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who can tell the relationship between age gap and love when the age gap between the lovers is.2-4,6-8,10-12 years......,what is the happiest age gap?why? |
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depends on the individuals.
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I prefer to treat a woman like a woman.... ( that Lady and gentleman stuff of the European Folklore and Pageantry might be why so many men and woman have so many problems with the pre-scripted expectations that come along with the concept of lady and gentleman.) I treat her like a woman and she continues to grow as an individual, If I try to treat her like the concept of lady, not only it is a contained script it spins in a circle without the growth potential of an individuals potential in the natural expanse of being.
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I don't know but, I hear those 'gum's can be quite a sensation addition....
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That's a matter of perspective... and you are welcome to your interpretation.... a woman is a woman, the set or rules you mention can also be a set of chains as well riddled with many expectations that does not allow her to be the full spectrum of herself. In your concept a lady would not change a flat tire on her car... but in my concept a woman would change her tire if she found herself in a situation and needed to do so. "May I get that door for you" is a human act of kindness and consideration, Not just a role play part of a script of rules. Romance is many things, often times far outside of a script.... As to the educated and illiterate... one can place two of the most uneducated people in a bed and they will instinctively know what to do, and the humane kindness as well as the warmth's of intimacy will bring about its natural graces, they will show each other kindness and considerations. Therefore, what ever ideological concept brings out the kindness and considerations as well as the humane compassion, is what one possibly may work with in their living experiences, between male and females. .
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