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Why most Caucasian men think Asian Women are beautiful Well first of all no one can speak for everyone, but I would speak for myself and a few of the guys that I have disused this with here are the reasons we find Asian women (very) attractive: #1. Usually their figure is very nice, at any agre range is is lower in weight that other categories (ie: Caucasian, Indian, Mexican or African). This is usually a nice thing in a woman. #2. I find the skin color very attractive.. call it yellow or brown or tan, I think it is nice and looks sexy usually too when wearing a nice dress or even just the facial color and features comes across as nice. #3. Usually but not always I know, I think the personality is nice. She will talk and listen and be accommodating. No I do not mean subservient.. I mean a nice personality usually. #4. Height is usually 155-165 cm, but not always. Well those features fit well with me at 170 cm. #5. Oh yes lastly remember it is difficult to guess the age of most Asian women, unless you subtract 10 years to your guess, then you will be close. Looking young is a nice thing.. I am not meaning to offend anyone with these comments, but just stating what I think.. I would listen to an Asian Womans response to she what she thinks? |
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I think the generalized demeanor emphasis the femininity without always an over-emphasized provocativeness is interesting. I love the slim figures and the dark hair against the contrast of the skin tones. I can generally distinguish the walk of Asian women from a distance. There are many general traits I simply like of women period,, which similarities can be found in all ethnic groups, I do like that they don't generally have huge breast and they don't generally have very large butts. I prefer smaller breast and slim rear ends and nice legs, along with a happy spirit and a charming face that is not covered in layers of make up. But I'm sure the list of itemized things can be long and discuss many variables.... It still comes down to the individual character, regardless of ethnicity and physical appearances of the ethnic choices and options. of selecting a woman..
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This is probably more true in general than not.... I remember the women in Thailand told me something very similar to this. A lot of them told me they felt looked down upon, and were expected to do certain things even when they did not want to do it. They even told me how they set some guys up for the sake of getting his money because they thought he did not really care about them. I certainly don't doubt that some guys do make grand image presentation that they can't follow through with, about what they have and etc and what they can do. The spend freely some guys may do while on vacation is not the kind of spending they do when they are home... I don't have the trip, because I already know I don't have money, even when I had more at a certain time, it was not free and obligated, because it was necessary to think of trying to use it wisely. It's easy to spend money on a vacation, because it has been planned to be spent. It's probably very important for the guy to be up front about the money status, because it will come out sooner or later. He does not have to state his financial holding, but he should not try to pretend that it is something that it's not. As to older guys and younger women, I've always looked at and for women younger than I am, even when I was in my 20's and 30's it was women who were younger, As to Asian women who are young, if they look at foreigners as if they think he has money, and that is what they seek, they will play the role to see what they can get, just like women from any other place will do. There are many Asian males their own age who have parents with big money and these girls know it, they can go for them rather than the guys father, and still they get someone spending money on them.  As to Asian girls, I've liked the look and appeal of Asian as well as Latin women, since I can remember. I've liked and dated black and white women, and many times I liked the dark haired white women when I dated, but many times did date blond hair women. I don't think any one ethnic woman is better than others, but I do think their manner and how they deal with things have some differences. I think its much easier to deal with women from other cultures when you are in a physical environment where they are... its far less trips because you either gravitate to related or you don't.... It would be great if the world was such that people could travel and move about from place to place at their will and choice, then people would not be tripping so much about green cards and other type stuff as such. I think its far easier to be in a foreign location and invite women out and they are more willing to go than some of the stuck up situations in the Western systems. Maybe because in many Asian places, they have a lot of quick and easy places to eat and various cultural sites that one and simply walk and look at. I never cared about going to the very expensive places whether I'm at home or in another location. I'm not for the back alley places either whether I'm at home or in another location. nice places yes.,... which are comfortable... It's not too difficult to spot people that change up drastically, when one is visiting other locations.... I generally like to get a real time feeling about the place and the people, not see them as caricature in the sense of disregarding they are going about their daily lives, working and doing what they do, when they do make time to share and even take time to show one around, it is something to appreciate especially, considering they have their daily life things they still have to do. I always think if men really look at it and think about it, In many Asian location there are many many Asian men who are in strong competition to hook up with women, so there is not much these women have not seen and they are very keen on the male and female things, most of them by the time they are in their 20's have faced many kind of propositions of every sort.... So this assumption of them being passive and naive... is really a delusional fantasy.
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Years ago when I was in HKG, I kept company with a woman, who was a professional at an Western Company. she was very independent minded, self responsible and she'd take me places and many times, she'd have her card out to pay before I could ask for the check. I met some of her friends, they were equally very much fun, with an amazing sense of humor, but if you see them on the street, you'd not know how relaxed and fun they are in personal situations. They are very much not inhibited when they want to do something, nor were they inhibited in the bedroom. I actually appreciated their candor in manner. I like the nature of formality in how they speak, sometimes they are implicit... but will be more explicit when you get to know them better. One has to understand their nature of implicit manner, then it will not be a put off, it takes a minute to adjust to. but in general what I find in various Asian cultures, if you ask a question you will get an answer to the question. no qualifiers, and no elaborations but an implicit answer. If you want more information, you need to be explicit but not intrusively so... Beyond a certain point of interaction, they want to know... 'why you want to know"... once that part is established, then they will become more explicit but parts of it will still be implicit... It's actually very skillful communication. It takes some adjusting for Western people to get the gist of the process. But again, once you get to know them, they have a sense of humor that is quite engaging. As Pinkcrystal is say, they may not get all giddy with romanticism, but that does not mean they don't enjoy romantic inclusions. As one told me once, the man may not come home and tell his wife everyday that he loves her, and she may not be walking around telling him everyday that she loves him.. they in some ways communicate this by what they do and how they do it in the considerations and responsibilities of how they interact. This may be where many Western men mis-understand some Asian women, and where some Asian women mis-understand Western men. some are more westernized in the sense they have been around of lived around western ways, they may have adapted to pick up some of the habits of sorts. Realize that they don't have a pattern of public affectionate showing, like in western society, and they don't have habits of the nature of eye contact that western societies have. This is an area where mis interpretations become to exist, on both sides of the equation. But don't have any doubts, she knows what and she knows how to adjust herself in the bedroom and over time, with both making some adjustments, they find their balance points. What's interesting is to go shopping with the women, especially in a place where price is negotiable ... they hand it quite interestingly. The girl I was with in HKG, took me places and told me when to let her do the negotiating, and she was very candid about telling me which situations would rip me off because they knew I was a foreigner. When we went to Karaoke, that's where you really can see the fun side out in public. I do think many times western men can misjudge Asian women by what the think the ways she looks conveys... some of the ones that may look not so dramatically playfully enticing, will in some cases be the direct opposite when you are alone, and some may even surprise you in some outings. but this is sometimes similar to how Western men can see some women who have all the lure looks like she is a pro-active let's do it person in the bed, but result to be different. The ones who have that young look like they are what Westerners like to assume as innocent, is what trips some guys up,... it does not mean she is naively innocent, that is just how she looks in her appearance. The best way for a Westerner to deal with Asian women, is forget that crap you see in the Westernized movies. Funny thing though, I had a Japanese friend, he did not like Japanese women, he use to tell me he liked those really get down with it white girls... he was a cool guy, who liked to have fun, but he'd pass up very pretty Japanese girls and he'd go straight for the white girls who seemed to have a little zest in her ways. I enjoyed traveling with him, because we always had a good time. the first night we got to HKG, he was ready to get out there and see what's happening, the next morning I came out, we started walking, I was amazed at how many women had such nice and wonderful legs and slim bodies... I still think the Thai women were over-all more generally friendly, many of the Chinese women on the streets would sometimes walk and you pass them, and they can act like you are not even there. or they act like they are not there .... It was interesting. But the Chinese girls at work at first did not have much to say, but, geez, when we all got to know each other, they were a lot of fun. I think it would benefit some of these guys, to get rid of the idealized illusions about Asian women... and it will be much easier to get to know them and have interactive communication with them. Even in personal communications, they are not as reluctant to talk about sex, but they are not as prone to talk about it in general public. the more you know them the more they will talk about it.. (but this is really true with many women regardless of their cultural heritage or ethnicity). What men have to realize is, there is not much that he can think of that is creatively enjoyable to do in the bed, that women have not already thought about and many are willing to try it, or share it.... if you relax with the situation and let it flow.
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Years ago when I was in HKG, I kept company with a woman, who was a professional at an Western Company. she was very independent minded, self responsible and she'd take me places and many times, she'd have her card out to pay before I could ask for the check. I met some of her friends, they were equally very much fun, with an amazing sense of humor, but if you see them on the street, you'd not know how relaxed and fun they are in personal situations. They are very much not inhibited when they want to do something, nor were they inhibited in the bedroom. I actually appreciated their candor in manner. I like the nature of formality in how they speak, sometimes they are implicit... but will be more explicit when you get to know them better. One has to understand their nature of implicit manner, then it will not be a put off, it takes a minute to adjust to. but in general what I find in various Asian cultures, if you ask a question you will get an answer to the question. no qualifiers, and no elaborations but an implicit answer. If you want more information, you need to be explicit but not intrusively so... Beyond a certain point of interaction, they want to know... 'why you want to know"... once that part is established, then they will become more explicit but parts of it will still be implicit... It's actually very skillful communication. It takes some adjusting for Western people to get the gist of the process. But again, once you get to know them, they have a sense of humor that is quite engaging. As Pinkcrystal is say, they may not get all giddy with romanticism, but that does not mean they don't enjoy romantic inclusions. As one told me once, the man may not come home and tell his wife everyday that he loves her, and she may not be walking around telling him everyday that she loves him.. they in some ways communicate this by what they do and how they do it in the considerations and responsibilities of how they interact. This may be where many Western men mis-understand some Asian women, and where some Asian women mis-understand Western men. some are more westernized in the sense they have been around of lived around western ways, they may have adapted to pick up some of the habits of sorts. Realize that they don't have a pattern of public affectionate showing, like in western society, and they don't have habits of the nature of eye contact that western societies have. This is an area where mis interpretations become to exist, on both sides of the equation. But don't have any doubts, she knows what and she knows how to adjust herself in the bedroom and over time, with both making some adjustments, they find their balance points. What's interesting is to go shopping with the women, especially in a place where price is negotiable ... they hand it quite interestingly. The girl I was with in HKG, took me places and told me when to let her do the negotiating, and she was very candid about telling me which situations would rip me off because they knew I was a foreigner. When we went to Karaoke, that's where you really can see the fun side out in public. I do think many times western men can misjudge Asian women by what the think the ways she looks conveys... some of the ones that may look not so dramatically playfully enticing, will in some cases be the direct opposite when you are alone, and some may even surprise you in some outings. but this is sometimes similar to how Western men can see some women who have all the lure looks like she is a pro-active let's do it person in the bed, but result to be different. The ones who have that young look like they are what Westerners like to assume as innocent, is what trips some guys up,... it does not mean she is naively innocent, that's his misconceptions, her look is just how she naturally looks in her appearance. it is his concepts of attaching his illusion-ed concept of innocent, to her appearance. it has nothing to do with how she see's herself nor how she is as being herself. The best way for a Westerner to deal with Asian women, is forget that crappy character type delusional depictions you see in the Westernized movies. Funny thing though, I had a Japanese friend, he did not like Japanese women, he use to tell me he liked those really get down with it white girls... he was a cool guy, who liked to have fun, but he'd pass up very pretty Japanese girls and he'd go straight for the white girls who seemed to have a little zest in her ways. I enjoyed traveling with him, because we always had a good time. the first night we got to HKG, he was ready to get out there and see what's happening, the next morning I came out, we started walking, I was amazed at how many women had such nice and wonderful legs and slim bodies... I still think the Thai women were over-all more generally friendly, many of the Chinese women on the streets would sometimes walk and you pass them, and they can act like you are not even there. or they act like they are not there .... It was interesting. But the Chinese girls at work at first did not have much to say, but, geez, when we all got to know each other, they were a lot of fun. I think it would benefit some of these guys, to get rid of the idealized illusions about Asian women... and it will be much easier to get to know them and have interactive communication with them. Even in personal communications, they are not as reluctant to talk about sex, but they are not as prone to talk about it in general public. the more you know them the more they will talk about it.. (but this is really true with many women regardless of their cultural heritage or ethnicity). What men have to realize is, there is not much that he can think of that is creatively enjoyable to do in the bed, that women have not already thought about and many are willing to try it, or share it.... if you relax with the situation and let it flow. What is really funny is, if anything, many of these women see some western men as naive and gullible.... far more than he may know. What men have to realize, these women are very adept at dealing with Chinese men, who are very crafty in their lure manner, as well as how in Chinese Culture the men are the dominant ones it appears, so these women have become very good at knowing how to navigate within male and female relations... If anything, they may be silent to let you hang yourself... but it does not mean she is not aware of what is happening. she might even get a laugh at your trying to untangle yourself from the mess you may have wound yourself into.
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I've had very good experiences with Asian women, I am very much delighted as I said with the natural manner in the society, there is a certain type of formality in their cultural manner of speaking, someone told me long ago, many of these cultures aspired to a concept of all things equal, if one nail stick up, hammer it back down to match the rest. Yes, you made a good point, they are more moving to consider individualism but they have not chosen to do so without regard to group. This helps manage a level of even temperament in many situations. I also like that many places in Asian culture the women don't seem to have aversions to work... what I was truly appreciative to see, was a few very beautiful girls I met in Thailand, who spoke about them tending a garden and one even wanted to have her own chicken farm, and another was interested in having a catfish farm.. These are things rarely the very beautiful in western society would even consider. I love how they come out of the shower in the mornings with a fresh glow and a comfortable manner. The part you mentioned of the usage of silence is also interesting, because it promotes a diminishing of conflicts, but it does not mean she won't address her issues and concerns. Timing is important as well as demeanor and manner of how concerns and issues are addressed. I have seen many character types of Asian women, the same as with western women, so I am not saying all are these ways, because people are people and life's impact in peoples lives bring out many things and shapes many variations of manner, demeanor and actions. I don't idolize Asian women, above any other women, it is simply a selective choice of what I like as an individual. but I also know what I like can be found as to manners and demeanor's among many ethnic groups, because its all about getting to know the individual. I've seen many Asian and Non Asian women who simply don't fit the manner and mode of my personal choice. as to general slim figure, yes I like that about Asian women very much 
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Well , in fact , I can explain many doubts you have but the time is limited . But you have a wrong idea about women's social status in China . You know most of Chinese women are financially independent . Do you know what it means in a country or family ? EUALITY ! For most of Chinese women , they attract guys to show their charms and enjoy the interactions with the opposite sex , but not to cater to guys for some agendas . I understand this perfectly well.. no doubts.. I agree many of the women "do" attract guys to show their charms and enjoy the interactions with the opposite sex. The ones I met did not want anything, they simply enjoy the sharing, they were more than eager to want to show me many interesting things in their environment. this is something I found true in Thailand as well, the women are inspired to want to show you things in their culture. They will try to help one learn how to say things in their language, they will ask what something means if they are unsure, and they are more than willing to tell one what is the customs so one does not embarrass themselves or offend others. I felt quite at home like ease while I was there. One woman I met, we were up late watching movies and talking, it was about 2-3am,, and she said she was hungry, she called her sister, and her sister came with a order of food that had many many items on it. I had a meeting the next morning, she was up before I was, I prepared, went to the meeting and she was dressed and relaxed just watching TV, and then we set out to go do stuff... The various women I met were really open and communicable, one had gone to a pool party and she was telling me about one girl who was always giving her gifts, she knew the girl liked her, and she told me, that she did not mind having fun with the girl, but she was afraid the girl wanted an exclusive situation, so she was becoming uncomfortable with the girl. she was very casual in discussing this situations and she was concerned not to hurt the girls feelings by telling her she did not want an exclusive situation with her. then we went on to talk about many other things as just part of communicating. They took me places I'd never have found on my own. Women will share and tell a guy lots of things if they think the guy can handle it without tripping out or passing 50 judgements against her.
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I think its great that you are interactive and speak your thoughts... I find that very much to be something I appreciate about your presence and participating in the blogs. I wish more women would be more interactively engaging in conversations. Too often many women don't indulge in the expanse of conversation, and far too many want to put on the idealistic presence, rather than simply get real with the flow and interchange of ideas and thoughts. 
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She just wants to perform somebody she dreams to be , but forgets the gift God gave her by birth . Finally she is neither that dream lady nor a natrual self . Very good summation... I find that to be so very true in many situations, If only they know, that the man desires to see the natural woman she is, because the natural woman, has all the God given graces that are often fictionalized and embellished for fantasy, when the reality spectrum is always filled with lasting impressions from and within the honest expressions. There is a natural wonder of the male and female self... if only we as people learn to appreciate it.... We'd find that material things, ego and much of the things that breed dissension between the sexes would seem and present to be trivia. The greatest challenge in self development and self presentations of the individual ... is often times the brilliant challenge to be "self" S. E. L. F . = Set Eternal Love Free
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So I don't agree with the statement "Finally she is neither that dream lady nor a natural self". (Sorry Pink) They become more real to themselves and others. I interpret this as specifically talking about the type of some women who " She just wants to perform somebody she dreams to be" She in this sentence refers to a specific type, by the way it's written, it does not refer to all. therefore speaking of specific types, who live a pretense, does not become the dream they seek, nor do they relax and live as their natural self. .
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You seem to be in some competition for something, and I have no interest to compete with you about anything, you have nothing I want or need, therefore your aims are futile ... speak and say what you desire to say, agree or disagree to what ever it is you like or don't like... that's your choice, but to try and measure what I think and say probably exposes your aims of some competitive natures that I personally haven't the time to play that game. If Pink has told you of some of the thoughts some of the Asian women may have of Caucasian men, that is her expression about it... liking or not liking it won't change the views of her or others, you still have to deal with your individual self in relation to the individual woman you interact with. As to over-coming any stereo types, that is as much yours to do, the same as blacks have had to deal with living beyond the centuries of stereotypes put forth. If you find it a daunting task, then you might even become to learn something about that aspect of things. You have never heard or read me to say Asian women to be above any other woman... I'm not here with some 'worship the Asian woman" nor am I here with some delusional pretense of "sudden awareness of Asian women'... they are people, they are women and as much prone to anything any other woman is prone to... there is no rubber stamp on any of them that denotes them as being exempt from any of the games, trips, manipulations, vanity and any other thing that women do. It might even be easier in life to deal with the women in this site as "individuals'... not as simply "Chinese women" or "Asian women", but as individual persons. It might even open the concept to see them beyond a fantasy idea or a novelty or even as some claim, an exotic like object... Its much more functional to see them as individual persons, and then one may regard their culture and their ethnicity as being the environmental elements of their living. In basic, they eat, they drink water, they take a crap and they love and seek love, no less and no more than any other human being from any other environment of social community. That's the hard core simple of things... as to the specifics of individual character, one can't know that except through interactions and relations of some sort or degree. You might ( don't know) come here with some idealistic thing that your title or you skin is suppose to make them swoon like something in a 1945 movie set... ( hopefully you are much brighter and more intelligent than that). But reality is, you will encounter nothing more than what is woman, "who is an individual"... if you are blind to that you might find yourself played and pimped beyond your wildest imagination, and that can take place regardless of the ethnicity or culture of the woman, if the concepts does not embrace them as 'individuals". or you may even become simply ignored as if you are or have been condescending in some manner or way. Only you can regulate how that plays out. Pink engages conversations, I personally, think its good, over the years on this site, many of the women who have come and gone, has held a large number who avoid anything beyond a joke or slap stick humor.... whether her (Pink's or any woman or persons) view point is agreeable or disagreeable, At the very least and to her credit she indulges to share more about life and the thoughts involved within living experiences and concepts, She specifically clearly said, anyone is welcome to agree or disagree.
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I agree.... 
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It's not a new fad for me,
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Two good posting, that should bring out more discussions beyond the fantasy chasing that some may have considered. More and more you say the things I've long said... That men should not come to Asian expecting to find some 'utopian goddess", because these are women. I've often read the comments of Asian woman as being "exotic', as if like a novelty... and many of those men have found a reality he was not prepared to acknowledge nor accept. I don't think its anything wrong with cross culture, cross continent or any other combination of mating. But I do think people need to realize, beyond the desires of appearances, is always a human being, who lives in the world.... and that simply means, they are as aware and they think, and they are as capable of any malice as well as they are capable of any good... and this is true of women, or men for that matter, regardless of where they hail from. Time and life will unfold its truth to those who are willing to see... and they may then care to choose the character, even if they are attracted by the looks or the body, it will be the character that will determine how it evolves. I found that women no matter where they are from, is in many ways, still woman and do what women do... because they are not men, they are women.... so men should not grow older and become naive and delusional, even if he does fancy a look, or whatever, he still has to come with open eyes and a sense of regard of person, .... the fantasy stuff and the fantasy chase may well become the nightmare search if one goes with a fantasy concept that blinds them from seeing the character of the individual.
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Any man who fits the descriptions you mentioned, has enough opportunity in his own community, and if he does not he will probably seek someone who has something to bring other than a pretty face and shapely body and the delusional pretense that they are going to be some ever-ready sex bunny... He's already found out, that women as such use the sex until they get in the door, and then once they are in, you can't pry the panties off with a crowbar. and then if they do come off, he has to wonder how much it will cost him and what type request of favors will follow. These women as you point out, look for all the wrong things, but the sad part is they are serious in their pursuits.. but it results to be no less than covert call girl like set up, except she is willing to be a live in type of arrangement... Love and building emotional warmth has nothing to do with it. I personally don't care to consider the women who come with anything about pursuit of some degree title, or money, status and title pursuits. Why would I want that. Just me personally, some of the people who screwed up the economy and make a collusive mess of enterprise with avarice based aims hail too frequently from the degree sector, because too many think that degree affords them some level of entitlement. I know anyone who pays and show up at a University for a extended length of time will be given a degree, the system is set up as such. The serious professionals who gain their degree to pursue a profession, generally stick with that profession and seek work specifically in that profession. Because that is what they have a passion for. The bulk of degree's serve as a get a job certificate, which means they may well not be specifically qualified to function, but meet the HR script of degree. regardless of how UN-related it is to the work. We have more collusive business defeating criteria created by people trying to gain notoriety based on a degree's until they stagnate and or clog up the business process and ultimately set the business back by trying to protect their turf and fight off change that supersedes their capabilities and awareness of growth potential. As to relationships, a degree or a job title has never and will never be a guarantee of making a relationship flourish.. and if the money picture changes, they become too often simply two people miserable because they can't keep up the luxury illusion and soon they find divorce. Maybe its a cynical view, but the divorce courts are filled with people whom that so called cynicism proved to be reality. Today, individuals are mere numbers to the bean counters, and you are not better than the last pat on the back... you received. The cut throat mentality that is pervasive today, has not regard for business benefit of stability, nor professional loyalty. It is purely what will fill the greed motive of the leadership. Although this article blog is focused on Caucasian men, because that is the image that has been promoted to Asian women as a connection to money and accessibility in Western society. The reality is not all Caucasians are wealthy and not all fit the Tv scripted lifestyles of movies and commercial depictions. They are as many of the Asian men, trying to work and build a life... the delusions that money is readily available based on skin color is a fallacy... regardless of the ethnicity of the man.
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I gotta go to work, but this subject is worth indulging later... How could mankinds multiply by generations if each man were only interested in one woman , and that woman were not capable of good breeding , especially in primitive society ? Nowadays the concepts of monogamy and loyalty have been very popular as the human civilization develops , but human beings still can't change their own natures made by God women are highly sexual and they create the game and the sex appeal spectrum, a woman I worked with said that years ago. Women like and pursue sex, they just do it by different means than men. if a man and woman gets together, and he is not getting it, that woman will find a way to leave and go find someone who will get it. 
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I have to mention an interesting phenomenon,In fact, many Asian beauty in the eyes of Caucasian man ,according to the Oriental aesthetic standards are ugly, at least they look very weird.haha, I have seen many such case in the real life.I think that it's caused by different culture between east and west,different cultures lead to different aesthetic view.
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Yes, all of we men risk the downside for that hour or two of pleasure and then we come to the realization that we have 22 hours left in the day and they had better be as rewarding as the two that are now gone. I actually came to this realization in my early 20's.. Even at 19, I was aware that sex is no more than we think it is as to the drama surrounding. So that is why I do it with a sincerity to make it mutually appreciative, or I don't want to do it. I'm very keen about the ulterior motives and the trips that it can lead one into, I don't care for fickle minded women, or women who try and turn it into some manner of manipulative event with ulterior aims,.... So that limits the women that I find suitable to engage. I don't care for any women's sex, who think that her organ is better or more important than mine, or those who think that being a woman puts her above me.... I simply don't fall for that game of delusion. The reason for that is that when you consider what some of these cold, unfeeling women have to offer compared to what they demand in a mate, they have nothing to offer that compares. For me, if a woman cannot find it in her heart to consent to something I enjoy that costs her only a small amount of time, don't expect me to satisfy all your needs, What we men don't appreciate is a woman who cannot meet the standards she sets for us, yet at the same time she criticizes and punishes us for the same infractions she commits every day. Exactly !!!!
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I don't like Halloween... I just can't get into celebrating ghoulish things. I can see honoring our ancestors... but I'm just not with the costuming and the the focus on ghouls and underworld things. I have read: As the Church began to take hold in Europe the ancient Pagan rituals were co-opted into festivals of the Church. While the Church could not support a general feast for all the dead, it created a festival for the blessed dead, all those hallowed so, All Hallow's, was transformed into All Saints and All Souls day. I think Memorial Day covers celebrating those who have come and gone. as a kid it was about fun and costumes and candy..... as I got older I remember people had all sorts of parties on this night.
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The greatest female actresses I have ever seen are the ones I and my male friends have dated and married. No screen performance could ever top that. Amazingly True Statement.... !!!
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Yes , women also have sexual desire . But sometimes I doubt if women have such strong desires as men do since many husbands resent that their wives are not so active as they expect in sex . " Lesbians and the women who flock to them is a vivid demonstration of the proclivities of women's sexual drives. not only do some engage heavily, some have a string of women who are eager and waiting as well as they create in some situations group sex as a common activity. the difference in the wives tripping with denying sex with their husbands, has more to do with 'bartering" than any claim of her not having a sex drive. Women usually go find a man who knows more of her feelings rather than her body .......although sex is also very important to women . Yes and No.... in some situations, it matters to some women, what that man is offering or giving as collateral gains she can claim. as to the feeling, some women only care about the sector of feeling that is connected to her; expecting or wanting to gain or get something in return for sex".... women should really have concern to learn from what is written below. many women don't know anything in depth about a man, his sexual reality nor even about the nature of his sex organ... They think an erection is all that it is about, when truth and fact is, men can and do enjoy and appreciate stimulation when he is semi erect, and he appreciates it even more when women can relax and stop looking for a flag pole erection and simply enjoy appreciating and stimulating his organ in a mindset of simple desire to enjoy doing so. To many women, this thought never has even dawned in their mind, because they base everything on a flag pole erection and how quick they can jerk it to produce an excretion. The women who keep their men, are the women who actually enjoy the pleasures of sharing, with a good focus on simply appreciating stimulating his organ by the fact of playing with it to enjoy playing with it. This little fact is something that women over generations has never even considered to consider. Sadly, even when men try and convey that to the women, the women are still impatiently only focused on if it will stand like a flag pole. the minute it does not stand like a flag pole she is disenchanted and ready to stop playing with it. which means she does not understand anything about him and his organ, nor does she hear or regard anything he says about what is pleasurable. She is too busy attaching her ego to him having a flag pole erection. If women don't learn anything else, they need to learn these things and regard it and learn how to re-structure her minds set about appreciating the male organ. she might just find, she will find a deeper bond with that man.
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Beyond , I have to tell you not all of women want something additional through sex although what you said about women do happen in life that's the whole point.... nothing in these regards can ever mean " all" or "everyone" ... it is always a reference to " some".
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what really matters to me is a slim neat figure, well groomed, nice respectful manner in personal conduct... not hung up on designer labels and excesses of such; but is comfortable just living and making things comfortable and enjoyable. There is nothing to flaunt, nor need for exaggeration and certainly no need for constant fictions of drama.
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Actually you do fit a lot of that, plus, you are openly expressive... which I think is quite a refreshing delight in this web.
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Actresses and Actors have multiple teams of people spending hours applying manufactured image making substances on them and wardrobe people using any means to make their clothes fit as if they are glued on, then comes the 're-touching team' after the film or photo shoot is done, to do the re-touching.... It's fiction.... some have natural feature that are appealing, but none of that conveys the truth of attitude, disposition and character elements. What we find out is there are many junkies, drunks, party animals, and such and we watch the media filled with a string of flings they mis label as relationships, that lead to quick drama filled ' grab something" divorces. anyone with that kind of income and accessibility that can't build and make a home life and sustain it, is suffering from some malady that may not have a fixed point to begin making corrections and adjustments for stability in relationships. (some) of these people pop out babies like they are making toys in a factory and try and treat them as ornaments for image sake... while the nanny become the care giver. they live for the phone call from the publicist .... with very little limits to what they won't do... for publicity sakes.
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Culture standards based concepts of Beauty as promoted by the media.... this is why they are called " Models"..... Models are promoted for people to "mold themselves by this culture prompted standard. what resulted is, a lot of anorexia, plastic surgery, and such things, of people making mad their lives trying to emulate this promoted image of Modeled depictions. God made the best Models, in the nature creation of the human beings, males and females and God was so masterful.. he made the imagery in any multitude of billions of presentations... naturally in as many shade of human skin tones and hair textures as well as with and without hair..... How marvelous.... yet... some limit themselves to the manufactured imagery of mans promotions.
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