ivy8686 47F
63 posts
4/25/2013 12:56 pm
how to find friends who seek woman in facebook?


who know?
i felt the person target in faceook is not clear.for example.i seek man on facebook,is there option for business or dating?
the result is a man gave a speech ticket i donot care.

beyondfantasy3 113M
4740 posts
4/25/2013 5:33 pm

just make friends, and if it becomes something more then work with it.
you can't just jump into business with anyone, nor can you expect people who are in business is just going to sing a partnership agreement just because you want one.

You have to build and develop those relationships by communicating, as simply two people.

If you are intimately interested in someone, then the relationships will by its means focus itself into trying to develop a communications in that line of understanding.

as to business, its about "matching and joining skills and ability, enthusiasm and motivations to share the work and the responsibilities, but nothing between two people when it comes to trying to build or join a business should exist without a well defined 'CONTRACT".

you have to know your S.O.Q. [ Summary of Qualifications] as well as what is the S.O.Q. [ Summary of Qualifications] of the other person you are considering to develop a business with.

Business is as much a relationship between people, and they not only need to become to understand many things about each other, but also what are their objectives for the business and how they each want to proceed to achieve those aims.

If you are thinking of investing with someone from an economical level, then you have to meet the potential person or persons, find out what their business is, where are they in the process and progress of it, what challenges do they face, how is the program to address the financial requirements and many of such things.

but if you have not made the determination as of what you are seeking, then you may want to clarify that.
Are you seeking a love mate?
Are you seeking a business partners?

where are you on the spectrum of the business, what is the type of business you are interested in, or what type of business are you currently involved.
How much do you know about the proposed business.

This is very important things when it comes to business and people.

The legalities of the business model is many things, will this business be based in another country, will it be based in China, will this be a business that has foreign branches or is this a collaborative business, that seeks to do business as a producer who is looking for marketing partners, or ??????

Are you at a point to seek a specific type of business?
Are you looking for people in a particular field of specialty?

As to a intimate love relations, that may best be pursued by building a friendship rather than looking for a instant fairy tale.. because an instant pursuit of fairly tale can become a troubling nightmare quickly for one or both.

Take your time, were a few blogs and actually talk about what you want to pursue as to business or if your are already in business what of interest would you like to promote, market or partnership or build a business transactional arrangement to connect with others who may already be in business.

What kind of things in general do you like? what are hobbies, or what things interest you in general life.

Best Regards...


beyondfantasy3 113M
4740 posts
4/27/2013 8:35 am

Actual realism is I know nothing of you, I only today visited your blog to see your listing of background performances of field interest.

I can say, there is a definite separations between what is a business partner and what is a intimate mate, especially in ones initial search.

They may over time become one in the same, but one must be of great care in such things. Because if business is the foundation, and love enters the equation.. then that love may suffer greatly if the business goes in a down turn, or that business may suffer greatly if love does not respect the boundaries between what is business relations and what is the love relationship.

There is no "instant anything" in either category.

What may matter most, is becoming to know the individual, what ever else will come will or will not develop through the basis and basics of what and how the association moves toward the category or categories of relations.


ivy8686 47F
16 posts
4/28/2013 7:25 am

beyondfantasy,i donot believe u r 102. can u tell u real backgroud?how could u understand so many things but i cannot?what do u like to learn?can u teach how i can be intelligence like u?


beyondfantasy3 113M
4740 posts
4/29/2013 6:16 pm

    Quoting ivy8686:
    i am seeking clients only. because i have lost confidence for love mate ,i donot like the men who are interested in me from asiafrienfinder.
First and foremost, you have to find in yourself the wisdom of your own counsel to regain your confidence for love..
Because if you have lost that constitution for love, then you have lost more than you are aware of.

If you had a broken relationship, the first thing you need to do is 'own up to your responsible role in the failure of the relationships, because it took two to make the relationships and it took two for the failure of the relationship. So .. ease down and accept that you were not perfect in the relationship, and you made mistakes and misjudgments and you put expectations maybe where they should not have been, ( somewhere in the relationship ("COMMUNICATION BROKE DOWN") because in life... when any person expects more from another than they are willing to give or do themselves for what they want.. then they have made expectations into 'demands", and they have no right to encroach upon anyone with demands of such nature. EQUALLY SO, something became a problem where two people were not honest with each other about what they wanted and how they expected to go about getting it, and how and what means and methods they would mutually agree as being the program they'd "both work" to meet the "MUTUAL GOALS"..

Every day, women leave men, because they have wants for more, and often times that want for more, is stronger than their want for love. but few want to admit to such things.
so, you have to come to terms with the points and factors if such things became a part of your break up.

If you are seeking business associates, then they have a section of the web, where you can set up.. "GROUPS" , those who are seeking the type of client to associate and associate to client relationships can then freely join your group.

As to relationships of intimate person affections, that is entirely something outside of the business spectrum...

To know and regard that separation, is to be smart. as I said before.:

They may over time become one in the same, but one must be of great care in such things. Because if business is the foundation, and love enters the equation.. then that love may suffer greatly if the business goes in a down turn, or that business may suffer greatly if love does not respect the boundaries between what is business relations and what is the love relationship.

It's OK that you are trying to understand how to use the various types of social web sites to learn them and what they are best used for.

LinkedIn is a business related site, for people seeking business connections, professional associations as well as job hunting, and some employers may even go there to seek employee candidates.

Facebook, is trying to be everything, but what it mainly is, is a site that people can generally connect to people. people can promote products and services, as well as major and non major business can create pages to promote their products. people can communicate as a circle of friends, families can share communications, photo's and etc. as well as people may make friends that become lovers, mates or what ever level they choose to develop.
Facebook is about using that data to sell its brand, so advertisers can link with potential customers.
Facebook struggles with "Privacy Issue", because it is dedicated to use peoples data, because its survival depends on the profile data of people.

It may well be a platform suitable to create a page to promote your product or service. If you are seeking investors it may well be a place you can create a page to introduce your proposals, as well as link it back to your personal business web page, which outlines your company or if you are a independent contractor of sorts who has a business format you market your services, products of offerings.

You can also use LinkedIn - to contact people who are in various business, who may be interested to make International Contacts.

Either way you choose, the point is to build your profile and establish your presence.

It's nothing wrong with aspiring to business.. but don't confuse the business aim with thinking that you will find a romantic situations that can be utilized for business, because you will not only meet challenges you did not expect, it may result in both a damaged situation for business and relationship.

Love is what it is, you either feel it or you don't.
Business is what it is, you are either doing it or you are building it or not.

But, don't bury your heart and claim to be cold to love, and then claim to be looking for a man.. because that is a broad circle of contradiction.

Now, what is your choice and how to you choose to proceed is the choice you and only you can make.

In the big picture of life, what does it matter if one gains the whole world and they have lost the ability to love and then have no one they can share it with within living a grace filled loving life. ????

If life, people are remembered for the love they live and give, because many have made much money and died lonely .

Sadly some of the people who amassed fortunes are often times remembered for the good they do for others, more than the money they made for themselves.

Now, on the side of business.. If you have ideas and skill that you want to promote, and you feel that you can work to build something, then by all means work on it, and do well. But don't make your life all work and no love.

Today, many women have thrown love out the window in favor of pursing money. they become hard and bitter and some even become like mini tyrants.... because they did not concern themselves with finding a balance point.

Take time and read this carefully... and read it over again, it may be helpful to you...
Best Regards...


ivy8686 47F
16 posts
4/29/2013 9:23 pm

beyondfantasy3,pls tell me why apple ceo hasn't married yet?did u research his affection history or other great man/woman affection history?what is the conclusion among personality,successful business,successful marriage.


beyondfantasy3 113M
4740 posts
4/30/2013 5:03 am

I don't know a think about Apples CEO. but what I do know is many men who have money are not going to just fall for a woman just because she shows up.

Today there are many women on a pure "money hunt", and will play a game until she can figure out how to walk away with some of his money.

There are a few men who get caught in the game, but today, more and more men are very much aware of the "money seekers".

As to women and the lure of sex and that game, no matter what continent, sx can be bought on a straight pay and play basis, so there is no need to fall into a situation that did not develop honestly, because if its just a physical thing, it can be bought and paid for and that is the end of that.

Just as men in China ... Men every place is not going to just give his money to a woman, just because she wants it.

The matter of China vs the Western World, In China, men can pursue a very young women because there are simply 100's of millions of them, so older women and divorced women have a harder time in this kind of situations..

But regardless of that, if you want a man for a relationship, look for one and forget about what his career is.

if you are looking for a business partner, then look for one and don't confuse it with trying to pretend it is a relationship of love, if your main interest is his career.

You need to truly think about this, because you don't want to cement yourself into being viewed as a pure gold digger...

People do not see nor care for intimate relationships to be based on money.

Not only is is not good, there have been women who plot to kill the man if she thinks she will get the money, and there are men who have been made anguished to the point of madness to discover a woman was only after his money.. it's a deadly game... that not many would rationally seek to play it.

Life is not about money, money makes things work, but the best is when people put in the work to gain the money.... a relationship is something that should transcend the concerns of money... if people claim to truly care about each other.


ivy8686 47F
16 posts
5/1/2013 6:09 am

woaini1947, lover_of_mine01,TAKE5OR10 , Trusty1 ,beyondfantasy3, all asia members who blamed me, i am sorry for the words i may hurt other Asia Friendfinder members.so i have cancelled it.

thanks for u advices.


ivy8686 47F
16 posts
5/1/2013 6:11 am

Trusty1 ,u look angry in the photo,pls don't blame me and follow my post,i don't like it; unless u send advices.


beyondfantasy3 113M
4740 posts
5/3/2013 7:39 pm

I'm not casting blame on you, only talking about the various distinctions with the process of selecting either a friend, or a potential mate or a potential business partner.

relax, and enjoy the experience of blogging... you never know what or how things may turn out...