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beyondfantasy3 113M
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1/5/2014 10:54 am

people don't want to work to build and grow love, they are too busy looking for infatuation to over power them and then they have the delusion that infatuation will last forever with its initial bewildering fantasy energy.

Love is work, its making and building, growing, learning and living within the reality of what that work and those works entail....
If one wants a fantasy adventure they may need to buy a lifetime pass to Disneyland.... or take up a suite in Disney land and hope they can live with the fantasy adulation's.

If they want love, then commit to the work of learning how to share, how to live with the idiosyncrasies of another and stop expecting some fantasy where they are the star on the stage and everything is set up as a prop to appease them.

Geez... people have read and believe too much Cinderella fantasy...
This world has simply people, men and women, both fallible, both in need for continual growth, continual learning, each of which will have SITUATIONAL highs of situational fancy, and moments of confusions and growth challenges and the cycle continues..

People first need to grow up and get over romantic fantasy games, and become open to deal with reality life and love as being a process that involve the works of the heart the minds and the daily realism's, and not some expected tingle between their legs and some fantasy in their mind.

or they can forget love, because they don't respect nor understand what it is, beyond their fantasy delusions aims for someone to be a caricature figure aimed to do nothing but entertain them. .


beyondfantasy3 113M
4740 posts
1/6/2014 7:32 am

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I think the point of this, should be on an emotional level.

Precisely what I am expounding upon, to make as statement .