 pm |
My imagination is very good but it dos not stop them from going "Poof" on you. Yes there are gold diggers on both sides. I like your Idea on starting a topic but if they will not talk with you or answer you questions it is hard to fined that topic. In the end all you can do is keep trying.
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1/20/2013 3:43 pm |
Yes it is easy to vent on the blogs. But it is hard to stay positive when you are talking with someone and "Poof" with out a word they are gone.
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