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Love confusion Believe that everyone is looking for in a journey to love and to be loved, will encounter a variety of problems encountered and confused. So what what what to do with problem? One of my friend told me about her confusion. She said she was looking for love and to be loved, there is always a question troubling her, she has been unable to find the correct answer, so she didn't know what to do? She said she often encountered some people who like her or love her, but precisely these people they can't make her heart, she could break your heart with love to marry someone she can't do, but she's afraid to lose the chance to love again, but not against my heart, what should I do? Yet, often she herself fell in love with is someone who does not love her, clearly she was not tempted. It makes her very confused, what should I do? How to make correct decisions? To make a choice? This phenomenon is normal or non-normal anyway? Is universal or individual phenomenon? So is there really love? To love and to be love if I can get it? Her own love problems? |
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people don't want to work to build and grow love, they are too busy looking for infatuation to over power them and then they have the delusion that infatuation will last forever with its initial bewildering fantasy energy. Love is work, its making and building, growing, learning and living within the reality of what that work and those works entail.... If one wants a fantasy adventure they may need to buy a lifetime pass to Disneyland.... or take up a suite in Disney land and hope they can live with the fantasy adulation's. If they want love, then commit to the work of learning how to share, how to live with the idiosyncrasies of another and stop expecting some fantasy where they are the star on the stage and everything is set up as a prop to appease them. Geez... people have read and believe too much Cinderella fantasy... This world has simply people, men and women, both fallible, both in need for continual growth, continual learning, each of which will have SITUATIONAL highs of situational fancy, and moments of confusions and growth challenges and the cycle continues.. People first need to grow up and get over romantic fantasy games, and become open to deal with reality life and love as being a process that involve the works of the heart the minds and the daily realism's, and not some expected tingle between their legs and some fantasy in their mind. or they can forget love, because they don't respect nor understand what it is, beyond their fantasy delusions aims for someone to be a caricature figure aimed to do nothing but entertain them. .
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I think the point of this, should be on an emotional level. We allow people to have a variety of hobbies, such as music, sports, clothing, Food.. And so on, is not to limit their hobby. But people in the choice of my dear people, choice of a marriage partner, also have many different hobbies, some people like slim, some people like fat, some people love love to laugh, some people like serious... Not the same. These no ground for blame... But, when you meet the one who love you, he loves you, but you don't love him, what should I do? If you choose to give up the man, if this is how to do a good job? If you will promise, to marry him, you will find this is a mistake... So, in the face of a love you and you are didn't love his people, in the end how to choose the appropriate??
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I think the point of this, should be on an emotional level. We allow people to have a variety of hobbies, such as music, sports, clothing, Food.. And so on, is not to limit their hobby. But people in the choice of my dear people, choice of a marriage partner, also have many different hobbies, some people like slim, some people like fat, some people love love to laugh, some people like serious... Not the same. These no ground for blame... But, when you meet the one who love you, he loves you, but you don't love him, what should I do? If you choose to give up the man, if this is how to do a good job? If you will promise, to marry him, you will find this is a mistake... So, in the face of a love you and you are didn't love his people, in the end how to choose the appropriate?? Precisely what I am expounding upon, to make as statement .
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Yes, and didn't love from an emotional level love, is in their own right, but how to choose love and didn't love? Is a very confusing...
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I agree with very good view,, and thank you for your sincere advice. You said when I fall in love with a person, want to have enough patience to wait for him,,,, this is very important, very enlightening. We often lack the patience and confidence. I often do, in doubt and worry through,,,. Often lose the opportunity, lose the one you love.. But it is very difficult, very difficult to overcome their own, stick to it... Really difficult.... But this should not be the loss of confidence in the reason.....
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This is an interesting sentence! I believe. Love makes the world become very small. People become very close distance, the habit of people is also more and more close and convergence.... The power of love is great. This is why we came here looking for love...
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Oh. You misunderstood me, you don't know the truth. I can forgive you say so. If there is no reason, how so of a person? We have no enemy no resentment or even don't know each other. Because you don't see the man who wrote it, he did not question, but is already a personal attack, I deleted him, a bad influence. He is in my personal malicious personal attacks, too, so I deleted a piece, then give him a message, warning him. Do not allow this to continue. Here is the study of local, not allowed to violate the blog purpose as fabrications. Comment of course welcome, is always welcome, or stick out stem what? That is called the discussion, but the principle is on the wrong things, this is the bottom line! Discussion rather than help, more than who do, he is completely out of the article itself, even irrational take my face that,,, not endure the malicious ridicule! In this world there are rules, not defy laws human and divine whim. He has been a violation, so I warned him. Let the Mo some people understand the rules two words mean!
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............If someone does not give it to you, then move on, falling in love again is not really that difficult or rare....... For some, maybe it is easy to stop and fall in love again.. For others? it is not that easy.. But still, I believe in love.. It must be somewhere out there, Ixqizi  Good luck for all of us But the love between a man and a woman, I feel even more special, men and women are created, their union, has become the love of the soil... We nurture it, take care of it, the reason is because we cannot do without it! Both men and women love, is he or she, is very happy every day, even every moment! That is how good! Whenever I see the "Roman holiday" in that movie, will let me more yearning for love.. But, what is love? What is love? What is true love??? How to find love? How to love? How to keep your love?? These are all the problems.... 
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Oh, that's really good, we are caring people. What do you think of love? 
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Oh, right, When love happens, if lost, really make people sad, can not be repaired, the kind of pain, is pain in the heart, unable to extricate themselves... So, love is a double-edged sword, when you get the love, it will make you a sweet and happy and happy,,, when love lost, you will feel a day down.... Oh... We have to pursue him??? I think, only a brave man, will be to pursue love!! 
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I have no reason not to believe in love, because I have a lot of love. Can I bring my love to other people, the same, I will find a love This is the reward of love, that is the world of all things return rule. I also believe that the sincere, honest, Kindness, tolerance And is willing to help others. Why you believe it? Because people can obtain them from me!
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