Nishangliren5000 45F
60 posts
5/28/2013 9:47 am
What do men look for in a woman?

Every man has his own strengths and his own issues and insecurities.
What do men look for in a woman?
Men want what they can't have.
Men look for health (physical, psychological, emotional, fiscal).
Men want someone beautiful but "beauty is in the eye of the beholder."
Men want a woman who is honest, who he can trust completely, who is not likely to sneak around and sleep around with other guys.
Someone with similar interests so they have something in common.
A woman who will make an effort to please him.
A partner for his soul.
A woman who challenges him and is full of the unexpected.
Someone up for action, or willing to get a little kinky in the bedroom.
A woman who has a great smile and loves to laugh and be herself but can also be intelligent and serious.


beyondfantasy3 113M
4740 posts
5/28/2013 7:24 pm

At one time or the other, any or all of the above.
it might depend on how long they stay together, because peoples focus changes from day to day.. situations come up, and the multitude of other factors that exist in living all have a cyclic interplay on what people give focal attention to at a given point in time.

No women can be everything all the time, and no man can want everything all the time. nor can the woman focus to want everything all the time.
People just have to relate and deal with the variables of focus as they come up.

We often time trip ourselves up, looking for certain characteristic to appear at whim or be the same each time we focus on it. We ourselves think different about what we see and what combination we give focal interest to at a given time.

When we try to fixate ourselves on one aspect, something will always be out of sync, because people are not inanimate objects., we variate with high frequency in what we display and how we display it.

one would either run themselves crazy or go mate-less and loveless looking for some single dimension variable within person to appear when we want it.
guaranteed that is why some break up, some never develop relationship and some become like a spinning top, unaware of what to look for and what to choose.

We've been deluded by the media to the point we don't know what we want or like, because we are bombarded with marketing ploys both overt and subliminal that trip us up, even when we think we are smart we become many times the puppets of these bombardments of variables, posed and captions in every kind of setting advertisers and marketers can come up with. Until people simple get a jaded mentality and become dominantly selfish until they deny themselves the ability to choose, but remain unaware they are unable to choose, because they want everything,
what results is people grow older and then everything becomes even less meaningful in one sense and then we start claiming we are looking for the inner character, but we can't wash the external illusions from our minds.

We become devoid of love and even void of the ability to give ourselves into to loving.


Nishangliren5000 45F

5/29/2013 8:09 am

Thank you for your long posting here beyondfantasy3


beyondfantasy3 113M
4740 posts
5/29/2013 5:10 pm

Thank you, but its not about the length, its a discussion about the variables you posed.
It may be more progressive in conversation to let's discuss the variables and the impacts each has within the reality of human experiences and interchange.


Nishangliren5000 45F

5/30/2013 3:05 pm

What for experiences you have make in your life with woman beyondfantasy3?